Why?

[scorpio_89]

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According to the Personality Plus by Florence Littauer
This kind of people are belong to the MELANCHOLY-CHOLERIC personality. this people are naturality perfectionist and born leaders who tend to express bad words in their disappointment toward others. So its natural for them.

Nice book. i will recommend it to everybody esp if you wanted to know your ownself.

thanks

Personality Disorder vs Personality Disorder = Misunderstandings

[taurustippy]

that's natural .....someday muabot ra na nila ..

[emcentricity]

yeap i hate those kinds of persons too, they're everywhere. ....

[Sand Man]

Well, akong auntie maoy akong gibasabot ani akong post.. my fam, lola and auntie live under the same roof. So murag lisud jud kaayo akong situation, kay pirmi mi magkita.

It doesn't change anything. People who are close to you should know better. Ug ingana ilang treatment sa imoha then they are more vile than some random libakera/libakero/insultador na mga silingan lang nimo diha.

People who are close to you should be able to make you a better person thru constant guidance, advice, and love despite your shortcomings. Di kay iduot kag samot paubos.

Don't tell me hangtud diri sa forum, di pwede nga mo vent. Wala na ba ko'y right nga mo vent? I'm not the type of person na mo-open up. I just keep my feelings to myself. Di ko ganahan pud mo react kay di ko ganahan ug gubot. So thankful ko nga naay forum. Thankful ko sa internet, cause it gives me a chance to be myself.

Nobody is telling you not to vent. Actually, we would rather you tell us a lot more of what's bothering you rather than give us small pieces of your problem. Vent all you want in here, pero you have to do it with a certain purpose in mind, kay you will definitely get varying answers.

I'm aware of my mistakes. So I don't blame them at all. Why would I blame them? nga ako ma'y gahimo sa akong kinabuhi. I'm not that kind of person. Actually, I hate myself for making a lot of mistakes. I hate myself for not being the person they want me to be. I honestly think I don't deserve to be loved. Yeah that's how I despise myself!

Para nako all this "I hate myself" will not help you. If you are sure that you made mistakes based on fair evaluation of your life and actions, then acknowledge them. Accept your mistake and move on -- pero strive to be better next time.

I know it is very hard to accept our own mistakes and I agree that there is a time when mag self-pity jud ta and blame ourselves and cry a little and hate ourselves a little. It's a process we go through, and it should also have a duration. After a certain amount of time we should snap out of it, get up, re-assess where we fucked up, move on and strive to be a better person.

You hate yourself for not being the person THEY want you to be?? Says who? Screw them. Be who YOU want to be. Why would you let other people dictate how you live your life?? Are they trying to mould you into something they themselves have failed to achieve? As long as your intentions are good and just and fair then I say be who and what you want to be.

And I'm only human, masakitan pud ko kun insultuhon ko labi na wa tay laban kay auntie lage nato. But yeah I agree with you na ang ilang criticisms maoy maka pa strong nako... so yeah, in spite of the pain that they have caused me, dapat thankful pud ko sa ilaha mga saway.

I dunno how it is in your household and how you guys interact with each other on a daily basis pero there are actually ways to deal with this type of scenario without resorting to gubot.

I will not dictate this to you. You will have to figure this out on your own.

Good luck.

[kelv]

prove them that they're wrong. karelate pd ko sa imong kahimtang. nkipuyo ra pd ko skong auntie before. daun cge lng kog tawagog bugo ug wala dw koy common sense, kada mglagot cya nko. amo pd silingan, gi judge ko na dli dw mkahuman ug skwela. pero wala ra kaau ko ngpa apekto ky kahibaw mn ko sakong kaugalingon. dili importante ang gipanulte sa uban ky kita mn mas nkahibaw sa atong kaugalingon.

[epoaxlan]

mao nay makapalipay nila..they think they are perfect and don't get the same mistake..naa jud taw in.ana sis..

[yhokz101]

I don't understand why some people love to judge and insult other people for making mistakes. Do they think they are perfect? have no flaws? no mistakes? They act as if they are higher than God. HE doesn't even judge.

you can't please all people.. that's all.. if dili ka maka handle ana ikaw ray louy.

[murdocman12]

they are the one who makes us strong & successful... don't u realize that

[mr_kyme]

Daghan ni sa India

[omicgavp]

pangitai pud ug sayop brod. baws2x ra na.