^mao sad gurly
Your friend can start by communicating and letting her bf now how she feels..And she should make him realize that she is serioulsy affected by the guy's actions..Now, if you truly love a person, you will try to work on things to please that person..If mopadayon japon ang guy sa iyang bisyo even though he knows already na nasakitan iyang uyab with it, then I don't think I have to spell out what that means..

well for me, tell it to his face that she doesn't like what his doing... the guy is still looking for an extra relationships... dat's what most of us usually do before settling down... hehehehehe... if he truly loves ur friend he would have stop a long time ago. Or just diverting his past time with "DOTA" or Counter Strike... nyaaaah....![]()
maka relate sad ko ani da, sauna chatter pa ko. malingaw ra man ko chat sauna anha sa mga channel kay daghan man ko naamigo og naamiga diha ra sa chat, without thinking any bad intentions or plans basta lingaw ra ko ad2 nga time and not realizing that i'm making my gf uncomfortable. so I stop. puol nman sad madugay.
There are good men, really good, but manages to hurt their women anyway. There are great men who do the same thing.Please help, naglibog nako unsa e advice sa friend ko... k for me, i know the guy and i know he loves her. that's his only fault, flirt kaau...
Maybe that's the reason why some women fall for the bad guy image, thinking - and perhaps, sometimes they are right - that these types are more apt to really take care of their woman once they really fall in love.
Last edited by splendid moonlight; 02-17-2010 at 08:30 PM.
@TSfirst of all, we have to examine first the grounds where your friend met with her bf... thru chatting online also..Again... i'm no way condoning or condemning any relationships that sprouted thru online chatting or even txting but then again, this is just one of those things where its a 'hit or a miss' kind of relationship..I believe your friend's bf is not really serious with your friend, as he is still entertaining the activities of chatting other girls... For him maybe, he is not quite contented and satisfied with your friend.You should tell your friend to wake up and smell the coffee.. his bf is not deep down serious with her and she should face the reality to accept the consequences of it.. If her bf can't tell her sincerely than your friend should be the one to CUT this relationship once and for all. She is just putting and banging a stone on her head if she goes on with this guy. Face it, I'm a guy, I know how guys think and do... I have also done what your friend's bf did.. before.. when I was NOT REALLY SERIOUS with my x gf.. Though I really can't admit the thoughts as well of breaking up with her before because I love the thoughts of someone loving me as well.. (maau nalang kay sa wala juy nagmahal ba). It even came to the point of me meeting my other chatmates.. w/o my x knowing it. I felt guilty about it and I regretted what I did in the past.Again, tell your friend.. It's not worth it to drag this on and on.. Put a stop on it once and for all. The soon she ends this 'so called' relationship the soon as she can recover and move on with her life....
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