Papa dili mohatag ug saktong allotment para kang Mama

[Snowfly]

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Why not tell your moms to ask from your dads or investigate directly at the agency how much his overall earnings and where the other money goes? If She is the legal wife then she has the right to know. Ask a copy of the contract,pertinent documents, the salary breakdown and allotment slip,,,,dapat naa silay copy ana for future references. What if ma disgrasya God forbids lang,,, wala silay documents to prove that they are the rightful beneficiaries?

There are so many reasons why? Dili man sad maayo nga buwag dayon bisan wala pa mo kahibalo sa tinuod? No children would want that to happen just by basing from what others did? Who knows, nag tigum diay si dad for his retirement or project ba kaha? or na proven na niya in the past nga walay nahabilin sa allotment kay na waldas lang ni mom, maong nag self allotment nasad sya ug iyaha as forced savings? Kay ngano kwarta ra diay ang gi apas nato? They also deserve to enjoy their money. Pero ibang usapan na yan pag toa gi gasto sa lain nga pamilya,,,, kana dili na jud tama.

Thats why kailangan jud magpakabana jud ang mga wives/husband of the seaman or OFW coz her/his knowledge of these things will payoff later when things go wrong. Dili kay dawat lang sa allotment ang importante.

[Snowfly]

Yes, seamen earns good salary and for the good ones, he is able to provide better living conditions for the one’s he cares about. A nice house w/ a swimming pool, different cars,a stable business,children all enrolled in the best schools etc. just name it,they really can afford it, IF they and their partners are that smart enough.

Yet, a seaman’s own life do not get benefits of luxuries within his buying power, He has the money to buy all what he and his family desired but he was not able to enjoy it bec. he is on board. He works like a - MONEY MAKING MACHINE. Over time the seafarer forgets himself and points his planning towards others only, but most of all- his Family!.

To put the blame to the Seaman/Father is not fair enough,,,why not ask the wife? Her role is very important, it takes 2 to tango to make the relationship successful!

[Sol_Itaire]

well if i were your mom and i'm faithful and financially responsible then i don't think i deserve your father. makigbulag nalang ko, manarbaho o mag negosyo kog ako. now kay anak man kay niya, siya nalang hatag nimog kwarta para sa imong pagskwela.

[marqi_20]

maka relate ko ani hehhehe ako dad dili sad mo hatag saktong allotment :lol

[Queen Mojitos]

sukad na sukad pa man gyud ni nga gamay ray ipadala ni papa sa akong mama mao nga ang buhaton ni mama magloan na lang para ikasupport sa amoa mao ang iyang sweldo, sukli na lang iyang madawat... sa karon, naay project si papa parenovate sa amo gyung balay pero dili sa among gipuy-an karon sa lahi nga barangay unya si papa didto na siya nagpuyo ambot lang lagi nganong gamay ray ipadala ni papa sa akong mama makalagot lagi usahay

[Queen Mojitos]

@Snowfly sis dili man pod gastador akong mama, she is the kind of woman nga dili pareha sa uban nga makabana na gani ug overseas, gasto lang bisag asa, palit lag mga unsa, etc..... I think she has the right to get higher allotment para sa amoang mga gastohonon sa balay....

[Queen Mojitos]

Mao man sad ni akong papa oh... sauna tarong pa muhatag but nahibong nami pila ka years wa namay increase.. aw muincrease pero gamay ra kaayo. nangutana na akong mom sa iyang friends about sa ilang madawat nya nashock jud siya nga gamay nalang ligas jud sa ilang madawat to think nga ilang mga husband kay under sa akong papa. Naka-porma na diayg lain... aww buwaaaag. Hehehe.

Hopefully di lang unta ni mao ang case sa imo TS.

tine maovah pareha pod diay tah saonz lagi oiee mayta di sila magbuwag kay paminaw nako murag padong naman sila buwag oiee hahayyy paetzzz actually katong last abot sa akong papa magbuwag na gyud unta sila pero niana man si mama nga sugot siya magbulag sila basta tagaan lang ug insaktong allotment pero si papa wala nisugot wala nipirma kay siguro mahadlok nga makahatag ug saktong allotment sa akong mama hahayyyy paetzzz

[elephant]

^^bang! daghan diay ta pareha... faet!! nagbuwag pud akong mama og papa... cge lang ana jud guro ni ang life

[polgasensei]

@Queen, i can relate at your current condition dude. Mahibaw-an cguro na kung pila ang ipadala nga allotment sa imong papa thru e-mails. Like my mom & dad they share accounts. Niya did2 nakahibaw sako mama na naa d.i gihimong mga kabuang ako papa kai one time wala niabot iyang allotment. 2ngud a2 hapit sila nagbuwag... Pranka rasad kaau akong mama ui.

[Snowfly]

Ive heared lots of complains not only from a seaman's family but also to land based OFW as well as here around us. If thats the case nga buotan ,walay bisyo, dili gastador inyong moms and still naay "other woman" inyong dad, and if your house is already a battlefield kay mag segi nalang sila ug away, then by all means let your moms seek legal help. You have the right especially if daghan pa ang mga dependents.
What am worried is,,,,nganong gi tolerate man sad ni for a long time sa inyong moms and now it already affected the children so much? Dili na healthy ang relationship sa Family. I join your pains, but you have to be strong , fight for your moms as well as for the whole family, be there when she needed you most.