ganahan cya makigbalik

[Tirong-say]

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She is something na-flight attendant gud, but somehow with how she treated you before, maorag it's better to let her go, pangita na lang ug someone nga although dili kaayo appreciable pero does not have the qualities of hurting your feelings and thus you can trust would feel of how you want to be felt.........

[maddox_pitt]

naa ko gf before for almost 4years. dili cya taga cebu bt diri lng cya ni skwela. pag graduate namo ni transfer cya manila para magreview sa ilang board. ever since nibalhin cya didto nagka gamay jud ang time na magstorya mi. then one morning, nitawag ko sa iyang fone and i think she accidentally answered the call without knowing it. i heard her and a guy talking. that was 5:30am in the morning so most probably shes still in bed with a guy. then after mga 5min she ended the call. after an hour nitawag cya, and i told her "if naa ka gitago ingna nlng ko" and then she said na "im pregnant". grbe jud to kasakit uy. i ended the conversation dayon kay sakit kaayo. i just txted her na dli na jud nko cya maforgive. and after that we had no communication na jud. 2 yrs after, nka move on nko and naforgive na nko cya. she sent me a message through friendster na what i know about her daw was not true and dili daw cya pregnant nor married but nagka bf jud daw cya sa manila. then nitxt cya na ganahan daw cya makipagkita. nisugot ko makipagkita para ma end nko whatever we had before formally. but then she said na she really wanted makigbalik. i told her lng na i cant trust her na. then ingon cya na mag flight atendant sa daw cya sa qatar for two years then after, mubalik jud daw cya for me. ingon pa jud cya na in the end kami ra daw gihapon magkadayon. until now cge gihapon cya text nko whenever mu land cila ug usa ka place. i only replied to her txt mesages twice. grbe jud nko ka inlove niya before but after what she did, i dont think i can trust her again. what do u guys think?

sorry for the term..pero buang na lang jud ka bai if makigbalik ka...
unsaon na lang.... nahan ka all your life if magbalik mo mag.doubt ka niya or sa inyuhang relationship...
mura mag sure gud xa makigbalik paka niya...basig abi niya in.love paka niya sad..
ingon man ka naka.move on naman kaha ka?then move on... she's not worth it...
if the "pregnant" thing was a joke, then it wasn't funny at all... would've caused one a heart attack... and she said it herself dba? twas not a rumor you heard from other people...
ask ko bro, do you still love her? sa tinuod lang...and do you think you can still trust her?

[RainDrizzle07]

tsk..tsk..tsk..it is never an assurance na dli xa mag inamaw while she is on air..lol nabuhat man gani nya nga naa ra xa sa manila.. dba?

and yes korek..cla..puslan naka move on naka..move on nlng jud.. unless nlng nag atik2x ra ka ug storya nga naka move on na ka..

or bacg nahan sad ka makigbalik kunohay for revenge? ^_^

TS naa ra jud na nmo usna imong buhaton..

and agree ko sa imong last sentence na in love kay ka then pag buhat kay nawad an na ka ug trust..nahitabo nmn sad na nako gud..

and wla najud nako gbalikan akong ex kay ug mkgbalik ko after what he did..wla ko peace of mind.. ^_^

[annerhexian]

sorry for the term..pero buang na lang jud ka bai if makigbalik ka...
unsaon na lang.... nahan ka all your life if magbalik mo mag.doubt ka niya or sa inyuhang relationship...
mura mag sure gud xa makigbalik paka niya...basig abi niya in.love paka niya sad..
ingon man ka naka.move on naman kaha ka?then move on... she's not worth it...
if the "pregnant" thing was a joke, then it wasn't funny at all... would've caused one a heart attack... and she said it herself dba? twas not a rumor you heard from other people...
ask ko bro, do you still love her? sa tinuod lang...and do you think you can still trust her?

agree jud ko ani na maddox... mao bro hunahuna jud.. DILI LALIM imo na agi an bya...

[jbo]

tnx sa inyong mga advices! i appreciate it..

[jirurie]

once trust is broken, lisod na nah buohin balik/

[esotericlove]

bitaw bro, lisod naman tinood ibalik ang trust.. peru sometimes gud kung love jud sad nimo ang tao mailbalik lang jud gihapon.. ikaw bro, you ask yourself kung unsa naa sa imo heart.. basin ingon ka naka move on na ka but the deep inside you kung imo jud e ask imo self basin love pa nimo sya.. SOmetimes gud will ask the opinion of other people but sometimes we have to use our own sense pod kung unsa jud ato gusto. Baka love pa nimo sya and then mostly sa opinion ayaw baliki but kaw gusto nimo..try to examine your feelings kung tinood ba jud na di na ka nya and if mubalik ka, make sure pod na ang girl true na this time sa iya love nimo..

[gkoopir]

i think it's better to let things go the way they are now nlang bro.. you have moved on nman pd and maybe.. just maybe you are not meant to be. lisud na ang relationship nga wlay trust esp mag LDR rba mo since she works abroad. trust is one of the biggest foundation of a good relationship but if wla na ang foundation dali ra ba cya maguba... if it will only end up ra ghapon sa another buwag don't waste nlang your time and feelings.. anyway in the end if kamo ra ghapon, time and chances will always find a way good luck

Agree ko ani iyang gi comment bro. Nakamove on na bitaw ka..
Its really hard to trust again.
Lastly with all the comments nga nabasa nimo, the decision is yours ra jud.
Cguroa lang jud nga dili ka magmahay sa imong decision. Kanang dili lang ka mag cge og what if.. good luck.

[TEDA]

ayaw nlng pkgbalik nia migo oie. nwala na ang TRUST nga supposedly ang foundation to any realtionship
wala kai peace of mind if mkkamo kai larga2 pd xa. and for sure
nkkita mn gni xa ddto sa manila and naa pjd tong rumors
how much more sa gawas? nga wala kai mdawat nga direct rumors?
mas mgara xa ug kiat/agib2 sa layo kai khibaw xa d nmu mhibaw.an
and if you said nka move on nqa.. dli na ta qa mgduha2 if mkgbalik pka nia
mas arang2 if mu ingon qa nga FRIENDS nlng jd mo.
bestfriends will do.. sa 4years nga inyung na agian? sayang pd if mwala tanan dba?
then naa nsad kai bago nganahan.. focus your attention to that girl nlng. dli sa imung ex

but anyways. naa rna nmu ang decision and i hope dli qa msayop ug pili

[simoncpu]

To the TS: naka score man kaha ka bro? Kung wala, lugi ka...