ayaw jud na pansina bro.....
in time they will learn to like the guy.....
as in trust me....
it took me two years for my girl's family to like me...
natural rana nga reaction sa mga parents nga ga pangga sailang mga anak...
ayaw jud na pansina bro.....
in time they will learn to like the guy.....
as in trust me....
it took me two years for my girl's family to like me...
natural rana nga reaction sa mga parents nga ga pangga sailang mga anak...
heehehe... for some it takes time... for others...it doesnt happen.
as long as she's doing great sa side sa laki & herself, tell her not to get affected na lang. we cannot please everybody jud..
ok ra na if dli ganahan ang parents either sa girl/boy.....anyways inig minyo dli btaw ang parents ang imo giminyuan.....he/she is the one.n c to it that u wont be living together w/ ur in-laws kay lisud na......
this is my own opinion...
don't worry i amang ka kung naay parents sa gurl..
just be yourserlf.
then don't try too hard..just let it be and show to them that they don't have to worry for their daughter...sooner or later they will soften..
going back to original prob: i've talked to my friend lately and yes, naa development gamay. like, mo talk2x na gamay ang mom sa gurl, etc. pero basically, naa pa gap nga ma feel niya. i told him as what you told me guys: give it some time for them to mellow down and get familiar with him. thanks for the advices.
well, for those experiencing this same prob, you can also add up here.
- how old man ni imo friend and his gf? sometimes mo matter man gud ni kay kon going to school pa or just graduated ma threatened ang parents kay basin sayo ma minyo...they have to allay this fear by letting it be known nga although they are in a serious relationship ...wala pa immediate plan to settle down...(if that is the case) then basin medyo mo relax ang parents..
- try not to go out very often and stay out late ..again ma threaten na sad sila kay basin ma mabdos etc etc....puede man panagsa ang activities anha sa balay...kanang kakita sila that you can have clean fun tahay ba he hehe....play board games...watch dvd together...have a cook out at home nya serve the dinner for the parents...apili ug mga tiniguwang nga activities to gain the trust sa mga tiguwang sab... :mrgreen:
- well just show how much you cherish their daughter...makita and ma feel man na nila nga palangga ang ila baby girl...so inspite sa ila fears mo soften ra jud na sila kon makita nga love nimo ila anak...
but in a nutshell...we can not force people to like us...just be yourself and kon deadma jud sila...just respect their feelings...but padayon lang sa imong good treatment and respeto sa ilaha...
mao ra man na ako ma share oi...puera buyag...palangga man ayo ko sa ako in laws....suwerte sad jud ko ani dapita...
paimna ang imong fathers in law pirmi syaro dili na mausab nya imong mother in law gani imo pud dalhon usahay sa parlor....sa laktud pag kasulti ....sipsip ginagmay oi...Originally Posted by thisbe.ara
well sa akong experienced wla man ko naglisod to fit in sa family sa akong wife. i even spent less time nila also sa ilang anak
since bc man ko sa work. but then i remember when i was in my gf's place. i tried talking to her dad talking things nga sensible
anything under the sun nga ganahan sa iyng dad. sa iyang mom she likes cooking, it so happen nga i knew a bit so i share what i
knew and ask what her mom's secret in making "SIKWATI"
to sum this things up, FIND WHAT THINGS NGA INTERSTED ANG IMONG MGA IN-LAWS, but it doesn't mean nga u over do it
bsan dli ka kahibaw u tend knowing it nya palabwan pa gyud kinda things...
just be yourself when talking to them. hambog is a NO NO...REMEMBER U WANT GOOD IMPRESSION TO THEM THAT WOULD LAST A LIFETIME :mrgreen:
i don't call it pa sip-sip just being your self, if this doesn't work? give them a car![]()
@thisbe.ara, may I ask po what are your friend's true intentions to his girlfriend of three years?
They are planning to get married in the near future? Have they announced this na to the parents of both parties?
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