Betwn Closefriend & Potential GF/BF, Who deserves ur tim

[cebutech]

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let ur fren understand. d man pod kaha kau important ang tuyo sa imong close fren nimo? then ang "potential", if feel jud nimo na ganahan ka mo spend, then go..

what if close jud mo? what if ikaw ang gi prioritize sa imong close friend pirmi? as in kamo cge istorya... wa mausab ang imong close friend sa paghatag ug importansya. ikaw kaha? mausab imong tinagdan na kay naay kay nakaila na laing tao na ni show ug interest? na sincere kunuhay?

[mitch_a888]

in the 1st place, y should u prioritize 4 that "potential" gf? did u meet her na? how deep or how far is ur communication? sometimes man gud, f we're on a heightened emotion 4 that some1 we don't know yet, malimot ta 4 those pipol who value us most. then if failure ta sa "potential", ayha rata mo apologize sa atong close fren kai nabiyaan nato cla. think....

[cebutech]

in the 1st place, y should u prioritize 4 that "potential" gf? did u meet her na? how deep or how far is ur communication? sometimes man gud, f we're on a heightened emotion 4 that some1 we don't know yet, malimot ta 4 those pipol who value us most. then if failure ta sa "potential", ayha rata mo apologize sa atong close fren kai nabiyaan nato cla. think....

errr... di na ako ha. :P

pero sakto ka... usually ma taken for granted jud ang close friend kay salig naa ra pirmi.. anytime pwede ra istorya-on.

so u think it's fair? na kalit ka mausab ug tinagdan sa imong close friend kay naa kay na meet na interesting na tao sa internet. padaplin jud ang close friend basta naa na ang bag-o?

what if 1 month pa mo nagkaila sa katong tao online? u think it's fair to value that online "friend" more than your close friend?

[mitch_a888]

did u meet her na? 1 month s not enough for u to say na "potential" na cya na gf/bf. sometimes we're overwhelmed by their concerns "kuno". well, that's still fancy. y not try to open it up 2 ur close fren diay? close man kaha mo? yet mangluod cya nimo. normal reaxion ra na. but don't forget na she's/he's ur fren jud. if ma fail ka sa imo expectations sa "potential", mobalik ra japun ka sa imong close fren. vicious cycle, u might lose her coz nakakita na pod cya lain.

[cebutech]

mitch.. i'm not talking about myself.

i want to know how u'll handle the situation though. so kinsa man sa duha ang imong e priotitize ug tagad? ang dugay na nimo na kaila na close friend ug cge nimo kaistorya OR ang bag-o nimo nakaila sa internet na "sincere" para nimo ug naay potential mahimong bf?

kanang kung muabot ang situation na mupili ka kung kinsa tagaan nimo importansya at that moment.

[mitch_a888]

mitch.. i'm not talking about myself.

i want to know how u'll handle the situation though. so kinsa man sa duha ang imong e priotitize ug tagad? ang dugay na nimo na kaila na close friend ug cge nimo kaistorya OR ang bag-o nimo nakaila sa internet na "sincere" para nimo ug naay potential mahimong bf?

kanang kung muabot ang situation na mupili ka kung kinsa tagaan nimo importansya at that moment.

sa close fren ko oi sa way pagduha2x...

[mitch_a888]

mitch.. i'm not talking about myself.

i want to know how u'll handle the situation though. so kinsa man sa duha ang imong e priotitize ug tagad? ang dugay na nimo na kaila na close friend ug cge nimo kaistorya OR ang bag-o nimo nakaila sa internet na "sincere" para nimo ug naay potential mahimong bf?

kanang kung muabot ang situation na mupili ka kung kinsa tagaan nimo importansya at that moment.

sa close fren ko oi sa way pagduha2x...

[ferj]

wud prioritize my close friend jud....
however, u shud also look into the situation...
of who among them needs ur time--kumbaga ang urgency..

[cebutech]

mitch_a888 & ferj...

thanks for the replies...

if i were to answer, i'd choose my close friend. it's not about the urgency. it's showing how much you value your closefriend who's been with u for a long time than a stranger whom u've just recently met in the internet. the stranger should adjust to my time with my closefriend and not the other way around.

[crinkle]

but don't you think that stranger could be the one you've been waiting for all along? could you live with the what if's if you were to decide in favor of that close friend now?