Kinsay una?

[tamse]

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death is part of life, my friend. we should not only cope with it, we should embrace it.

my grandma just passed away. she lived up to the very ripe age of 88, died of old age, and saw all of us before she went. when i think of her, all i remember is her loving care and stories and hugs and smiles. it makes me teary-eyed sometimes, but somehow i get comforted by the fact that she is so alive in all of us that she can't be really gone, you know what i mean?

noh? condolence... ako sad auntie nga pinangga kaau ko.. she died because of cancer... though kblo ko nga naa xa cancer, wa man ko ka get over gud kay within those time naa xa cancer wa ko ka visit niya or ad2 man lang at least sa iya lubong... mao na, feeling guilty nuon ko... kato man gud nko xa nga aunt kay mura nko niya anak... i even still remember nga ibilin ko sa ako mama sa iyaha tapos xa kay atimanon pko niya kaysa sa ako mga cousin, hungitan.... spoiled kau...^^, pag sulti sa ako cousin na namatay xa kay i cried the whole night.. tulala ko... ambot... basta... last nmong kita gud kay 16 pko and now going 22 nko tapos kissan2x pa jud ko niya ato nga time... T.T


@nyxgorf
harsh!...iya lagi papa..hahaha

[Sol_Itaire]

^nganong wa man sad ka ka bisita niya

i remember writing about my lola in one of the threads here. at that time i wasn't ready pod kay wa ko ka bisita niya. i prayed, "don't go yet. wait for me." i checked and that was about 2 years ago. in my last visit, which was 2 weeks ago, i prayed differently. i just stroked her face gently, cried, and in silence 'told' her that she could now go (she wasn't eating or drinking enough and was in pain from bed sores).

when i think of death, i get overwhelmed sometimes. how can loved ones not BE anymore? i sometimes get terrified with losing my memories of them.

then again, i, too, will leave eventually. how many years do i have left? 40? 50? who knows it might even be shorter than that. so there's no sense dwelling in fear or grief and fast-forwarding my own death. i'd rather live life fully as much as my grandma did. she outlived her own son (my father), husband, and step-son, yet i didn't see any trace of bitterness or despair. she truly was--is--my inspiration.

[DarkCode]

Kamo lng una ulahi lng ko para mo dagkot kandila ninyo.... hahaha btaw lisuda sd ani nga pangutana ui

[tamse]

@DarkCode
hehe... lisoda lagi...


@Sol_Itaire
wa nko ka visit niya kay pag when i left my home town OK pa man xa, wa pa xa cancer, i came here to cebu man gud to study tapos karn work... wa nko ka balik even once or even stepped my feet on the ground of mindanao... bsag patay nga buhok nko wa na abot ngadto... if i go home now its too late... she's gone.. huhuhu... perti lagi nkong hilaka ato nga gabii but i felt na she was there when i cried... di man ni first time nawad-an ko, pati ako close friend sa HS, also died because of cancer, she died at the age of 14. till now i celebrate and greet her everytime her birthday comes...^^,

[cptn_star]

inday tamse ang kamatayon dili angay ikahadlok...pagtabok kini padulong sa ikaduhang kinabuhi kung diin wala na'y mga suliran, problema og kalisdanan...mahimong mawala kadtong tawo na namatay nah apan ikaw mamatay ra sad ghapon parehas sa tanan...ang kalibutan dili molusad hangtod sa hangtod...kini temporaryo lamang...busa ayaw ikabalaka ang kamatayon kay ang kamatayon naa'y iyang kaugalingong kabalaka..

[tamse]

@cptn_star

im not afraid to die.. im willing to die... dugay nko naghulat ana coz all i get in this world is just pain and vain... kept me waiting for nothing, letting me live for nothing... char! btaw wui, im not afraid to die... its just that i cant take the scene if i saw one of my family dies...

[cptn_star]

ang kinabuhi napuno sa kalisdanan para pag.hanas kanimo na mahimong mas maaung tawo...hinumdumi na ang kutsilyo gikan sa usa ka pirasong puthaw na gitunaw, gimolde, gibunalan og martilyo, giporma, gibairan og gipasinaw aron mahimong hait og nindot...sa samang pagkaagi, ang tawo, moagi og mga mapait na mga sirkumstansya sa kinabuhi isip usa ka paagi na mahimo ikaw na mas maaung taw..

[tamse]

@cptn_star

nosebleed ko sa bisaya nmo...hahahaha...grabe!... basta, since elem pko gahulat ana... wa pa man nahi abot...

[gamatoy]

kuyawa nimo pangutana tamse woi..murag kangilngig bah paminawon ana oi...nganu man tawon naka buhat ka ana na thread tamse woi...hahaha

[gamatoy]

ang kinabuhi napuno sa kalisdanan para pag.hanas kanimo na mahimong mas maaung tawo...hinumdumi na ang kutsilyo gikan sa usa ka pirasong puthaw na gitunaw, gimolde, gibunalan og martilyo, giporma, gibairan og gipasinaw aron mahimong hait og nindot...sa samang pagkaagi, ang tawo, moagi og mga mapait na mga sirkumstansya sa kinabuhi isip usa ka paagi na mahimo ikaw na mas maaung taw..

balaknon kaau ka do...mao nay gi ingon na himamaton naton atong kaugalingon aron dili ta mahimo usa ka dautang tawo..busa malipayon ta sa atong mga ginikanan na nag padaku kanato ug nahimo kita usa ka tawo na kung dili tingod nila dili ta mahimo...