HELP He broke my trust

[Soul_Captive]

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im trying to put those things behind me now.. ill worry about everything when it happens

You try but it is beyond us to control our brains, and in your brain lies the memory of his past mistakes..You're worrying now, that's why you posted this thread in the first place..

As I've mention in earlier posts, there is nothing you can do about the past..You have accepted him after he has sinned, but there should be a limit to your goodness..Continue to be on the lookout for anything out of place (like the thing you noticed on Istorya)..You don't have to confront him about it though..It might be coincidental still, but you should not just put it aside either..

Someone said that doubt is a poison to a relationship because you are supposed to love the person, but nobody can blame your doubts now..A wiser thing to do after he cheated once would have been to leave him right away, but seeing how much you love him (as supported by the fact that you took him back), I don't think you would be able to let him go easily..As for getting hurt again, once you're inlove, you will always be vulnerable..Both sides of the coin will hurt you, so I suggest you take that which is less evil for you, that which will hurt you lesser than the other..It's your call..

[motchkatt]

sakita btaw jud oi... always jud na nko mapangutana sakong self...unsay relevance atong hitabua sa among relationship? was it just a test? whose test? my love for him or a test of his weakness? if my love for him--well now im struggling--labi na he shows interest in other girls. if it was for how weak he was--well then proven he was really weak.... i asked him y he did it, he said he was tempted. that's it? so r u expecting me to nod okay with that excuse....? sakita jud Lord...

[Soul_Captive]

@motchkatt
Lingaw man ko nimo ui with your "sakit jd Lord" line..Anyways, don't worry for you are never alone..Ky mosulod gani ta aning gugma, aw maghilak2 ug masakitan man jd ta every now and then..Pain is the measure of true love..Payt lang japon gud..Love lang japon..If sakit jd au, aw palit RH sa eskina daun pangita og katagay..In a few minutes, limtan rana nimo..Pero mubalik ra pod na ig-mata nimo ugma...hehehe

[motchkatt]

lami lagi unta nang RH bah...unsaonz man nag BAGONG BUHAY nman ta gud.....pra lang niya...

[jepogz]

Y laming RH uie..mas lami ang Kulafu!!,ahihihi..btaw ,yaw nag problemaha uie.. pangita sa'g lain imo pra quits mo.....

[darkdruid]

ok ra ang break ups if dili pa married.

[babyred86]

i've been here nah oie..
grabe ka intense..

nga as in xa na jd mismo ni ingon na buwagan nlng daw nako xa kai di xa kadawat sa iyang g buhat..
pero na shock xa kay after all i was on his side ...

wla jd to sa akong mind na mkg break up mi..
pero i told him na i nawagtang akong trust niya...
and somehow lain na akong pakitungo niya..

but by that... ana xa nako eventually nga gi love pa jd ko niya ug maau.. for what i did...
nga ako xang gi forgive..

[tessai]

without trust, the relationship is bound to fail. not to mention, wala kai peace of mind....

[chenggay!!!]

oh no! looks like ur relationship is going down the drain. i can't blame u if u don't trust him na coz of the experience. but now that ur seeing signs again. this guy is not the kind ul like to keep. looks like habit na niya ang mag play around da. u don't want to be with this kind of guy. i don't wanna be judgmental but if habit na na niya. it's one habit that's hard to break. don't be fooled sis.

[RAJ2105]

Time heals all wounds. But when trust is broken it's just like a broken glass no matter how hard you try to put it back together, the cracks will still be there. I understand that you love him that much to forgive him but always remember "Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me."