Getting Married... Kalabad sa ulo (Here's the story)

[wilx]

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hasola ani oi..ang makasapot ani kay gihagad pa ka ug sumbagay sa igsoon nga ikaw man ta ang agrabyado kay imo kwarta ang ma TY---mayo pa ani magstorya mo ug tarung, kung mahimo ipa refund nalang ang imo ma TY nga downpayment.

that's what we're planning... Hope lang sad gyud mi nga ma okay ra gyud tanan... I hope lang... pero super low na bitaw gyud nang mang hatag ug sumbagay. wala ko kasabot niya gyud... anyways iyaha pud nang way para ma solve iyahang problema

[wilx]

Life isn't fair at all times.. Lisod jud kaau inyoha case karon... But everything happens for a reason.. Dili man cguro accident lang.. naa cguro purpose.. this is just another trial God made for you, to test you and your fiance.. This will make and keep your relationship stronger..

Thnx... you have a point. This has a purpose...

[sushikandi]

That's the consequence of their actions. They know you have been planning for your wedding and they know the policy of the school. Just give them the quick wedding, since you are going to be family with him and his wife to be. Think of it this way, how about doing your wedding early next yr, that means more time for planning and more time to save for even grand dream wedding of yours. Wala pa bitaw na send and invitations.

[jivabernardo]

Life isn't fair at all times.. Lisod jud kaau inyoha case karon... But everything happens for a reason.. Dili man cguro accident lang.. naa cguro purpose.. this is just another trial God made for you, to test you and your fiance.. This will make and keep your relationship stronger..

sakto pd ni bro... basin test lang ni Lord ninyo duha para mo lessen na ang break ups in the future... and a word of advice lang, take good care of your marriage because that is the second best gift that God gave to you... take care of your partner and even though your not in good terms with the other side, let them see how much you are committed to the marriage and how you treasure them bsag lain pa sila...

Good luck bro, and advance congratulations!!!!

[jumper_stage]

4pos magminyo : dili na kapugngan ang VEGA..baliwala ang kinaiya..

..bahala uroy nag lami ang minyo..

[THE KID]

padayon ang kasal...take it or leave it.........

[browniies]

take it or leave it gyud ang labas. too bad. :[

[asterisk]

pagdouble wedding nalang mo. ka simple sa problema. tuo man mo anang sukob oi. naa koy kaila ga triple wedding puro igsoon. wa jud nahitabo nila na malas. ayaw namo pag away tungod ana oi. menus pa ang gastos kay share share ra.

[Sand Man]

I suggest lang bro noh, kay ingani man pd akng situation before... igather ang both parties sah so that all of you can settle down... talk will lead to something...

Personally, I've not been into a situation like yours but to me this post makes a LOT of sense.

[ei]

hala uy.. naa jud mga tao na libog (for both parties).. no offense TS.. sa ako ha.. dli mn ko mutuo anang malas malas gud ba.. ngano problema mn kau ninyu nang sukob uy.. tinuod ba gud jud na..? Pero I cant blame you sa imong beliefs or tinuuhan. imo mn sad na..

ako pa nimo, pasagdi nlng na cla.. concentrate on your wedding nlng. try to ask your suppliers if pwede ba mo ma move nlng ninyu ang date sa inyong kasal. Most suppliers are very flexible sa mga in-ani ba.. pasabta lng gud ninyu kung unsa ang sitwasyon. (Take note: hangyo ha.. dli mo masuko nila kay dli ninyu right mag suko suko kung dli cla musugot. kamo bya nag move sa date in the first place. hehe.. ). pero try lng gud ug hangyo. I guess, dli mn jud na nga i-ty ra nila ang imong gibayad.

kung naay gamay na fees, cge nlng! compared sa dli na jud mauli ang kwarta. And I think dli ra sad problema ang money jud kay ma move mn sya sa layo na date, napa ka daghan time to save up..

consider it a blessing na ma move ang date. it will give you more time for the preparations for your wedding Not just the physical preparations but the self pud. Dli lalim ang mag minyu bya. Lahi bya sa atong culture. you're not just marrying your girl, you're also marrying the whole family bya! hehe.

If ani pa lng daan na dli namo maka settle ug conflict sa iyang bro na wla pa mo nag minyu, unsa nlng kung minyu mo? Kagubot nlng sa inyong married life. learn to compromise. I'm not saying na you have to go their way jud pirmi, pero naa jud mga tao na libog kau, dli kasabot sa sitwasyon. I think in your part, ikaw man ang mas naay responsibility na mu give way or mu adjust ani na sitwasyon.. kay sa ila mn gud part, naa may need, nag dali cla tungod lagi kay buntis.

kay humana mn.. ayaw nlng ug point fingers kung kinsa mn jud ning sala. kay ila mn jud ni sala -- acting without thinking of consequences. pero kay naa nmn, ikaw nlng mu adjust.

lisod ba gud kau mu adjust?