HELP What to do with my friend's GF?

[jlodarl]

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grabeh baya na ang woman instinct...

[iagosmom]

you are the friend, so ikaw na lang sabot. palayo lang sa then hulat mag break up na sila.

kidding aside, di man sad nimo i totally erase ang imong friend sa imong life. minimize lang. insecure na jud na ang iyahang gf if mureklamo pa siya na usahay ra gani mo magkita.

[ceden_yu143]

noh...ka selosa gd anang bayhana....di mn sd ibutang sa lugar iyang pgka selosa....pro ikaw ky naa mn ka ana nga stage is sabot nlng pd cz u cant boot2 one's life gd...so as early as now nga di pana dako nga problem kaw nlng give way...pro if the guy is still comunicating with evn though sa mga panghitabo is try to xplain sa guy ang real situation...ky i knw if bryt sya mka.sabot sya....

so kip it in mind nlng na frnds mo and stop lng sa comunicating nila...bad to say cz atong gi.tolerate ang gbuht sa girl pro wa mn gd tay mabuhat ana cz each one of us has our own identity...

[Soul_Captive]

Makasabot pod guro ka sa side sa gf since you're also a girl..It's really hard to trust guys these days (or even before), and a woman will always be a woman..If you really are not feeling anything romantic for the guy and want them to be happy as a couple, you should indeed stay a little bit farther from the guy..I know you have known him and has been his friend way back when the girl was not there yet, but that is exactly the point..She was not there yet, but now she is, so you have to mellow down on your friendship since he has more responsibilities to her..
The communication can be minimized, although not really eliminated..Just let the girl feel that you are not always there for her boyfriend, and you have your own life to live that does not necessarily include her boyfriend..This way, the threat she sees in you will fade away in time..Just my two cents..

[am_believer24]

put yourself in her shoes mam..
i-befriend na lang iyang gf, let her feel na your happy for them..=)

[morphine1985]

the best thing you can do is stay out of it nalang gyud. Even if you want to help, don't. It will only make matters worse. You said na you tried to befriend her but she's not open to the idea. There you go. Uber green with envy na ang girl nimo, lisod nana. Ikaw ra ang masangit sa middle. Pasagdai nalang na sila, let them deal with their problems. If mag apil2x ka, musamot ra nuon na.

Ang imo sd amigo insensitive ra kaayo. Kibaw cya magselos iya uyab, cge ghapon text nimo. Dukla! hehehe I know you and the guy are friends pero keep a little distant lang, kibaw na btaw ka na selosa ug uyab, don't add fuel to the fire.

Girl btaw ka, try to understand her side. Dili pd bya lalim, especially nowadays na dghan na ang nabinuangan.

[Abby_mcwayne]

hehehe.. there you go girl..

majority wins dba? and so far, most of the advises given here implies that you need to "stay out of the picture"..

bitaw, one reason nanu mag selos ang girl is because, dugay na mana kaha moh kaila sa guy, xempre, nag try na xa build ug foundation sa ilang relationship.. and mahadlok xa na ma compare xa nimo.. ganahan xa na cla lang duha because he does not want his guy to be distracted by having you around..

and to your guy friend, he should know his priority.. he cannot have his cake and eat it too.. he can only choose whom between you ang mas i prioritize nya.. and for me, it should be his girlfriend..

a true friend will always understand dba? so refrain from being with him or from being too close.. distanxa lang gamay..

[rishee]

naa koy feeling na ganahan ka sa guy? noh? noh? ayeehee... aminin.. ammmmmp! hehe

pero seriously, if ako lang.. naay girl magkig close sa ako uyab- be it OLD or NEW friend, ma-lain or masuko jud ko!

I mean... naa na gud na tatak na he's mine kay uyab me officially. (unless d official, d jud mangangkon)

ma-annoy jud ko samga gurls na magkig close sa akong uyab. as in.. mura kog ma pranning. It's not that I don't trust my guy... but I know na he may fall into temptation.. labin na abawt toot na..

I've always believed in "Prevention is better than Cure" so mao na.. stay away jud ka kay natural, ang Mama Cat masuko if hilabtan iya baby Cat miski mu hikap raka..

Mu abot pa lang ang adlaw na akong guy mag hilak padong uli saying na naa siyay na mabdos na gurl tungod na hubog siya or what... niya mag hilak na murag way ugma kay SORRY to the bones ang effect.. EVEN if he truly is Sorry, we can't deny the fact na naa nay ni burot na lain diha.. unsaon naman pag fix ana na relationship? Even if mu accept nlng tawn ka, luoy ka.. kay sila naay anak, niya ikaw wala.. or something like that bah.
basta I'm totally against this. Ako lang pud ni..

I don't think there's such a thing as Selosa in the right place because temptation is everywhere..
of course this is with the understanding na constant inyo commu ha.. as in mag texanay jud mo.. kana.. ambot lang.. makalagot mana oi. ayy ko ingna wa jud ka kasuway ana?

guys will be guys.. and Girls will always be martyrs for the men that they love, and these guys will never know what they've got till it's gone.. this is in General ha.. (though naay uban cases na laki ang victim kay ang gurlaloo cge Vega)

Mao na..

[P-Chan]

my suggestions.. give the girl a real reason to get jealous..

[jntio]

bacn naa pd ka gusto sa imo fren sis? dli bya na malikayan. or imo fren ba mao naa gusto nmo. nya f mg uban cla sa iya gf ikw pirme ma hisgot nya. paet. bacn mao na hinundan na suko iya gf sa imo. haha. taka lng ko