tabangi ko pls....I'm Concerned And Totally Afraid For Him

[fha]

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8s not about stopping education...8s about the lack of patience...patience is a test for you to be tough in the game of life... :mrgreen:

[rennyvonne]

yah ur right.... ingon bitaw ko niya nga be patient lng sah... kay hapit na au cya mahuman.... i've been trying to contact him but la cya pirimi sa balay... saun nalang... naa ba cyay plano mo skwela this year....

[diem]

@rennyvonne, sometimes the best education can be found outside the classroom.

Not that I am saying that having a degree is not important; it's just that sometimes we need to have a change of perspective to basically know what we want or where we want to be in life.

If he wants to take a break from school and get a job first, why not? At least he would see what a career is like and maybe he'll realize how important a degree is to move ahead.

But perhaps he's one of those people who's not really about money; as you said in your post he's active in your church and keeps his bible near-by. Maybe he has aspirations to serve God and your church, is it wrong for him to pursue that line of work?

A course in nursing is indeed difficult and often enough tiring. Maybe if you could convince your friend that in pursuing that degree would be best for him in serving God by serving and reaching out to others; not only his own family but the patients he would help recuperate not only physically but also spiritually.

I sincerely wish you and your friend the best in Life and in Love :mrgreen:

[makoyvelasco]

it's not that he's tired, but it's more of he's losing interest. let him realize and see how wide and great his future is once he finished school and have a degree. yet, if he won't listen, so be it. let him learn from his mistakes. experience is the best teacher

[rennyvonne]

@rennyvonne, sometimes the best education can be found outside the classroom.

Not that I am saying that having a degree is not important; it's just that sometimes we need to have a change of perspective to basically know what we want or where we want to be in life.

If he wants to take a break from school and get a job first, why not? At least he would see what a career is like and maybe he'll realize how important a degree is to move ahead.

But perhaps he's one of those people who's not really about money; as you said in your post he's active in your church and keeps his bible near-by. Maybe he has aspirations to serve God and your church, is it wrong for him to pursue that line of work?
A course in nursing is indeed difficult and often enough tiring. Maybe if you could convince your friend that in pursuing that degree would be best for him in serving God by serving and reaching out to others; not only his own family but the patients he would help recuperate not only physically but also spiritually.

I sincerely wish you and your friend the best in Life and in Love :mrgreen:

wa man sad koni sulti nga dili na maayu.... ok ra ta to na mu stop cya from studying but ok ra iyang grades.... ang iya mang desire maka affect sa iyang grado... kinda nag lisud bya sad iyang family and mao rana iya mabuhat?.... dili raman gud na sa prayer na stop ang hardships... guol lng ko bah.... kay mura insensitive au cya....

and i agree w/ you.... tnx sa comments...

[rennyvonne]

it's not that he's tired, but it's more of he's losing interest. let him realize and see how wide and great his future is once he finished school and have a degree. yet, if he won't listen, so be it. let him learn from his mistakes. experience is the best teacher

yah.... that's what i think sad...

[peg]

wa man sad koni sulti nga dili na maayu.... ok ra ta to na mu stop cya from studying but ok ra iyang grades.... ang iya mang desire maka affect sa iyang grado... kinda nag lisud bya sad iyang family and mao rana iya mabuhat?.... dili raman gud na sa prayer na stop ang hardships... guol lng ko bah.... kay mura insensitive au cya....

unsa diay iyang desire? desire dili mo skwela or desire nga other things iyang gusto buhaton?

if he really wants to pursue a different path, other than you expect him to be, ok ra na uy.
If dili cya ganahan. He is just being himself.
Ma hurt ra cya if you keep pushing coz dili man cya happy, esp if dili nya ma-accomplish what he loves.
Daghan namo sad face sa inyong nawong...

Naa ngali reasons ngano gusto cya ordinary?
Naa ngali cya sa phase na na-bored na cya sa iya life, OR Wala na cya kabalo unsa iyang gusto?? ?

Matud pa sa uban quote:

Desire! That's the one secret of every man's career. Not education. Not being born with hidden talents but Desire.
-- Bobby Unser

There is no use whatever trying to help people who do not help themselves. You cannot push anyone up a ladder unless he be willing to climb himself.-- Andrew Carnegie


naa koy classmate pag college wa cya ka graduate.. wa cya diploma. pero naa cya job ron. depende ra jud sa tao asa cya ma angay.

ang imong mahimo is to support him.
expose lang unsa iyang gustong mga activities/ hobbies, basin naa cyay ma discover na brilliant idea!!! :mrgreen:

[diem]

@rennyvonne, sometimes the hardest part of loving someone is letting them live their lives as they want to even if it means they would live on, leaving you.

By your own words, your friend doesn't seem worried by his situation, but you are. I hope you're doing okay. You already might have had your say, and often enough that's the best anyone can do in your situation. Maybe your friend is discouraged and lost, perhaps you could pray with him-- offer your supplications together to God for guidance and wisdom.

[rennyvonne]

unsa diay iyang desire? desire dili mo skwela or desire nga other things iyang gusto buhaton?

if he really wants to pursue a different path, other than you expect him to be, ok ra na uy.
If dili cya ganahan. He is just being himself.
Ma hurt ra cya if you keep pushing coz dili man cya happy, esp if dili nya ma-accomplish what he loves.
Daghan namo sad face sa inyong nawong...

Naa ngali reasons ngano gusto cya ordinary?
Naa ngali cya sa phase na na-bored na cya sa iya life, OR Wala na cya kabalo unsa iyang gusto?? ?

Matud pa sa uban quote:

Desire! That's the one secret of every man's career. Not education. Not being born with hidden talents but Desire.
-- Bobby Unser

There is no use whatever trying to help people who do not help themselves. You cannot push anyone up a ladder unless he be willing to climb himself.-- Andrew Carnegie


naa koy classmate pag college wa cya ka graduate.. wa cya diploma. pero naa cya job ron. depende ra jud sa tao asa cya ma angay.

ang imong mahimo is to support him.
expose lang unsa iyang gustong mga activities/ hobbies, basin naa cyay ma discover na brilliant idea!!! :mrgreen:

yah... ur right.... tnx for this.... i'll let him know about this ....

[ed168]

sabihin mo na, maghahanap ka ng iba if he'll not finish it, dats d only way , kung sabi nya ok lng, get out baka madamay kapa sa kamalasan nya or buntisan ka pra ma oblige ka na sa kanya , dont stick to person like dat, its not a gud attitude, hel just make u sick..