Tambagi daw ko..my gf posted a msg to her ex sa facebook.

[reginakrys]

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@cp103thanks for the insight bai...im really still torn between to suck it in and move on with things.. or move on and suck out all things...it's not easy really to let go of a relationship that's almost 2 years na... talking sometimes relieves one's doubt but just like a glass that has been broken already.. she cannot piece in back the respect and trust I gave to her na.. d na jud nya ma balik pa.. If ever gani mag balik jud mi.. I really can't trust her totally na... there will always be a part of me to doubt her.. whether she is acting her true self or just being honest in all her ways and actions in the future...it left a hole in my being and it marked a scar on my trust to her...

how did she break your trust? did you catch her cheating on you? as far as i know (cge man sd ko basa ani nga thread).. ikaw ra baya ngput ug meanings sa iyang actions..

[dwardwarbinx]

maybe i am lang tingali..

But do u girls talk to ur bf how u admire guys wen magkuyog mong duha? Maka paranoid man tingali wen ur gf would tell u nga lami nag lawas lakiha den kuyog mo ug naay niagi nga guy sa tungod ninyo and utters something lyk 'sawal imal' w/c is a gay lingo for u know..

Im bit paranoid and insecure why she has to say those things.. its not easy sometimes wen ur gf/bf would say she yearns to sleep w/ someone that she ****ing likes.. Like the man of her dreams..actors..etc..

It makes me insecure and paranoid why she has to talk lyk dat...

walay batasan imong gf, bro. wala siyay respeto nimo. kabalo biya siya masakitan ka ana.
normal raman na nga you find other men/women attractive pero you don't have to tell your boyfriend about it. respeto lang gud niya wala siguro siya magthink kung unsa iyang ma-feel kung ikaw mag-ingana niya. ingna lang siya gud kay sauna ako uyab ingana man sad. mag-comment about other girls niya ako jud siya gi-confront nga ma-bwisit ko ana niya maka-low sad ug self-esteem.

about sa msg sa facebook kay depende. kung kabalo siya nga dili ka comfortable na mag-communicate pa sila sa iyang ex, mu-understand nalang ta siya. mu-compromise gani. i think she'd feel the same way kung ikaw na ang mag-communicate sa imo exes ug ingato.

[luisyntaneca]

Basin gimingaw cya sa ila moments bro...surveilance lang gnagmay...u get her in a right tym..

[aozora]

@cp103thanks for the insight bai...im really still torn between to suck it in and move on with things.. or move on and suck out all things...it's not easy really to let go of a relationship that's almost 2 years na... talking sometimes relieves one's doubt but just like a glass that has been broken already.. she cannot piece in back the respect and trust I gave to her na.. d na jud nya ma balik pa.. If ever gani mag balik jud mi.. I really can't trust her totally na... there will always be a part of me to doubt her.. whether she is acting her true self or just being honest in all her ways and actions in the future...it left a hole in my being and it marked a scar on my trust to her...

i think, this is more rational than post #160.

bai, it's not easy to let go nga almost 2 years na, how much more kung magdugay pa?

ang pinaka important nga value sa usa ka partner kay, integrity. which is made up of honesty, trust and loyalty. when integrity is broken, it's really a deal breaker sa ongoing relationship.

also, what she did was a big DISRESPECT in you. (maybe u dont realize this)

if you want to give another chance, go for it. it least she knows now nga sayop iyang gibuhat and she knows you didnt like it.
if she does the same in the future, she likes it when you don't like it.
you love her but she doesn't love you. that's the bottom line of it.

[morzy]

Well you must understand a girl too. Loving a girl is sometimes u need to understand her. Try to have a romantic date with her, invest. If he finds you sweet more than his ex might be good result. Dont be possessive to her, love her hehehe. Sometimes love are always mis interpreted to lust. Try to understand what really love is.

[richmack27]

btaw ay makalagot jud na... ngano mag in ana pa man oiz.. dli cla maghuna2x naay masakitan sa ilang gbuhat!!! shit ky cla....

[My_nick]

pagka letch sa imu gf pare.......ngpasabot na nna jd cyay feelings pra sa iya laki....

its not like that bro..sometimes mn gud we want na magpapansin sa among ex. To prove to them that we are doing great without them..

[nardz]

@ TS - OT sako ha gamay ha - ty sa imo gi recommend nga seller ug Laptop, nice jud amo napalit

unsa naman inyo love story sa imo misis, ay uyab diay, ay ex diay...sus unsa bah

any update...weekend na baya...ingun mo magkita mo this weekend...

avid reader ko ani nga post hehehhe...

saka nato gamay....

[nardz]

up up up hehehhehe

tabang lang ko up

[classicrock]

im also a female but even if i know i can keep it from my bf, dili gyud ko mag himo ug something nga malain siya. i wont do anything nga d ko nahan himuon sad sa akong bf nako. u r right, past is past. para wala nay doubt ug gubot, mas maau d na mag establish pa ug communication. d puede nga wala lang ang reason. kung ang taw naay action, there is always a reason for that. ka insensitive sad sa imong gf oi

---- mao ni pinaka sakto ug angay nga buhaton sa mga girls nga naay X.. Nganung mo communicate pmn jud mo sa inyung X? for wat reason man?? Bisan pag X nato nimu pro f makit.an ka sa guy nga nkig communicate ka xmpre malain jud dba?? Past is Past jud focus ka sa present..