tabang! 1 week nako wala txc

[Blackjellybean27]

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korek! let him realise his mistakes... 2o ka anang dli kaya, kaya kaau na nmu oi coz you were not born together...

corek cla!
nag salig man gd bf mo na ikaw always una say sorry...
if he really values you, then let him do the talk this time.
stop urself from texting first. control control muna. easy to say, hard to do. but kaya gani ng other girls, so kaya mo rin.

[louiese]

wow! amazing naka survive ka four years of that sh1t? hehehehe!
grabe ha. bow nako nimo sis!

naa ko tpad ron na guy na naka read sa situation mo.
what he has to say:
"about his pagka "nice guy", you're making that sort of a reason to yourself na d jud na sya that kind of bad guy. hmmmm think bout it this way daw. when he's being mean to you like that, he's not exactly good guy and just showing his true colors. ay kalisod e- explain. it's like who are you trying to kid? yourself? that's what he's doing to you, yet you say he is a nice guy. nice basta good mood sya, nice basta nice ka niya and good girl ka, nice sya kng wlay problema."

bitaw sis, i think my friend is right. we put up with our partner's crap sometimes k:
#1 (and most impt) - we love him/her
#2 - we keep denying that he's gonna change eventually
#3 - hard to let go

karon na uyab palng mo, he's like that na. putting you through so much pain. imagine kng married na kmu later on and living in one house, does that mean he'll just leave you whenever he feels like it, k nag away mo? unya in the middle of the night while you are taking care of the baby cge pa jud ka worry kng asa na sya, etc etc etc...
think about that...

thank you sa reply sis. as in bootan mn jud cya. tanan man cguro taw naay bad side. pero kung dili mi mag away kay ok raman jud cya kaau. nya i can prove jud kung unsa ko nya ka love (wala jud ko niya hilabti for 4 years namo ngka uyab) kay he respect me dw. pero kung mag away nami mka huna2 ko nga dili ko nya love ky nganong ma abot ug dugay kaau nga dli ko nya texan. according pa nya, kng mag away dw mi, dli dw hilabtan ang LOVE. dili daw dapat ma kwaan among love for each other. ipa daplin sa dw ang Love pra dli mahilabtan. ang naka y lami anang ipa daplin ang love, ky ma ilisan xa ang pride. ma manhid cya. unfair man kaau sa akng side gd. gusto nako mo undang ani among kalaki nga uyab2 knohay. pro dili mn nako makaya mag inusara. dependent na au ko nya. kung naa koy problema sa family, wala na cya. nya ni commit nami sa usa'g usa nga watever happens, dli jd dw mi mo buhi. ambot nya nganong dli cya mka realize sa iya sayop nga yawyawan man unta ko. the more ko mo sturya/yawyaw nya sa iyang pgka ambot kay the more noon cya masuko nako

[Qyztina]

wow! amazing naka survive ka four years of that sh1t? hehehehe!
grabe ha. bow nako nimo sis!

naa ko tpad ron na guy na naka read sa situation mo.
what he has to say:
"about his pagka "nice guy", you're making that sort of a reason to yourself na d jud na sya that kind of bad guy. hmmmm think bout it this way daw. when he's being mean to you like that, he's not exactly good guy and just showing his true colors. ay kalisod e- explain. it's like who are you trying to kid? yourself? that's what he's doing to you, yet you say he is a nice guy. nice basta good mood sya, nice basta nice ka niya and good girl ka, nice sya kng wlay problema."

bitaw sis, i think my friend is right. we put up with our partner's crap sometimes k:
#1 (and most impt) - we love him/her
#2 - we keep denying that he's gonna change eventually
#3 - hard to let go

karon na uyab palng mo, he's like that na. putting you through so much pain. imagine kng married na kmu later on and living in one house, does that mean he'll just leave you whenever he feels like it, k nag away mo? unya in the middle of the night while you are taking care of the baby cge pa jud ka worry kng asa na sya, etc etc etc...
think about that...

korek kaau ka, sis jelly!

@LOUIESE: in short, in denial ka sa tanang nakita nmong negativities aning lakiha... u can fool urself not us though message2 lang ning atoa... girl, wake-up... u dont deserve to be treated like that!!! daghang laki dha, someone out there is better than him whom you deserve... this guy is a loser and is pulling you down with him as well... kung sa gatas pa, ayaw na siya daginuta coz pan-os nana xa kaau, dugay ra like 4years ago ra...

[Qyztina]

thank you sa reply sis. as in bootan mn jud cya. tanan man cguro taw naay bad side. pero kung dili mi mag away kay ok raman jud cya kaau. nya i can prove jud kung unsa ko nya ka love (wala jud ko niya hilabti for 4 years namo ngka uyab) kay he respect me dw. pero kung mag away nami mka huna2 ko nga dili ko nya love ky nganong ma abot ug dugay kaau nga dli ko nya texan. according pa nya, kng mag away dw mi, dli dw hilabtan ang LOVE. dili daw dapat ma kwaan among love for each other. ipa daplin sa dw ang Love pra dli mahilabtan. ang naka y lami anang ipa daplin ang love, ky ma ilisan xa ang pride. ma manhid cya. unfair man kaau sa akng side gd. gusto nako mo undang ani among kalaki nga uyab2 knohay. pro dili mn nako makaya mag inusara. dependent na au ko nya. kung naa koy problema sa family, wala na cya. nya ni commit nami sa usa'g usa nga watever happens, dli jd dw mi mo buhi. ambot nya nganong dli cya mka realize sa iya sayop nga yawyawan man unta ko. the more ko mo sturya/yawyaw nya sa iyang pgka ambot kay the more noon cya masuko nako

if buotan xa, dli niya daginuton ang gamay ang giawayan ninyo... still, i can say that you are in denial and is blinded by all his emotional wretchedness... still, you make the last say even if how patiently we want you to realise the situation... believe me, if youre relationship will continue like this until you get married-both of you will never grow up emotionally... he is emotionally blackmailing you esp with his pride... ambot nalang sis, sa akoa pa na gbuhat sa lalaki makatilaw jud xa unsa ka-astig ang cebuana.. LOL!

btaw, goodluck nalang sa imu lovelife... hope things will be better esp with the way this guy treats you...

[Qyztina]

@ ts, that style isn't a good start sis.... in the long run,u wud see even more of him...mas grabe pa na sis labi na magdugay mo...sayon2 nlng ka ana....

btw sa 4 yrs diay mo ana nya? whattah heck!

LOL! as in, pwede na ipuli nilang GOMBURZA sa pagka-martyr which is not not not really really really healthy in a relationship...

[louiese]

4 for years, wala man ko niya ingon ania sa tibook 4 years.. mga sugod sa among 2 n a haf year cguro nga murag na change na cya. spoiled ra cguro kaau cya nako kay bisan sa akng pagka maldita, ma bootan kog kalit kong di ko tagdon niya. kung maglagot na cya. natural rman cguro ng maglagot cya nako pero d naman cguro natural ng pa abton ug pila ka weeks. pro kayahon nako bahala ug d cya mo txt ug pila pa ka weeks. kung dili najud cya mo txt, aw wala nakoy mabuhat. reject najud ko nya after all sa tanan love akng ghatag

[Meebo]

laina pud ana oi, nanu man ang mga women naa jud tendency to fall with people who are like if patients pa terminally ill na. lol. wai hope, but still.. mu hold on jud sila, thinkin they can fix him. not that im saying na ing.ana imong bf. nagwonder lang ko. anyway, sa imo problem sis, lower your pride nlng. jst say sorry. and thats that. no need to fuss. compromise nlng gud. kung di pud xa aw ayaw pugsa. make him an astronaut. give him space. lol. soooooos sis. ingnon lang tika daan, pareha mi ug batasan sa imo bf. mao na ako gibuhat sa ako gf b4 pareha ra sa imo bf.. and ang gi buhat sa ako gf nangita jud xa ug way to say sorry in the sincerest way, ni adto jud xa sa amo even if akong fault, nya di jud xa gnahan mu buhat ana considering na conservative type to xa, laliman ka anang babae na ang mu anha nimo. nakig bulag ko niya eventually, but then as the saying goes, u never miss the water till the well runs dry. nakig balik jud ko niya. she's my wife now.. if its meant to be, its meant to be. good luck!

[Blackjellybean27]

thank you sa reply sis. as in bootan mn jud cya. tanan man cguro taw naay bad side. pero kung dili mi mag away kay ok raman jud cya kaau. nya i can prove jud kung unsa ko nya ka love (wala jud ko niya hilabti for 4 years namo ngka uyab) kay he respect me dw. pero kung mag away nami mka huna2 ko nga dili ko nya love ky nganong ma abot ug dugay kaau nga dli ko nya texan. according pa nya, kng mag away dw mi, dli dw hilabtan ang LOVE. dili daw dapat ma kwaan among love for each other. ipa daplin sa dw ang Love pra dli mahilabtan. ang naka y lami anang ipa daplin ang love, ky ma ilisan xa ang pride. ma manhid cya. unfair man kaau sa akng side gd. gusto nako mo undang ani among kalaki nga uyab2 knohay. pro dili mn nako makaya mag inusara. dependent na au ko nya. kung naa koy problema sa family, wala na cya. nya ni commit nami sa usa'g usa nga watever happens, dli jd dw mi mo buhi. ambot nya nganong dli cya mka realize sa iya sayop nga yawyawan man unta ko. the more ko mo sturya/yawyaw nya sa iyang pgka ambot kay the more noon cya masuko nako

you're welcome, NP.
I'm not saying super expert jud ko when it comes to this.... well thinking about it, murag na expert na jud ko cguro sa countless heartbreaks ko.. and well at my age, mejo dghan na.hahahaha! all we're trying to do here is give you advice, maybe make you see what's beyond him....
it's true na he might not be like that at first, but you have to remember as well that as time goes by thats when a person's true colors start to show.
about the part na he respects you, considering na lau mo kaau... it's easy to say that. respect you, doesnt really mean he loves you. k nanu, he might respect u as a girl lang thats all. oi, im not saying na he doesnt love you ha. im just trying to point out that love and respect are different things.
i understand naman where you are coming from, na d mo kaya to stand alone. but sis you got to remember that its all in the mind. nahadlok lng ka cz hadlok ka to be alone, esp in solving/conquering your other problems.
we dont know your guy and we dont know you as well. ikaw lng maka decide ana. but i hope in your decision, you open your eyes wider. think if its really what it seems.
love is not blind baya, the lovers are the ones who are blind.
in my situation before, same man ang ex ko. super nice guy to the max when we started out. pag dugay namo k true colors nag gawas na. but guess what i turned a blind eye to it, in denial kng baga. sa almost 10 years na relationship, denial gihapon ang beauty ko. hehehe. but finally i saw the truth. and moved on.
once again, im not saying na ur guy's like that. k i dont know him. ikaw lng maka tell ana k even though we post all sorts of advice here to leave him or whatever, its stil up to you.

[louiese]

laina pud ana oi, nanu man ang mga women naa jud tendency to fall with people who are like if patients pa terminally ill na. lol. wai hope, but still.. mu hold on jud sila, thinkin they can fix him. not that im saying na ing.ana imong bf. nagwonder lang ko. anyway, sa imo problem sis, lower your pride nlng. jst say sorry. and thats that. no need to fuss. compromise nlng gud. kung di pud xa aw ayaw pugsa. make him an astronaut. give him space. lol. soooooos sis. ingnon lang tika daan, pareha mi ug batasan sa imo bf. mao na ako gibuhat sa ako gf b4 pareha ra sa imo bf.. and ang gi buhat sa ako gf nangita jud xa ug way to say sorry in the sincerest way, ni adto jud xa sa amo even if akong fault, nya di jud xa gnahan mu buhat ana considering na conservative type to xa, laliman ka anang babae na ang mu anha nimo. nakig bulag ko niya eventually, but then as the saying goes, u never miss the water till the well runs dry. nakig balik jud ko niya. she's my wife now.. if its meant to be, its meant to be. good luck!

haha pwd mohilak? mka hilak mn ta ani bro. mka suya kaau. kanang gbuhat sa imong uyab sauna nga mo ad2 sa nu balay kng mag away mo, nabuhat npd na nako. cge kog doorbel sa ila pro wala ni tingog ila doorbell. dugay kaau ko nag standby gawas sa ila gate bsag init kaau. ako cya gtawagan pra magpahibaw nga naa ko sa gawas pero dili nya tubagon akng call. ako cya gtxan pro wala ra ko nya tagda. ako gtawagan iya bro pra cya nlng mo abri nako pro skul mn iya bro. iya bro nlng nanawag sa akng uyab pra pa abrihan ang gate. pro akng uyab iya gi ingnan iya bro ug "ayaw pag apil apil namo" gbuhat na nako tanan pagka martyr pero balik balik lang ghapon ang situation every tym mg away mi. kahibaw mn ko love ko nya. mao ng d jd ko mo buhi. ni commit naman mi duha nga d jd mi mg buwag bsag unsa mahitabo. unfair lng jd au sa akng side ky ako ra mg suffer pirmi. pro saon maning na inlab mn. hahaysssss

sensya na kaau nnu ha.. buang mn cguro ko.

salamat pd kaau sa pag hatag ug tym nako.

[Qyztina]

you're welcome, NP.
I'm not saying super expert jud ko when it comes to this.... well thinking about it, murag na expert na jud ko cguro sa countless heartbreaks ko.. and well at my age, mejo dghan na.hahahaha! all we're trying to do here is give you advice, maybe make you see what's beyond him....
it's true na he might not be like that at first, but you have to remember as well that as time goes by thats when a person's true colors start to show.
about the part na he respects you, considering na lau mo kaau... it's easy to say that. respect you, doesnt really mean he loves you. k nanu, he might respect u as a girl lang thats all. oi, im not saying na he doesnt love you ha. im just trying to point out that love and respect are different things.
i understand naman where you are coming from, na d mo kaya to stand alone. but sis you got to remember that its all in the mind. nahadlok lng ka cz hadlok ka to be alone, esp in solving/conquering your other problems.
we dont know your guy and we dont know you as well. ikaw lng maka decide ana. but i hope in your decision, you open your eyes wider. think if its really what it seems.
love is not blind baya, the lovers are the ones who are blind.
in my situation before, same man ang ex ko. super nice guy to the max when we started out. pag dugay namo k true colors nag gawas na. but guess what i turned a blind eye to it, in denial kng baga. sa almost 10 years na relationship, denial gihapon ang beauty ko. hehehe. but finally i saw the truth. and moved on.
once again, im not saying na ur guy's like that. k i dont know him. ikaw lng maka tell ana k even though we post all sorts of advice here to leave him or whatever, its stil up to you.

LOL! same here sis jelly!!! daghan ng heartaches and heartbreaks nahitabo mao ng inAni nako ka-open minded karon.. preha sakong bana since naa xa sa abroad, i told him pangita nalang ug 'parausan' dha but always remember not to fall inlove with her coz kmi sa imu daughter ang kapalit ana... lisud mn gud ug mg-expect kag maau sa imu partner nga dli niya ma-meet, masakitan ra ka... mao ng openminded na kaau ko sa mga pwedeng mahitabo coz men will always be men, mgpakalalaki jud na sila bisag asa na sila ibutang aning kalibutana... bisag higugma pa sila sa ilang asawa, motilaw jud japon na sa laing putahe... LOL!