Husband cheating, should you tell wife.

[edgeknife]

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depende kung ang iya husband friend nako or dili.

[Rance]

Be prepared for the consequences.. definitely, the husband will not accept it when you will confront him in front of his wife.. you are just putting yourself into a burning flame.
If you have a strong proof then think twice

[rickmags2000]

what she dont know wont hurt her,

in fairness to the couple and in fairness to you, the problems they may have may be deeper that you wouldnt be able to resolve or may just complicate by you telling either of them, let them be for awhile it may be just a fling...

i dont condone this though but sometimes guys need a break not this type though

[kd19orcinus]

If close friend nimo ang husband, you can talk to him and tell him to change his style kay masakpan na.... seriously, the best that you can do is tell the guy that its going to ruin his family and their lives in general.....

[b|tcH_g0dd3sS]

what she dont know wont hurt her,

This is something we should not condone. Thinking that what a person doesn't know won't hurt him/her? How long do you think can you keep a secret?

[Rance]

But your intention is to help right?

[Onins]

What exactly is your point or motive in meddling with another couple's marital problems? Is it because you dont like the husband and so you want the wife to know his sexcapades?; is it because you want the wife for yourself?; or is it geniuine concern for the wellness of their marriage? Of course I'm sure its for the latter peace bai!

There are so many ways to help them, you can talk to both, separately, without each other knowing, inspiring and encouraging them. Giving advice without actually dropping the cheating thing. Bottomline, you did what you want all along, to help with their problems. Remember you can help without even having to spill the beans. The cheating thing is a very serious problem the you might wreck the whole marriage instead of saving it.

[Streetcar]

Bitaw seriously, what makes you feel responsible for other people's problems? You dont live in the same house with them or breathe each other in and out. Its really their problem. Its not good to meddle in other people's affairs. Not to worry, they'll soon discover that for themselves and you wont feel terribly bad for being responsible for breaking a marriage. Where there is smoke there's fire. There are no secrets that stays a secret. It will eventually come out in the open so let them find that out for themselves and you'll be thankful that you were not the one responsible for breaking a marriage. Let them solve their own marital problem. They'll come to terms with themselves sooner or later and you stay out of it.

[b|tcH_g0dd3sS]

This is incredible! This author have already said he/she is friends with the couple, Close friends as a matter of fact! How could he not be part of the problem when he knows a part of it? And how could he call himself a true friend when he won't at least talk to one of them? Say, the husband?

What are you?! Just Good Weather Friends?!

[dexterdal]

What exactly is your point or motive in meddling with another couple's marital problems? Is it because you dont like the husband and so you want the wife to know his sexcapades?; is it because you want the wife for yourself?; or is it geniuine concern for the wellness of their marriage? Of course I'm sure its for the latter peace bai!

hahahahahha, what a comment!!!!!!!

This is incredible! This author have already said he/she is friends with the couple, Close friends as a matter of fact! How could he not be part of the problem when he knows a part of it? And how could he call himself a true friend when he won't at least talk to one of them? Say, the husband?

What are you?! Just Good Weather Friends?!

hehehehehehe