what's wrong with me?

[babyjr]

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sis ayaw nlng gyud ato pag balik. i know unsa feeling nimo krn...until now 4 sure ganahan paka gyud niya.... . besides nana nato anak. ayaw gyud pa abtan namong duha na masakpan mo. layo nlng gyud... you know naman na naa gyud siya lain.... dnt wory maka kita pka gaya ne piolo..... botan og kugehan.... i know sooner maka kita nka lain mawala naa siya.... murag lain man gyud siya intensyon sa imo gud...btw advice lng 4 me lng ha ayaw nlng gyud rply2x via txt , online and etc....gudlock nlng sis..

[anjerika]

love is not only about justifying your feelings. it includes helping another become a better person. (naks)


btw sis ikaw ray makatubag sa imong question coz it's how you feel about him. i hope you will not be used by him or binuangan by him.



you can only enjoy your relationship when you are both happy with each other! now, if you constantly cry, murag lain nana. love is supposed to be a wonderful and inspiring feeling hehe which rejoices in the truth and not in the wrong. it's your call.

[etzina]

No! not love. You might be watching too much movies lately.
If the guy is married, then you've just broken the law, whether be divine or civil.
If he is single, then what are you (both of you) gonna do with his kids?

Love is not just accept.. accept.. accept.. It should also have reprimands, discipline, sacrifice.
If what you are doing is good (divine or civil), then that is love.

he's not married ... his kids are with their mothers, mu visit sa ilaha usahay ang mga kids...

kaila man guro ko ana imong uyab...c charles nataga UC??

dili.. twenk kinsa man na hehe

im also wondering unsa nkita nimu nya girl.. is he ur first bf?

no, he's my 3rd serious bf, sauna ok raman kau mi wa man blema, karon panahona lang ang nakalahi, kato after mi nagkabalik....

sis ayaw nlng gyud ato pag balik. i know unsa feeling nimo krn...until now 4 sure ganahan paka gyud niya.... . besides nana nato anak. ayaw gyud pa abtan namong duha na masakpan mo. layo nlng gyud... you know naman na naa gyud siya lain.... dnt wory maka kita pka gaya ne piolo..... botan og kugehan.... i know sooner maka kita nka lain mawala naa siya.... murag lain man gyud siya intensyon sa imo gud...btw advice lng 4 me lng ha ayaw nlng gyud rply2x via txt , online and etc....gudlock nlng sis..

what do u mean nga masakpan mi sis? wala man mi ga tago2x sa amo relationship, kabalo man tanan nga uyab mi... sayun lang kaayo i-ingon nga di na sya tagdon, di reply-an sa text, or unsa pa diha... pero kung buhaton lisud kaayo ...

ty sa mga tambag ninyu, ga lisud jud ko ron....

[treize]

There's something wrong with him and definitely there's something wrong with you as well. You are too scared to move on, too scared that you might become lonely for the rest of your life... You are too scared to risk. Remember this, keeping your relationship with this guy is already a big time risk on your side. So what do you think you have to do?

[jimmy128]

Another case of `True Love, wrong person`, well at least in my eyes that is how I see it. Maski unsa na ka bugoy ang tawo, once you have reached a point where you feel like you would give your entire life to them despite their transgressions in the past, you will and forever always love them.

You are not alone, there are a lot of men and women out there who end up loving there `not so ideal` man or woman. Sometimes it is a beautiful sight, because you love without condition, but at times it can be huge disadvantage on your part because you basically have to deal with `the ghosts` of your partner`s past.

Even though you think to yourself, this is not the kind of person you want to be with for he rest of your life, you can`t seem to let go. But remember that before the two of you even went into a relationship, you were doing fine with your lives. And the day your relationship began, you made a conscious choice to love him. You got so used to loving him every single day na sometimes the choice to love is automatic.

What was the point of the last sentence? Love will always be a conscious choice. For as long as you choose to love someone you will always will. If you choose to stop loving someone then you will stop loving a person. But the hard thing is, your heart is so used to choosing to love him so much, that it is hard not to love him. Gets?

The point is, loving him will always be your choice, and you have the choice not to love him anymore, move on and fine the so called `right person` or you can stay because you already have what you are looking for, true love, but with the not so ideal guy.

I am not telling you to do anything. My reply in this post is to, hopefully, make you more aware of your situation. Hope it helps. God bless

[splendid moonlight]

So he doesn't show his feelings through words. But he doesn't show his feelings through actions either. No words. No actions.

Maybe he doesn't have feelings for you. Did that occur to you? Reality bites. The sooner you accept it, the better. Let him grow at his own pace, but you don't have to put your life on hold.

[Scott Bernard]

Simple ra ako ma advice nimo sis...

Ayaw padala sa TAMA^..... Basta magpadala ta sa ato emotions, ka ubo jud ta. Think about it, There is a reason why our brain is above our heart... and our genitals is below our heart...

[miyay]

maybe loving him is a compulsion. nothing wrong with you. ingon pa sa kanta: Just another woman in love, a kid out of school, A fire out of control, just another fool...

[classicrock]

mao nay love hurts! hehe..

[Saga]

this is one of those case wer our emotions betray us..
we follow our emotions because it feels good and right even if logic suggests otherwise...
there is nothing much you can do but to suck it all up and then move on.. move past behind him.. don't get stuck to this moment of pain.....