is it necesary to have fraternities or sororities?? why?

[rigormortis]

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Unsa man ang imong nasabtan bro? hahahah....

makasabot ka kng ngano kinahanglan ang "bunal"
mka relate jud ko ngano to xa
dli lng nko i elaborate

for me dili importante... mas imporatante pa nuon na focus ka sa imung studies kay sa ma focus na imu attention sa mga groupo2x nga mangitag away!!

dli mn sa ingn nga mosud ka ug frat ang frat na imng gi eskwelahan

[skadiboy]

I am a fratman, I am proud of my fraternity … For me is it ok to join a fraternity but you must think first before joining an organization knowing their capabilities to train you as leaders and a good citizen and also a good example because in the future this could help you when you applying jobs in the future kay na train naman ka og dala og tawo.. I was aware during my time and because of my curiosity about fraternity and I love to be part with them kay lingaw kaau sila tapok tapok tambay2x sa skol tambayan tabang og solve sa assignments etc... og daghan sad ang nagsolti na basta fratman kay bintaha au ka sa chiks aahahhaha. I join with out the knowledge of my parents but sad to say nasoko sila pag maau as in SOKO but nagtikadugay nawala raman sad kahibaw man sila nga naay OUTPUT ang ako g sudlan. I understand the comments of our fellow forumer and istoryans maybe because of the bad news nga ila nabatian sa atong katalingban and they have some regrets about fraternity. For my self me solod ko kay I want to know my self more, grow as a person and to serve humanity and also for me a fraternity provides a structure, an environment in which intimate friendships can flourish. It is by no means the only kind of organization in which a student may find friends. Indeed, the typical student requires no organization at all to make friends, nor does anyone in a fraternity confine his friendships exclusively to fellow members of the group. But a fraternity does foster brotherhood in an extremely effective way, its members drawn together by shared goals and common experiences. It is also more likely than not, that a young man will find in a fraternity friends whose interests and background are different from his own. Don’t GENERALIZE and LITERALIZE about fraternity, there are some other fraternities who has a good intentions to your self and also to the society and not war makers or … dili man dyd tanan gropo bad influence to the youth just be careful of choosing. but karon ang fraternity specially to the young bloods nahug naman og pasikatay....

Peace awt
skadZ


PS: na post naman ni nako salain topic ^^

[rigormortis]

taasag reply sakdiboy ah! yaw ninyo awaya!

sakto pud na ingn skadiboy! na generalize nman gud na ang mga frat. kanang duha ka frat karn nga pirmi mabalita, dli tanan ana nila mga sagoy. naangin ra ang uban ana. daghan kaaung tarong ana nila dri sa eskwelahan kaila ko ana nila.

kahibaw bamo naay lahi2 nga klasi sa frat? kanang leadership usa rna sa klasi sa frat.

[radiostar]

idol jud ni nako si skadiboy

[cosplay]

I'm not a fratgurl myself but there are points that have been posted here that I do agree with. However, there is only one thing I do not understand (well, i don't think it's only me who doesn't).. what on earth is the pain initiation rite for

[rigormortis]

makahibaw jud ka ngano bsta mosuway ka
mao jud na akng maingn tinuod jud na

[rodsky]

The main reason why fraternities exist is because of a skewed societal structure that deems itself "fair", but in actuality, it's not. This is why if you've got a "brod" or "sis" occupying some high position in a company or in government, chances are, you'd have a better chance of getting into that company compared to another guy--IMHO, sick, but hey, this is happening in our country. Admit it or continue your bulag-bulagan. Bato-bato sa langit, ang tamaan huwag magalit.

ADDENDUM: Someone asked about pain? That's exactly what the pain is for--it's a reminder that, even though what you're doing is improper (i.e. getting someone aboard your company because he's a brod or sis), the "pain" you endured is your bond and thus you "cannot let your brethren down". Again, IMHO, sick.

-RODION

[d`monyita]

Never saw the importance of these groups. Sorry ha.

[cosplay]

I see. From my own perspective psychological deduction, grave levels result in a trait called Stockholm Syndrome.

[mastersun23]

It is not important. It isn't a need, it's a want. But if you do join, have a purpose, and choose the frat that serves your purpose. Like what others say here about sa apo. They sure are doing well their work as a frat, and to the frat members na do try to screen your recruits. Ang nahitabo lately mn gud kay mu recruit bisan kinsa for the the sake of having while ang uban mo join ra for the sake of joining. But for me personally, it's a child play, unless you do something good out of it. No offense to all frat members

i agree with this one