he impregnated two girls at the same time, should i stay or should i leave?

[pinkhair]

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What's vague in that?
What else do you need to realize that he has no plans of owning up to his responsibilities sis?
Sorry if I'll be blunt with you sis, it's futile for us to advise you on how you deal with your
problem when you yourself refuse to accept the fact that the guy is no good for a husband nor for
a father even. It's hard when one points out to you the hard fact yet you on the other hand keep
making excuses.

Like I said, it's still on your court ~ whether to leave or stay blind. Just make sure once you stay,
you have no right to complain because you chose to be treated that way when we all know you
and your child deserve more.

Lisod man jud na at first to be away from your in laws but makasabot ra pod na sila. Ang faet if
complacent ra ka sa nahitabo ron. Basta Mao ra ni ako masulti nimo sis k mahulog ra pod ta sige
tuyok2x sa storya.

bitaw sis noh, the truth hurts. thank you sis...

[brian joshua]

sabta lng si boyfie girl kay nagpadaghan ra na cya sa ilang apilyedo.

[beyee]

No prob sis.
So reassess now your priorities.
God bless.

[pinkhair]

sabta lng si boyfie girl kay nagpadaghan ra na cya sa ilang apilyedo.

nah makakapoy naman gud sigeg sabot, abusohan ta..mura na syag the boy who cried wolf..

[iwantmyboyfriend]

my kid is a little girl. girls both sides. mao nah akong stand before ko nanganak, i told him nga kung wala man lang syay plano barogan mi unta di nalang sya magpakita namo kay di ko ganahan mka.establish pa og memories akong anak niya. with our situation now he's been to every milestone of our little girl so far.. ang hate lang nko any is if magbulag njud mi, how do you explain who's dat stranger on the picture? kay honestly i have no plans na magpakita pa mi niya if i decide to leave. sakto ra kaha na?

ako sis. akong parents nag buwag when i was 4 years old. adto kos akong papa nagdako. my father never said bad things about my mother. gi ingnan lang ko niya na dli na sila pwede mag kuyug pero kung gusto ko maka kita niya, amo lang tawagan pero wala daw nag bilin ug telephone number. haha. na anad lang giud ko na wala koy mama. it was my normal. we still have our "family" photo albums and naa jd koy mapakita sa uban tao na naa koy mama. they told me lang na inig ka dako nako makasabot rako why nag buwag sila.


nag minyo usab akong papa. hantod namatay siya pag 2006. after his death, nagpakita usab akong mama. and then i found out for myself nganong nag buwag sila ug unsa diay siya ka walay ayo na tao. until karon wala me contact but i respect her but i dont need her to be part of my life.

ni share lang ko para naa pd kay idea how it is sa mga broken families. its not the end of the world

[Kristiano]

buwagi na sis oi.. naa py laing laki dha na modawat nimo sa imong naagian and fully take care of your child... as usual, testengi sa kung unsa ka in-love ang new guy nimo... basin mo-take advantage ra sa imong situation... like what happened before here 2 or 3 kids with 2 or 3 different fathers...

[pinkhair]

ako sis. akong parents nag buwag when i was 4 years old. adto kos akong papa nagdako. my father never said bad things about my mother. gi ingnan lang ko niya na dli na sila pwede mag kuyug pero kung gusto ko maka kita niya, amo lang tawagan pero wala daw nag bilin ug telephone number. haha. na anad lang giud ko na wala koy mama. it was my normal. we still have our "family" photo albums and naa jd koy mapakita sa uban tao na naa koy mama. they told me lang na inig ka dako nako makasabot rako why nag buwag sila.


nag minyo usab akong papa. hantod namatay siya pag 2006. after his death, nagpakita usab akong mama. and then i found out for myself nganong nag buwag sila ug unsa diay siya ka walay ayo na tao. until karon wala me contact but i respect her but i dont need her to be part of my life.

ni share lang ko para naa pd kay idea how it is sa mga broken families. its not the end of the world

wow! very inspiring! i hope i can do that.. sooner or later i will only have my little girl as my "family" kay im an only child, no siblings to run to and mynparents are to old to see my little girl through higschool cguro. but yes sis, how i iwhs i can be as strong as your dad..

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buwagi na sis oi.. naa py laing laki dha na modawat nimo sa imong naagian and fully take care of your child... as usual, testengi sa kung unsa ka in-love ang new guy nimo... basin mo-take advantage ra sa imong situation... like what happened before here 2 or 3 kids with 2 or 3 different fathers...

one of my fears exactly bro.. nga ing-ana btaw nga if magbulag mo them muabot ang tym mkakita kag lain.. the trauma btaw nga mura nmug ma-generalize tanan and the fear nga basin di tinuorah.. girl pa naman akong anak..

[Kristiano]

mas maau na gamay pa ang bata magdako sa future 2nd BF or husband ky probably mas molaban or paboran sa bata ang foster father kysa biological father... wa sd ko mag-ingon na magdali ka ug pangita ky dili pd lalim mangita ug tarung na partner...
Naa pd tay thread on Single parents if you like...

[shayneyap]

If i was in your situation I will drop him like a cheap handbag.

He will tell you he's sorry, he's changed and will never do it again.
But in reality, he will become better at hiding it. He cheated on you, and more likely, will do it again.
If that is fine with you then you can stay with him, but you can do so much better!!
Use your best judgement. Good luck ug God bless ninyo sa imong baby

[porbidaman]

buwagi nalang na sis, ang importante naa nimo ang bata. same case na sa akong kauban, nakabuntis pud iyang bf while hapit na cya manganak, way daghan storya, gibuwagan dayon nya. tingali sis imong bf disciple ni Wally...