to spank or not?

[necrotic freak]

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natural rana bunal sa bata.. kana lang pod igo ra maka feel ug sakit dili ingon nga mahinaykan jud.. nya pasabton ang bata inig human ngano gibunalan siya..

[lizzieseven]

natural lang xa basta controlled lang jud, piti gamay lng pero dili nang dulot kai gagmay bya na mga bata. naa ko 2 kids ang magulang 6 years old ang manghud kai 9 months pa. ang magulang bunalan basta gituyo jud ang sayup, kanang deliberately disobeying a major house rule. kaisa hapak and follow up jud ug sturya nga masinsinan para maka sabot ngano na bunalan.

[charity.pardillo]

i talk to my 6 yr old son wen he disobeys us. wen he was 3 or 4, i asked him to face the wall or to go to a corner and stand there for a few minutes. if he was ready to talk about what he did, then we talk. simple but effective and no physical pain.

[starscreamer]

beating children doesn't mean you are just angry with them. It is simply discipline. you spank your kid to tell them that they commit mistakes, or they did something wrong that should not happen again.Beating means loving ang caring for them.They will misinterpret it unless you explain why you did this kind of discipline. Communication to your child is the best way learn and understand.

Depende pod asa dapit ka muspank nila. Ayaw gyud sa ulo, neck, nawong, likod, chest, arm og tyan. Coz no matter how good ur explanation is, this will always be wrong in the eyes of child and adult.

[havaianatic01]

NO to spank jud ko.hate kaayo na nko makakita og parents na bunalan ilaha anak pag makasala puydi ra man unta idaan sa istorya.. akoa anak never jud nko dapatan, istorya lang gud pasabton ngano nasuko ka og hatagan sab silag freedom mosulti sa ilaha gibati.like kung masuko sila, naa man sila feelings, e ask lang nanu nasuko xa and nanu nabuhat tu nya. dapat maminaw sab ta sa gibati satua anak, dili ky porket parents ta kita na ang tama pirmi.

[brian joshua]

latoson pero knang hinay ra sd...ayaw nang kulatahun...aw ok ra sd kulatahun kung gahi jd ug ulo

[zener_101]

bunalan lang ug hinay unya pasabton daun ngano gibunalan cla aron makasabot.. gamit pra bunal kay palwa sa eba.....

[lhorenzoo]

beating children doesn't mean you are just angry with them. It is simply discipline. you spank your kid to tell them that they commit mistakes, or they did something wrong that should not happen again.Beating means loving ang caring for them.They will misinterpret it unless you explain why you did this kind of discipline. Communication to your child is the best way learn and understand.

Ts,

i guess you are right. its the best and only way to let them know why you are doing that to them...

[lhorenzoo]

<ngdako sa bunal...bakus ug uban pa...

Turned out fine. Finished college with no setbacks...took the board exam and passed....no retakes...

Traumatized? I should be in a mental institution right now...with the type of discipline that was implemented in our house...

I excel in what I do. I may not be a board top notcher...but I am not a mediocre person....

discipline...bunal and all...kept me in the top 10 since primary school to highschool.

bunal and all kept me straight during college...and even when I was rebellious it never got out of control...

bunal and all...taught me at an early age that life is unfair...it taught me that people will lie to get you punished...

it taught me that life is not a bed of roses...

bunal and all...showed me the reality...my parents never trapped me in a fairy tale world...

yes I am an only child...but i never grew up spoiled...I had to earn the things that I want to have...

my mother kept a perfect balance between love...and discipline...and I never hated her..for raising her hand at me...

i never hated her..for spanking me with a leather belt...i never hated her for making me kneel for a couple of hours...

i also had to eat sili for talking back to her...

my mother and i had the worst fights...and I never hated her..for having such an iron fist around my neck...true...my mother is a control freak...but i wouldn;t be where I am now if not for the iron fist of hers.

The last time I had myself check..my mental state is perfect...and my confidence...is within the appropriate limits...

in other words...spank accordingly..

leniency....has its limits...look at the kids around you...

do you want your kids..to spend the wee hours of the night drinking...getting drunk with some random guy?

do you want your kids...to spend all your hard earned money on alcohol and cigarettes?

do you want your kids...to come up to you one day and tell you..she's pregnant and she has no idea who the father is..because she was too drunk to even remember?

with the society's influence on children..talking some sense to them..may be an uphill battle...

I am old school..and I believe in corporal punishment...(as long as it is done accordingly)...because that is how I was raised...

responsibility for your actions...should be taught at an early age..

sometimes...children don't listen anymore because that is what they see on TV...that is their influence...

sometimes...you need to be imposing..to emphasize your point..sometimes..being imposing may involve...spanking...

this is my own opinion..because again..that is how I grew up...I may be an only child..but I did not grew up in a bed of roses...

I do not talk about my personal problems with my mother because she already has too many problems to think about...

so..at an age where teenagers are gushing about boys...I learned to handle all the emotions myself...

we never had that S*x talk..parents should give their children..I had to learn it on my own...

sometimes...fear..keeps you straight!

@ sis,

i salute you for for being molded into a great individual your parents envisioned their children.

[Spades3647]

God says, "Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him." (Proverbs 22:15) "He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes." (Proverbs 13:24)

Man says, "Spanking will cause low self-esteem and even traumatize kids."

Now you choose....

correct ni. ang efollow gyud nato ang gisulti sa Ginoo kay ang mga taw masayup man gud tah bisag unsa nga butang. pero ang Ginoo di gyud Siya masayup nya wa pud Siya nasayup. tanan gisulti sa Ginoo sakto na walay usa di tinood. so follow the Lord's word