walk away.
cool down.
talk when you're both calm na.
walk away.
cool down.
talk when you're both calm na.
after sa inyo fight, ayaw mo pang luod...share lang gihapon mo the same bed. Observe ra gud....100 % dili ma ugmaan peace na mo.
-Remove the pride
-Remember those sweet moments
-Calm down
-you talk to each other, don't let the day end if everything is not settle
-You pray for peace
-Seek advice to a mature or spiritual elders (if its really huge problem)
-Have patients
I prefer to remain silent & listen to husband talk. Esp. when he's drunk. I'll return the topic when he's cool. on following day
dapat naay usa nga magpahi-ubos. in our case, not me hehehe.
in our situation sa ko hubby.. there is only one way na mag-away mi kana grabe kaayo ka-inom og beer and mawala na sya sa yaha sanity kung baga. mo start dayun sya og trigger og away labi na mo dili ko saya ha gusto na mo gawas mi and manuroy na gabi-e na or mo gawas mi nya magpasapot2x dayun ko.
away dayun mura sira plaka sya sge balik2x og yawyaw... it all boils down to money issues baya ang hisgutan... karon wala'y money ako husband i was really thinking dugay pa may pa wala sya money para di sya kainom kay buotan kaayo basta dili kainom...
when he is sober, he is really okay!
kung mag-away, masakitan ko bawsan sad naku storya even though i know di sya kahinomdom sa ako gpanulti or amo gi-away... but later ive realized if he drinks, i will go to the other room and sleep para walay gubot. likay nalang ko sa away para wala nalang jud away for the two of us...
2 tings ra jud... mag-away mi kung naka-inom sya and pirme lalisan kwarta never ending cycle lang jud ne sya namo....
keeping quiet, letting things cool down first, then talk about the problem or kung unsa may giawayan
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