i don't understand my father..

[ronz_rodz]

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sometimes you can't understand your father maybe because of misunderstanding or you can fully understand your father until you reach the age of fatherhood...

[entz_fire]

normal lang na nga strikto ang father labina kon miagi ug bugoy bugoy.

[Tirong-say]

He is just protecting you, lisud baya ang panahon karon, daghan mga daotang tawo, mao siguro nga estrikto kaayo siya nimo.......

[yvonne6]

ang ako ra ikasulti is, u will never understand how to be a parent unless u become one. you have to be in that situation para makasabot ka nga dili sad diay dali ang mahimong parent

[neneng_2c]

someday, you'll miss your hated father.. you will miss how strict he is.
and in those days, you will find out that how important all he has done for you.

be thankful for he is there to protect and guide you.. you have achieve what you have right now b'coz of him. some people now are lost because no one is guiding them, and here you are hating the person who is doing a wonderful job.

u r absolutely rite bout dis. mayo na kayo ni kaysa wa kay papa. my papa died wen i was 8, puyo mi w/ relatives sus daghana mangasaba mura ug military heirarchy kay kani laging wa tay tag-iya. lahi man ng naa jud ka set of parents kay cla man gasto & take care nmo so c la ra pod mangasaba. yet we didn't take it as an offense nstead we did wat dey want so graduate mi tanan nya ndependent na mi. kron wa nay magbuot namo. u hav a lot of blessings sis b grateful!

[xinevirtucio]

my dad is always away

and i wished he saw me grew up...but i understood why he has to frequently leave me and my mom

i never took it against him.

because of this....OP au..as overprotective...but not in a sense nga yawyawan ka...xagitan ka...

he is OP in his own way...dugangan pa nga only child ko...

until now 23 nko..di gali ko kabasta basta lakaw kung di ko mutug-an sa itinerary nko....kasuway ko 3pm palang gpangta nko...

i didn't mind, tagsa rmn sad mi mgkita...

usahay makaingon ko..paeta di ko kalakaw...di ko ka night life...hehehe...

pero tawaan raman nko...kapoi sad ng ingana...and hasolan nsad ko mananghid ug perting dugaya mahuman kai maglitanya pako sa akoa isulti niya..hehehe...

nakauyab ko...mura pa gali magselos..pero di mn xa muangal kai mamisita mn ang laki...den makigstorya man sad nila...hehehe...

stricto akoa papa in his own way...pag college..di jd ko kasabot niya..labina if bag-o xa abot..

pero iya lang ko ingnan nga di pako kasabot karon kai wa paman koi pamilya,makasabot rako inig abot sa panahon nga naa nkoi pamilya...

mao jd na ila linya...kai kita anak..d mn jd ta makasabot...kai atoa tan aw higpit cla..gihikawan ta sa atong kalipay....

pero psalamat bya ko...na stricto cla..kai nahuman ko..hehehe..

bitaw oi....kung mawala imo papa..diha rka magpangta niya...mao..sabta lang sa..asa ra btw na...

ako papa ron..chill nlng mi..kai tapolan nmn sd ko maglaag mao mgkuyog nami pirme...^^

[Egoist]

Reality is nobody understands anybody

[wenlove24]

kadaghanan mn jud siguro ingon ana ang problema..pero try to consider pud giunsa siya pagdala sa iyang parents..kun sa psychology pa diha man gud na nagstart...siguro basin ingon ana sya nimo ky mao pud iya gidak-an...if kiwawan jud ka mo istorya niya, try to write him a letter. i know it works especially if its from the heart. ayw kalimot na anak ra jud ta...bisan duna sila sayop usahay makatapsing pud sila sa atong mga future...take it from me...i speak from experience...di gud ko makaistorya sa akong papa about very personal stuff much more about anything..puro ra jud superficialities but it turned out sakto siya in some aspects...hope this helps

[sashemae]

hello sis =) when i read your thread, naka relate jud dayun ko. my dad is like your dad. super strict pd kaau. di ko kabasta basta ug lakaw. ug basta boys na ang hisgutan, kulang na lang mamula iyang nanwng ug moaso iyang ilong ug dunggan. hahaha. in short, very protective and igihan pd kaau. i can remember that when i was in grade 5, naay nanawag sa amo na classmate na boy na mangutana ug assignment, purting sukua sa akong dad. hilak gd ko adto kay gipasanginlan ko nga nag igat2x nga intawn wa man jd. i went to an all girls school when i was in HS so no prob ra but when i was about to enter college, liman kag gi warningan ko nga di ko paamiguhon ug guys. wahahaha! abnormal jd kaau. maayo na lng gani naa akong mom motabang ug pacify and explain to my dad maong eventually ok ra niya maka amigo kog guys. maybe that's what you should do pd. ask your mom to help you make your dad understand

also, agree jud ko sa mga ming comment na u should not hate your dad that much. normal ra cguro nga masuko ka sahay pero dont keep it in your heart kay makadaot na nimo and you'll never appreciate your dad's love for you kay negative naman kaayo ka. sakto baya pd sis nga dapat you try to prove yourself to ur dad in a good way. find a job, find a good man... if wala pa ng man nga tan-aw nimo tarung, ayaw lng kaau pagdali2x gud. life is not a race. you are too young anha na ka ma alarm pag late 20s naka. hehehe

believe me, until now i am still trying to win the trust of my dad fully. d nako dali-dalion kay if magdali2x ka gud, mahulog man nga pasaway naka nga pagka anak. naglisud lng na imong dad sa pag accept nga dako naka

[tube0fdeath]

kuan. imung daddy satko nga sayop. khblo ka nga sakto kay sakto cya pero imung mind sayop. Give him benefit of the doubt. explaina cya nga naa cya sa good mood. unya ngita ug laki nga boto imung dad anang lakiha, if dili man gani like for example naay family grudge imung family sa family sa imung ma uyab or vice versa. mao nay lisud pero always remember nga dli jud ka magdali kay kung magdali ka maka abot jud ka nga situasyon nga nindut man diay i balik nga walay uyab kay walay problema.sa tinuoray nindut baya walay uyab pero ang nakapait walay nagmahal nimu ur always lonely pero wala jud dag-anan. ang naay uyab gusto walay uyab ang walay uyab gusto naay uyab. basta barogi lang imung desisyon nga ma uyonan sad sa kadaghanan imung desicison. gets? because if you dont get my point. You may rest in peace.... just be a good analyze thinker. use ur brain, heart and soul