Choosing between him and your work?

[julz23]

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haha. grabe kaayu ts dah...daghan man kaayug threAD....experienced guro ni niya tol.........

[esotericlove]

hahahaha korak kamo mga bro.. im older than u most siguro thats why.. hehehehe

[urysei]

i can't. i need both or i need my job since i have kids to raise. i am a single mother of 2, and i don't get support from the father of my kids, i can't give him up as well because i love him so much.... i hope he loves me too...

[anm]

even in a married life, a man can't make his wife choose between family and carrier...

[cp103]

haay, faeta pud aning imo situation ts wui. But then again, a lot of people experience things like this, or similar to this. Anyway, all i can say sis is that stick w/ your job wui, especially since you love your job, and practicalan lang ha, it's not easy to find a job na bya karon, especially a job that you love pa jud. Just leave him to rot in hell sis. Trust me, he is not worth it .

[esotericlove]

haay, faeta pud aning imo situation ts wui. But then again, a lot of people experience things like this, or similar to this. Anyway, all i can say sis is that stick w/ your job wui, especially since you love your job, and practicalan lang ha, it's not easy to find a job na bya karon, especially a job that you love pa jud. Just leave him to rot in hell sis. Trust me, he is not worth it .

yes bro, thats what I did. I was hurt but I have to chose my work than him. exactly tama ka he is not worth it jud..

[cp103]

yes bro, thats what I did. I was hurt but I have to chose my work than him. exactly tama ka he is not worth it jud..

It's gud that you think that way, at least you know where you stand, i just hope you stand firm sis, coz the storm is still not over yet.

[esotericlove]

its over na bro, ako na jud gi tell sa ako self to be firm and okay na ko.. atleast dri maka basa kog mga maayo na advise and mawala ako confusion kung tama ko or not.. I know I made the right decission bro.. thanks jud

[RainDrizzle07]

i may not know the whole story but the mere fact that the guy is asking the girl to quit her job is simply an insecure dimwit (pardon my term)... even a person who has half the brain can tell that..

if the person really and truly cares for you, he would support u all the way of whatever field ur in as long as it doesn't bring out the worst in you..

Our work simply sets us apart from our partner, it gives a sense of identity of who we really are and this brings us emotional satisfaction of our being.. and now if the guy can't see that then he's totally selfish... sad to say that...

I love this... ^_^

and good thing that the female choose to stick to her work ^_^

[esotericlove]

I need to chose my work, kasi kung sya sa iya gi ask nko di jud sya worthy kay nagkaila jud mi na mao nana ako work and happy ko.. Maayo sad unta kung iya ika assure nako that he can give what I can get from work. for sure dili thu naa sya work. But dapat la jud ko nya gipapili. insecurity jud ang reason na ako nakita and syempre di jud nya ko that love kay why man ya ko gipa choose, so better chose ko sa work na maka happy man pod nako and I know naa reason tanan things na nahitabo, for sure someone better will come na makadawat nako and di ko need mag choose..