The Unofficial Girl ~> Blissful-Pain

[touch_me_not]

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hi sis....we're on the same boat but the difference is the guy is not yet married,,it's just that he can't afford to let go of his long time gf...i think he loves us both..he cant also afford losing me...hahayz...i know how he feels for me....but i chose to live in righteousness, so i decided to get out of the situation...even if it takes so much strength to do it...it's one of the hardest things to do in life...but i made a sacrifice coz i know that if i chose to stick with him, ill be forever miserable...forever jealous, .....even if at times being with him is like heaven...char! but at times not having him thinking he's with his "real gf" for me is like hell!.......life for me is so messy..yes, girls would hate and condemn you...and im not happy for myself thinking about it....and it's really hurting to know that your man can't tell the world that you are lovers, you always kept your relationship secret..you cant go out anywhere you wanna go...you can't brag to your friends about him...it really sucks!...and the thought that at the end of the day there's always a great possibility that he would chose his real 'gf' would really make me sick!...

our break up was gradual....i lessen the communication...i made myself busy, i go hanging out with friends....i had lots of alibis if at times he would ask me on a date...i know its really really hard to do..but its up to you where will you chose to stand...it's just a matter of sticking out to your principles in life and making a wise decision...coz for me, being the other girl for a year doesnt really made me happy at all....

and still now, i do miss him but not that much..i cried at times but not that much....he still cares for me coz he always tell me that 'thru text only"....but i just ignore it...coz i won't be able to move on if i would still linger on his words...im still in the process of moving on coz i know it will take time to heal...but i think i'm happy with my decision...even if it means hurting myself.....

[RainDrizzle07]

and still now, i do miss him but not that much..i cried at times but not that much....he still cares for me coz he always tell me that 'thru text only"....but i just ignore it...coz i wont be able to move on if i would still linger on this words...

Apir jud teh ka relate kay ko nmo aning ingon ahe.... na linyaha..pero sauna ra noon toh..
pero ug mag break mi ako bf karon.. mao ra japon ako buhaton kay unsa on man pag move on
ug dli nmo tabangan u self dba? ehheeh

[RainDrizzle07]

Mao man jud na dapat. Mubaws. Bwhahahaha. =]
But usahay, sa kasobra nimu kabogo and ka love sa tao. Wa na, di na ka ka-baws. Di na ka kbaw nsaon pagbaws. Hahaha. Kai grabe na kasakit.

Pisti lagi nang tabang kas haya? Haha. Patyon na lagi daun. Haha.

Nahadlok ko anang ikaw napud ang ma cheat on da. Hehe. Basin dira ko padung. Waaa. hahaha.
Noh? Magkat-on nya ko saon pagkamanhid balik. Paita ani uuyy. Hahayy.

Kalagot jud bitaw ang gugma ay.

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ahahaha..ako kay lahi man ko teh..
kad2 panahona nibaws ko meaning
nahurot na nanako hatag tanan love ang
pagsabot nya wla man nag usab..

dah, xa ray kbaw? lolz.. /gg *evil laugh*


UU SAMOK kau kaw pay mahug na bati imbis kay nitabang gani ka..
nya ganahan man au xa mkg balik sa lalaki ang laki d na nya
kapoya lagi styla.. hahaah mao na ako g ingon na
sa love2x noh..may pang laki ma storyaan pag straight
kontras babae..bwahahah.. babae igo ra ka paminawn unya lahi buhaton..lolz

[Shofu]

Whoa!! being a 3rd party is no joke..but time will come nga kapoyan kas situation jz like "touch_me_not"...thats when u start demanding and he finds you annoying...
how would you feel if you trade places with the wife? sakit pud....
the happiness ug uban pang lami will soon fade.....

[inna-iks]

Thank you guys sa inyong mga gipangshare.
But my dude is not yet married. Hahaha. Long time girlfriend lang jud just like you touch_me_not... Ganahan ky ko mucomment each ay but makabuang sa kataas inyong mga sutrya. Hehehe. So ako rang isummarize tanan.

Yes, you guys are right. Murag bogo nku sa tanan bogo if magwait pa ko niya ug nsa kadugaya and yes, grabe, if magkuyog mi? MAWALA TANAN. Tanan doubts nga magkakami and all, makalimot na gud ko sahay nga taken d.i xa. But after sa date namo, wa na, maghilak nasad ko kai ya napud ko byaan to go back to his girl.

But guess what? Call me lucky or meant to be lang jud mi. They broke up. He's mine na. I know, lain kau ko paminawn rn, selfish kaayo sa tanan. Labi na sa part sa girlfriend unta but, IDK. Dugay naman gud ko gahuwat ani. Murag... I never expected pa jud for them to break up, abi gni nku forever kabit nalang ko ani.

Ang ako nalang kakuyawan ani ky magregret ny xa niya mingawon xas yang X. Good luck nako. Times 1 million kasakit.

And, saludo ky ko ninyo. you guys had the guts to leave them. Ako murag never na nko makaya, grabe na kau ko ka-attached nya. grabe sa tanan grabe. Inlove to the max. Aahaaay. Minyo galore na gani padung. Bwahahah.

[touch_me_not]

Thank you guys sa inyong mga gipangshare.
But my dude is not yet married. Hahaha. Long time girlfriend lang jud just like you touch_me_not... Ganahan ky ko mucomment each ay but makabuang sa kataas inyong mga sutrya. Hehehe. So ako rang isummarize tanan.

Yes, you guys are right. Murag bogo nku sa tanan bogo if magwait pa ko niya ug nsa kadugaya and yes, grabe, if magkuyog mi? MAWALA TANAN. Tanan doubts nga magkakami and all, makalimot na gud ko sahay nga taken d.i xa. But after sa date namo, wa na, maghilak nasad ko kai ya napud ko byaan to go back to his girl.

But guess what? Call me lucky or meant to be lang jud mi. They broke up. He's mine na. I know, lain kau ko paminawn rn, selfish kaayo sa tanan. Labi na sa part sa girlfriend unta but, IDK. Dugay naman gud ko gahuwat ani. Murag... I never expected pa jud for them to break up, abi gni nku forever kabit nalang ko ani.


Ang ako nalang kakuyawan ani ky magregret ny xa niya mingawon xas yang X. Good luck nako. Times 1 million kasakit.

And, saludo ky ko ninyo. you guys had the guts to leave them. Ako murag never na nko makaya, grabe na kau ko ka-attached nya. grabe sa tanan grabe. Inlove to the max. Aahaaay. Minyo galore na gani padung. Bwahahah.

nahh sis!...parehas jud diay kaayo tag situation...apir!...heheh...and if gustohon jud naku xa ilogon, i think mabuhat man guro na naku but it's just that mahadlok lang ko na at the end magmahay xa mingawon xa sa sa iya ex...mao sad na ako greatest fear jud....and i know how it feels man gud if you are being cheated...if sakitan ta ki kabit ra ta..mas grabeh ka sakit ang mafeel sa ge cheatan...just like my bestfriend....she just found out lately that her long-time bf for 5 years was cheating on her for almost 2 years...and grabeh sad jud to na klace na kabit ki geaway jud niya ako bestfriend...then ang kapait ki pag ask sa ako bestfriend sa iya bf f he likes the girl niingon nitubag sad iya bf na "oo"...hala sah almost suicidal jud ako bestfriend..na depress..mae gani nadala ra jud namog am-am....they broke up for a little while but the good thing is xa man ang gipili sa guy....pero nagbalik tood cila but wa sad klaro coz magduda man ako bestfriend na cge pa sila contact sa kabit...mura na jud paranoid ako bestfriend.....heheh...celfon, ym, email e check fs, fb..tanan e check...and sa karon she's undergoing counselling pa....and in their situation nakarelate ko sa ako self sa kabit..hehe..mao konsenxa ko....looy sad ko..hahayz!...

pero imoha sad na sis...mao man sad na imo kalipay..ur right maybe ur really meant for each other....ur lucky kaw ang gipili meaning to say mas love jud ka niya....mao sad jud na inyo luv story..hehe...GOOD LUCK!...

[ashcries]

Have you ever cheated on someone? NO
Have you ever tried being THE THIRD PARTY? I feel like I am NOW but unintentional pud. We're both hoping and praying nga kami jud magkakuyog in the end. The reason nga ngalisud xag biya sa current girl of 3 years is she has a heart defect-- naay buslot ang kasing2x. Luoy kaayo mao sabot lang pud ko even if it hurts sometimes. Thank God I'm a stronger and mature person now kay kung dili dugay nako gasige hilak because of the whole situation. What's amazing about sa amoang situation is it's clean, open and honest. That's why we are both confident of whatever will happen. And we have both agreed nga if ever magbuwag na sila dili dayun mi magkauyab. Wait lang jud when ang right time nga Iya ihatag.
Have you ever tried causing a break up or let's just say, have you ever tried messing up someone's relationship before? NO
Have you ever tried being the culprit after a heartbreak? NO
Ever been unfaithful? NO
Have you ever left someone that loves you so much for someone whom you love the most, and who loves you back as well? But you can't be together -- because he's taken. NO

[Fern]

but it doesnt change the fact that you ruined other peoples lives .. if you ever did

[brooke_04]

good for you u had ur happy ending....

[simply_me]

waaa...your a very good writer..ma.feel jud ba na it came from the heart..hehehe..=]