Disciplining your Child

[gnox]

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dili man ni applicable ang physical discipline diri sa amo kay ma 911 man ko

[vze]

hahaha...mao jud! mao, imong self nalang pasakiti instead. mas mo-work to nimo akong gi-suggest na way of disciplining.

[junmagz]

mangandam sad ko daan

[mrjosh]

"I learned from a talk show before: Have a place or thing or incident na iya kahadlokan, sumthing like a punishment sa iya so that next time mahadlok na sya... Ex: Paluhuron nimu sa rug for 1 min nya bunalan nmu f mustop sya (sa pwet lng bunali) sagdi sya maghilak nya buhata ni if cge sya pabuyag hantud mahadlok na sya ani.... heheheheh

La pko kid but cguro mao ni ako buhaton...

[dreammae]

ang ako husband ky ingon ana iyang gbuhat sa amo panganay ky badlongon kaayo,,unsahay iya pabarogon sa corner hantod mohonong na og hilak...pero as a mom motago nalng ko ky malooy ko magtan.aw sa ako anak oi nya kami na hinoon mag away sa ako husband...hehehe

[DyslexicHeart]

Time-out works for my kids.
Ug withholding priveleges kung makasala.
Istoryaan sad ang bata in a level nga makasabot siya ngano sayop ang iyang gibuhat.
Dapat sad daw consistent ang atong paghatag ug disiplina nila.
Kita sad mga mga parents should be good role models for them, too. Unsay makit-an nila mao raba na ilang sundon...

> To discipline our kids is not effortless. Lain-lain ta ug mga style but ang importante nga adunay silay makat-on sa atong pagpadisiplina. Kapoy baya gyud ug dili lalim but we will reap its benefits when they grow up. Usahay bisan at an early stage, makakita na ta sa diperensya sa bata nga gi-disiplina ug bata nga gi-patuyangan lang sa ilang gusto.

[tallthel]

There is one (psychological) technique: if sobra jud ka-kiat an bata na bisan unsaon nimo pag-pangga kay gahi jud ulo, pasakiti imo self. Instead of bunalan nimo ang bata, bunali imo self or any way na mka-catch ug attention sa bata nga mohunong sa iyang gibuhat kay in a way, iyang parent/s yang gpasakitan sa iyang gibuhat. This is appealing to guilt. I have seen a parent do it and it worked. Kiat ayo iya girl na kid then nahagbong ang side lamp, g-ingnan niya ang kid na when kiat ka and dka patuo, masakitan ko then gihapak sa parent iyang own hand while trying to explain. Nihilak intawn ang bata k naluoy ya mama. In that way, wala ka nakapasakit sa bata and nka-explain pajud ka niya nga dili maau yang gbuhat.

kuyawa ana oi...traumatic man na oi sa part sa bata...u r showng her violence w/ ur own hands...ayaw ana oi..nig dako ana,mgka naa na cya tendency na ihurt iyang self pd ky mao man iyang makta nmo ky example man jd ni permi ang parents...

i suggest, kng discipline gni ka imo child na kiat kaau,talk to her nicely like a big girl na..help her understand..bunali gud kas-a lng den xplain y knahanglan nmo bunalan..ayaw pd palabi bunal ky dli pd maau..

ako mao na ako gpa tilaw lng nako bunal den ako gi xplainan,aftr ana dli na kaau mgpa badlong ky ako lng sultian "hala cg,ganahn ka spank?" mu sulti lng ang bata "no" den mu bhave na...

pakta lng gud na naa ka authority sa imong anak ky mu respect kd imong mga pasabot ug mga dcision.

teach dem also how to dcide at early age.. example ana ang pg buy ila toys...cla jd papilia kng unsa jd ila gusto..kng xpensiv gni kaau,xplain na expensiv ra..mkasabot ra man ang mga bata ana.. arn pd dli pa spoil kng iyang gusto jd makuha..

mao pa so far ako ikashare on how i discipline my kids....

[onlyvic]

for me the best way to discipline a child is to understand them. if some spanking is necessary, a parent should let them understand why it's done. don't scold them in front of many people so that they won't feel embarrassed. humiliation is worst thing a child could have. usually, children don't easily forget about what happened to them that they subconsciously bring it with them till they grow up.

for me a parent should not scare their kids away. a child knows what's wrong or bad but parents' guidance would help them realize not to do the same mistake.

when you catch you child doing something bad, don't jump into scolding them. talk to them and see their point of view then you let them understand yours.

im not a parent but I am child. I have done a lot of mistakes but I eventually understood everything when my mom started to think my way and she learned to understand me that she was able to know what she should be able.

a child and the parents should be able to compliment each other and never stopped learning more about themselves, this would help them understand each other's predicament.

[tallthel]

yes...lahi2 ang pg discipline sa kids..dpende nalng na sa parents ug unsa personality iyang kids....

[pink_baby_f]

i can say that im not a perfect parent... pero sometimes mapasakitan jd nako ang akong baby! shes 3 years and super kiat... (dili gyud bunal as in na mura nako nagpatay ug halas... kay i saw baya some parents ana gyud ang pag discipline nila...)

unya paghuman pod nako ug palo, i'll calm her down and try to let her understand na ang iyang gibuhat kay sayop... and of course say sorry gyud ko... because child will know if ever makasala you have to say sorry gyud... so kita parents kita gyud mag-una una...

pero i really tried my best na dili nako siya mapasakitan... ang ako lang buhaton if maka sala siya ako ipa open ang iyang hands unya hapakon kunuhay... at least kahibalo pod sila na sayop pod... ^_^