need opinion!!!

[groundwork]

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sa tinuoray lang di jud mapugos ang tawo makig minyo ni bisan kinsa. wla tay mahimo kung nabayot cya sa iyang responsibilidad. But required na sa law nga kinahanglan mo sustento cya sa bata. Duna gani na cyay requirement if pila ka years. Like gi ingon ni Papi_Dradz its under the law and you can sue him.

[ajboy13]

talk him first...pero naa man cguro na sa balaod nga naa gyud syay resconsibility sa bata pero sa imo as a wifre/uyab kay murag wala...im not sure gyud ha..

[jelousofthe1]

istorya.e na ninyo...kung di jud cya..then fine..raise the child alone

[tom_book]

i'd be glad to be the father of your kid...

[babypaupau]

talk to him first and if dili sya, its his loss. move on kay if he cant accept that responsibility now, that shows what kind of person he is. you may be better off without him. in my opinion, bahala'g ma single parent ug ka 1 million times, di lng maminyo sa wlay ayo nga bana.

[baby_etin]

thanks, guys!

so far, the thing i could do is wait til the baby is out and i'll decide whether i'll let him see the baby or not..or i'll raise the baby alone..thanks again guys...

[Tirong-say]

I guess you should be strong and face the reality that you are standing alone to nurture your baby, the father is quite irresponsible, he even let her mother do the talking with his own doings.
Dili katuohan ang sulti sa iyahang Mom, wala man gani karon nga naa pa sa Pinas, unsa na kaha kung tua na sa States iyahang anak.....

[ierolennail]

hi guys, thanks for all your opinion!!

but the what the guy itself don't want to talk to me?
i've talked to his mom..i forgot when was that..
his mom told me, "it's up to the person kung mo hatag cla or d"..
"dn i don't want n mgminyo mo coz our family is waiting for the final letter from the embassy"
"if you and my son are really meant to be, kung asa pa mo sa world dn magkta mo means kamo jud"

daghan pa but i've been asking myself why his mom said all those things..
since the day when i know that i'm pregnant, i ddn't even ask anything from them..
even a single cent from their pocket..i've worked myself too hard pra mkagas2 ko tnan prenatals nq..
from vitamins to my pregnant milk, and i was so ashamed that i've asked help from my dad..

why maingon nah nila? libog lagi ko...

sige lng sis..God is good and di ka Nya pasagdan..time will come na kana nsd sila magukod nmu and sa baby..strive and work hard para nnyo sa imu baby..dnt prove anythng to them, but prove it to yourself na kaya nmu bsan wala sila...tan-awn ta lng ug di ba sagpa sa ila face if ever muabot ang time na successful na kaayo inyo life sa imu anak...gulong ng palad ra na sis..

[BSIT_KO_BAI]

hi guys, thanks for all your opinion!!

but the what the guy itself don't want to talk to me?
i've talked to his mom..i forgot when was that..
his mom told me, "it's up to the person kung mo hatag cla or d"..
"dn i don't want n mgminyo mo coz our family is waiting for the final letter from the embassy"
"if you and my son are really meant to be, kung asa pa mo sa world dn magkta mo means kamo jud"

daghan pa but i've been asking myself why his mom said all those things..
since the day when i know that i'm pregnant, i ddn't even ask anything from them..
even a single cent from their pocket..i've worked myself too hard pra mkagas2 ko tnan prenatals nq..
from vitamins to my pregnant milk, and i was so ashamed that i've asked help from my dad..

why maingon nah nila? libog lagi ko...

From the looks of it... Dili jud agree ang iyang mom sa bata or the idea of having her son's baby with you... YES! you can sue him and dapat mo tabang pud siya sa mga gastos sa bata because it's his responsibility... The baby was not created by only one person... so dapat motabang pud sya sa expenses.

NAG PALAMI-LAMI LANG SIYA SA PAGHIMU SA BATA DAH... TAPOS PAG-ABOT NA SA BUNGA KAY MAHADLOK NA SIYA... tsk3

Parte sa minyo2... Pasagda-i na siya... kung wala gani niya gidawat ang iyang responsabilidad sa inyong baby karon, Unsaon na lang kung naay moabot na mas dako og mas bug-at nga problema sa inyong relationship?

[baby_etin]

well it's not really the whole story of what happend, a part of it lng n ako gshare ninyo..i thnk his family don't need or dont want to see the baby nmn..this is not the first baby of his son..sa ako n confirmed, 3 babies nah and i not xur kung naa ko kadungan..dnt knw lng jud..i've suffered a lot already..ni undergo pa ko operation coz of the baby but i ddnt evn blame him or the baby..thanks guys!!