trust issues

[iamshangkee]

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in every relationship, it pays to trust, and you must earn it.. and if lost, find all means to regain it.

[arvinbenitez]

kong ma guba ang trust lisood na jud na ma balik..

[bowee]

TRUST is just like a MIRROR.. oh so shiny and when you stare at it.. it stares back at you...

once its broken.. it can never be undone.. even if you patch up the pieces again.. when you look at it.. you don't see yourself straight anymore.. but what you see are the tiny jagged lines, reminiscent of the past actions you made...

[HeartStops]

trust issues para sa mga taw na nakasugat ug unhealthy relationships.

[coco!]

sa akong case, mag cge man cya duda nko.. kada intro nya ug pangutana saputon na sayun ko.. mag init na dayun akong ulo.. unya ma-irita na dayun ko. sakto ba ni akong gbuhat?

[mio]

Trust takes time to build but only a second to destroy

[melmusic23]

TRUST is just like a MIRROR.. oh so shiny and when you stare at it.. it stares back at you...

once its broken.. it can never be undone.. even if you patch up the pieces again.. when you look at it.. you don't see yourself straight anymore.. but what you see are the tiny jagged lines, reminiscent of the past actions you made...

Bowee, very well said na sad... idol na jud teka

[HeartStops]

guys unsaon mani f inyu bf naay trust issues? as n i did everythng na para mka salig xa nko and till now wa ghapon xay salig. i know i don't have the cleanest past,actually very bati jud (from flings and stuff). he's my bestfriend back then and i told him about my kabuangs sa una (well not all pa). but pag uyab na namu i told him najud tanan as n tanan nya he said he's willing to accept me man kay past s past na lagi.

so after a year mag away rami because of his insecurities and grabe pagkaseloso. mag cge xa ingon nagtan aw daw ko ani na laki (which is so not true kay gatanga ra jd q atu nya tymingan lang na panan aw nya nagtan aw q atu nya!) and naa sad na cge daw q tan.aw sa iya bestfriend (which naa sad mi past bfor nya) nya wa pa daw q ka get over atu nya (which is so not true kay as n super get over najud ko and ga tan aw ko nya kay nagsturya man xa).. so ka get mo sa aq point unsa xa ka paranoid??

kasabot man q na maglisod xag salig because he knows wat im capable of doing pero ever since nagkakami kay as n super loyal jd ko nya d na gani q ka huna2 ug lain laki. kana ganing gkapoi nakag lingaw2 and ur ready to settle down na feeling. heck, im even ready to get married and have a baby with him! i even told him that and adtu pa jd mi ug OB para mg family planning! ing ana ko ka serioso nya. d nko mulaag, work rko permi den after kuyog dayun nya..f nagthnk xa d xa kasalig nq unsa paman aq mabuhat na wa nmn gani q tym para kuyog sa mga laki dha kay cge rami kuyog. d point is i want him to trust me kay gkapoi nako cge ingon nya na xa ra jd akoa. its really frustratng wen ikaw nagtinuod ka pero imu uyab mag cge gihapon duda nmu.. hhaayy guys i need ur point of view.. wat should i do para mka get over xa sa iya trust issues regarding my past?

batia ana na relationship na walay salig sis oi. talk it over . and i hope everything will work out. dont stress yourself sis na thinking its your fault because of your past. its past and no matter what happen you cant go back. at least you tried to work your relationships with him. and it doesnt matter man sad sis kung kita kag laki ganahan ka. at least wala ka nagpatintal unsa nalang diay imong mata para sa iyaha. mao gani gi butangan tag mata para ka appreciate sa beauty sa surroundings.
kung feel nimo tok-on ka niyag maayo tungod lang sa insecurities dont be stupid enough to suck it in. feel free to let go whether the love is there or not. remember its not your lost. you can still fall in and out of love .. thats life.

[isprikitiki]

akong uyab ingon ani mn sad sauna, kusog sad kaau magduda. pero in time nawa rmn sad. continue lng to do what is right sis. padaun lng sa pagka loyal niya kay in tym mka realize rjud na siya nga kasaligan jud diay ka. d sad natoh ma blame imo uyab kay usahay d mn jud madali2 ug accept ang past. pero if love jud kas imong uyab sis, madugay mka get over rna siya unya mkita rna niya nga wala siyay angay dudahan.

[cyberZone]

akong uyab ingon ani mn sad sauna, kusog sad kaau magduda. pero in time nawa rmn sad. continue lng to do what is right sis. padaun lng sa pagka loyal niya kay in tym mka realize rjud na siya nga kasaligan jud diay ka. d sad natoh ma blame imo uyab kay usahay d mn jud madali2 ug accept ang past. pero if love jud kas imong uyab sis, madugay mka get over rna siya unya mkita rna niya nga wala siyay angay dudahan.

im a person u has difficulty trusting people, iv been to so many relationships that do not last long and been with men who are doesnt know the meaning of "fidelity".

now im currently dating this guy and we've been together for quiet sometime now. but still my issues are still there im trying really hard (if only he knew) to trust him 100% but sometimes i get to find out that he lies sumtyms, lil lies. And it bothers me a lot coz im honest with him 101%. There are time when i know he's lying i just let it past, even though he swears to my death that he's telling the truth but he's not. Its just lil lies, though it matters to me but because i love him that much, i let it pass.

sumtimes i contempleted on it, is he being unfair? or am i being stupid to accept those lies? will this things make a healthy relationship? is lying good just to keep your partner from getting hurt or jealous? does he really love me? please help me.. i really need your help. I have no one else to ask advises from, coz if i confronted him he always walks out on me or every raise his voice on me.

Please help me..