"Is it wrong to love someone too much?"

[nonaghurl0110]

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with regards to being wise...those kinds of people who think that they can out-win "love" are not thinking straight... hehe! no offense... POV lang...

it's like:

God= LOve; no one can be wiser than God Himself... =)

[wanderingsoul]

It's only wrong when you lose yourself in the realtionship
from loving too much -- that is you revolve your whole
world around him, leaving no more space for your own
self, family and friends.

Only when you guys break up, you find yourself that
you lost your identity and you feel that you have no
idea how to move on.

Worst case will be -- you'll get stuck in a rut in your loss.

[BlacknGray]

It's only wrong when you lose yourself in the realtionship
from loving too much -- that is you revolve your whole
world around him, leaving no more space for your own
self, family and friends.

Only when you guys break up, you find yourself that
you lost your identity and you feel that you have no
idea how to move on.

Worst case will be -- you'll get stuck in a rut in your loss.

Yep, in the end kita lagi luoy. Tsktsk..

[BlacknGray]

with regards to being wise...those kinds of people who think that they can out-win "love" are not thinking straight... hehe! no offense... POV lang...

it's like:

God= LOve; no one can be wiser than God Himself... =)

Right. Bato-bato sa langit tamaan wag magalit. Lol

[kitine]

I asked my cousin, "Mali bang magmahal ng sobra?" (She's from Manila). And she was like; "Oo, mali ang magmahal ng sobra.. mali yon, para sa ating mga sarili. Kasi pag nagmahal tayo ng sobra, tayo ang kawawa, diba?" I was very attentive. "Pero hindi kasalanan yon. Magiging kasalanan nalang yon pag tinalikuran mo yung mahal mo." I was puzzled. "Pag pinili mong talikuran siya, dahil takot at ayaw mo lang masaktan. In that case, sarili mo lang yung iniisip mo.. pagiging selfish yon, diba?" "Pag nasaktan,naloko or nabigo tayo sa love.. ayus lang yon, at least hindi tayo yung nanakit." "Kaya pag nagmahal ka na, iparamdam mo yon sa kanya. Wag kang maging selfish. Matuto kang magbigay."

From that conversation, I've learned and realized that it's BETTER to be hurt than to hurt other people.

It's never wrong...the danger with human love is we lose ourselves.. we end up not knowing ourselves, because we build our world around our beloved.. but if we can transform human love to divine love, we become whole and free, and ironically we can love our beloved more fully because now we can give all of our self without losing our identity...

[bodacious_babe]

no. For GOD never says, "I'm loving this creature of mine too much". OR think of this, would you want your partner to give you only partial love? How would that make you feel?

Loving unconditionally means exactly that.. loving with all your heart and with all your being.

Loving until it hurts as what Mother Teresa used to say..

♥ b_babe ♥

[Mr. BrokenHearted]

I asked my cousin, "Mali bang magmahal ng sobra?" (She's from Manila). And she was like; "Oo, mali ang magmahal ng sobra.. mali yon, para sa ating mga sarili. Kasi pag nagmahal tayo ng sobra, tayo ang kawawa, diba?" I was very attentive. "Pero hindi kasalanan yon. Magiging kasalanan nalang yon pag tinalikuran mo yung mahal mo." I was puzzled. "Pag pinili mong talikuran siya, dahil takot at ayaw mo lang masaktan. In that case, sarili mo lang yung iniisip mo.. pagiging selfish yon, diba?" "Pag nasaktan,naloko or nabigo tayo sa love.. ayus lang yon, at least hindi tayo yung nanakit." "Kaya pag nagmahal ka na, iparamdam mo yon sa kanya. Wag kang maging selfish. Matuto kang magbigay."

From that conversation, I've learned and realized that it's BETTER to be hurt than to hurt other people.

for me it's wrong to love someone so much if the person you love doesn't love you back kay in the end masakitan ra ka ug maayo... i've experienced it many times that i love too much but the one I love doesn't love me so i've realized right now that its wrong....

if the person love you also, i think you can give love too much but has a limitations coz someday he/she might leave you so in order you to not be hurt in the end if your relationship gonna end each other....

[mr.romantic]

for me..loving too much is never wrong.. it is a way of expressing how great is our love for someone..even though we need to control it..but sometimes we cant..

ive done this before..and will do it again f naay worthy nga babae... nga akong masugatan ...someone dat would make me feel ..loving someone is the best feeling ever..

[fruitella]

It's only wrong when you lose yourself in the realtionship
from loving too much -- that is you revolve your whole
world around him, leaving no more space for your own
self, family and friends.

Only when you guys break up, you find yourself that
you lost your identity and you feel that you have no
idea how to move on.

Worst case will be -- you'll get stuck in a rut in your loss.

I super agree But wut's bad is that you will only realize all these things when he/she is gone..

[mr.romantic]

I super agree But wut's bad is that you will only realize all these things when he/she is gone..

i agree..dili na nimo ma feel ang unsa ma feel nimo before..og dili siya mwala nimo...

dats why makaingon ka nga sakit kaayo kay wala naman siya nimo... ur not together anymore..ul starting to miss those things that you have done for him or her..tapos ma think nimo..that u have been a fool in loving too much...