If a doctor suspects Cancer, will you tell your family?

[reginakrys]

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yes, i will tell.. you cannot carry everything by yourself.. it's not like you'd be expecting them to pay for your diagnostic tests and treatments.. but you'll need the emotional support from your friends and family..

[carbrill]

ts i highly recommend mo tell kay mas maau nga kibaw sila kay, the healing process specially sa emotional aspect it takes lots of courage, so kung imo ra nang tagu on mas mag lisud kag accept ug di ka maka express sa imong gipangbati, mas maau kung imo na ishare... kay cancer is a disease nga di lang physical, financial but also emotional, unfair sad kaau sa imong family nga di sila maka tabang nmo, mao gani family kay they won't leave one member behind, they share their emotion whether good or bad and the prospective in life... mao nay tawag support system... i really feel what u feel ryt now kay i had also experience nga naa koy aunt nga nay cancer, unfair sa among side kay we know maka tabang ta mi nya but they keep it as a secret murag sakit sa among buot ug huna-huna kay murag wa di ai mi part sa family, then sakit kaau sa emtion kay kung kibaw lang mi daan di ta mi mo expect ug too much it is already to late...

there is nothing more important than the treatments but the moral and emotional support from your family and close friends

[carule]

it would be unfair sad if dili nimu sultian imuha family..mas daku ang pagmahay sa imu family if mahibaw-an nila...kay wala sila nabuhat for you para makashow nga they are with you,even in the downhill..

[Lady-L]

i feel for u TS, ka-relate ko...

i strongly suggest do tell them, dako kaau ilang ikatabang sa pag-ampo TS. mao ng giingon sa Ginoo nga 2 or more nga magkahiusa sa pag-ampo iyang dunggon... have faith in God!

[farmboy]

Do not tell anyone especially your loved ones, or you will be an emotional burden to them. You will have to die alone.. we all die anyway. You better keep it to yourself.

[carbrill]

Do not tell anyone especially your loved ones, or you will be an emotional burden to them. You will have to die alone.. we all die anyway. You better keep it to yourself.

oi kuyawa nmog advice oi maka samot man ni ka depressed, therapeutic kaau ka dong... r u using reverse psychology?

[farmboy]

oi kuyawa nmog advice oi maka samot man ni ka depressed, therapeutic kaau ka dong... r u using reverse psychology?

i've been in the army
worked on a farm
all i've got to show is the muscle in my arm
And it don't look like
and I don't wanna be
a burden on anyone
much less loved ones...

[carbrill]

ok, ur an army, don't get me wrong sir, but remember we are just mere human, maski army pa ka doctor ba or unsa pa dnha naa jud tay weak point,yeah basin di lang ka ganahan makit an sa uban tao ang imong weak side nmo, even me di ko ganahan kalouy an sa uban tao tungod sa akong situation but it doesn't mean nga i will close myself from my family due to my condition... if u can stand to be alone good for u, but in terms about this it is different... We cannot escape the reality nga we need to comfort ourselves with what we have which is our family, our security blanket..


i just want to borrow a line from a song:

" Walang sinuman ang nabubuhay
Para sa sarili lamang
Walang sinuman ang namamatay
Para sa sarili lamang"

[farmboy]

bro, i just borrowed the lyrics from james taylor's Wandering..

this situation sa ts man gud is more like wandering in those deserts of emotions..
mao nakahunahuna ko nga maypa not telling his family and loved ones..

emotions are like desert, where the rain seldom falls. if he tells his family and loved ones about this, they will make tears fall on such a desert of emotions..

[dearlabe]

TS, diba ikaw man tong sa pikas thread nga nag inum2x ug expensive, 12-year old whisky? Unya karon, gi cancer diay ka? Unsa manang imo? Pang tiwas? Pag sure tiis oi. Nako pisi oh, made in China lang ako hatag nimo para dli lig-on. Mura man ka nagpraktis2x ug kamatay gud.Tsk, tsk, tsk.