tabang! 1 week nako wala txc

[louiese]

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try to talk to ur bf n person na lng sis..ky kng sa txt basin d mo mgka sinabtanay nya mag-away lng mo samut..ing.ana mn aq style of willing ug ganahan nq mkg.peace nya..

dugay na sd kaau ng 1wik oi nga wlay communication..

jzt lower ur pride sis f u want ur relationship to last pro kng kapoi na jud k ug sabut nya, kng kapoi nka pauboz sa imu pride kng ready nka i let go xa then padayuna na lng na imu pride but if supah dupah luv pa nmu xa then lower lng ur pride..ana na lng..hehehehehh

then sis kng mgka peace nmu s2ryahi na ninyu na problem and then learn from ur mistakezzz..

lisud mn gud kay layo mi kaayo. mo tabok pa ug dagat para magkakita mi.

lower my pride? huhu pirmi naman jud tawn ko ana oi. ni suway nlng pud ko ug tupong sa iya pride karon ky gusto ko cya napud mo una ug txt nako. karon kay gusto nako mo surrender ana. gusto nako magpa ubos pra mahuman na ang away. pero murag dili naman gud sakto kung ako mo una text kay i know, in.anion lng jpn ko nya puhon..

ka daghan naman ni nahitabo. unya kung ma OK nami, ako cya sturyaan ana. mo promise2x daun cya nga dili na niya usbon. pero nig away namo balik, mao gihapon. murag sirang plaka. balik2x jud ang situation.

kung huna hunaon btaw nako kay murag wala najud cyay love nako. pero kung ma ok nami kay ma feel napud nako balik nga iya jd ko love. ang problema lang jud, kada away namo, mogawas jud ni nga issue. balik balik jud. walay kahumanan. (

feel nako nag salig cya ky kahibaw cya nga ako ghatag ang akong 100% love pra nya. kahibaw cya nga dili ko ka biya niya ky super dependent and attach ko nya. (

[louiese]

sorry to say this but ur trapped in his sick cycle...a relationship is supposed to be a two-way street... kung mag cge lang mo ing ana, d na na cya healthy.. mahimo namo masochista anang kalakiha hehehe... u guys should talk it out b4 asa na na padulngan k ang tawo bya, mapol-an if padaun lang ing ana...

how i wish naay maka sturya niya. kay cya ang klasi nga taw nga dili mo open up sa iya problema. bisan sa iyang problema nako, dili ko nya i-confront. iya rajud ipa agi ug duwa2 or lingaw2x ang problema. dili nya analyson kung ngano nag away mi. ngano na abot ug 1 week ang wala nami nag text. kansi au ko ky ako cge rag huna2x niya pro cya, nag lipay2 lng. waaaaaaaaaa (

[louiese]

sounds to me uyab2 ni sa txt.
i think the best way that you will do kung nahan jud ka makigbalik is to call him and set a meeting between you two.
don't txt saying sorry kay wla nay ayo. wlay value!
looks like your depending your relationship over a cellphone. what do you think will happen kung wlay network?

nag kuyog mi for 4 years. dili lang ni sa txt. uyab mi as taw. dili sa celphone lang pero karon layo naman mi ky naa kos pikas isla. cya naa dira sa cebu. tagsa ra kaau mi mag kita. every other month lang.

[louiese]

kung naa pa lang jud mi sa isa ka lugar mangita jd ko ug "uyab2 counseling" nga mo sturya namo. kanang kami duha mo atubang. murag marriage counseling btw. immature au cya in tyms of ingon ani nga situation.

[Blackjellybean27]

wow! amazing naka survive ka four years of that sh1t? hehehehe!
grabe ha. bow nako nimo sis!

naa ko tpad ron na guy na naka read sa situation mo.
what he has to say:
"about his pagka "nice guy", you're making that sort of a reason to yourself na d jud na sya that kind of bad guy. hmmmm think bout it this way daw. when he's being mean to you like that, he's not exactly good guy and just showing his true colors. ay kalisod e- explain. it's like who are you trying to kid? yourself? that's what he's doing to you, yet you say he is a nice guy. nice basta good mood sya, nice basta nice ka niya and good girl ka, nice sya kng wlay problema."

bitaw sis, i think my friend is right. we put up with our partner's crap sometimes k:
#1 (and most impt) - we love him/her
#2 - we keep denying that he's gonna change eventually
#3 - hard to let go

karon na uyab palng mo, he's like that na. putting you through so much pain. imagine kng married na kmu later on and living in one house, does that mean he'll just leave you whenever he feels like it, k nag away mo? unya in the middle of the night while you are taking care of the baby cge pa jud ka worry kng asa na sya, etc etc etc...
think about that...

[yram16]

long distanz relationship sd d.i na n.u sis?

tsk3..unza nmu kadugaya wla ng.kita?

lisud mn d.i na n.u situation sis..

d k xur kng tinuod jud iya g.sulti ky d mn d.i n person..

divah ikanga nila d only way to know f dat person is telling d truth is looking stryt into his eyezz..

ikaw nmn gud ang mka decide ana..

so for 4yirzz ing.ana jud n.u style kng mg.away nmu??

ikaw sis willing pa jud k nga padayunon na nmu bisag history has to repeat itself??

[Qyztina]

ladies, if you dont know if you are treated right or not by ur man - or if you dont know how your man should treat you... watch mog Katorse... kanang pagtrato ni Jojo (Enchong Dee) kang Nene (Erich Gonzales) is the best way how a man should treat his woman...

i just want to share this quote to all women who loves their man more than themselves...!!!

"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."

"Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings."

hope these will inspire you... always remember to love yourself first so that others will love you...

[lovely_chic]

somehow, mka relate man sad ta ni..my advise for you sis is wait for him to text you back. the reason why ing ana sya karon is gi-anad cguro nimo nga ikaw na lang pirme ang moduko everytime u hev problems..di sad na maayo. that's really unhealthy for you both. why not wait for him to initiate the talk? ilingaw imo kaugalingon para di ka kahuna-huna ug txt nya...believe me mka realize ra na sya and he will even love you more for that..

[Qyztina]

somehow, mka relate man sad ta ni..my advise for you sis is wait for him to text you back. the reason why ing ana sya karon is gi-anad cguro nimo nga ikaw na lang pirme ang moduko everytime u hev problems..di sad na maayo. that's really unhealthy for you both. why not wait for him to initiate the talk? ilingaw imo kaugalingon para di ka kahuna-huna ug txt nya...believe me mka realize ra na sya and he will even love you more for that..

korek! let him realise his mistakes... 2o ka anang dli kaya, kaya kaau na nmu oi coz you were not born together...

[acecrystal]

@ ts, that style isn't a good start sis.... in the long run,u wud see even more of him...mas grabe pa na sis labi na magdugay mo...sayon2 nlng ka ana....

btw sa 4 yrs diay mo ana nya? whattah heck!