Warning: This is a rant!

[butong101]

I totally agree. Its very painful for me to do this but if i dont, things will just get even worse. I tried to show them attention, everytime i come home for a holiday i always invite them to go out with me lets say go for a swim for the day but unfortunately they value theyre friends more and rejected my offer because theyve arranged for something always and promised a rain check but rain checks didnt cone until then i haveto come back here.
it pains me that everyday while i was there, the only time they will come to me is when they need theyre allowance.

Sometimes i had to be nasty and tell them to stay home for the weekend so we can do things together which never worked really because theyre too busyhding with their damn cellphones

please forgive me ma'ma but i noticed you always emphasized money.. guess it's the cause of the barrier..
maybe you talked money more often than ordinary things..

kanus-a mo kataposan ng istorya nga walay kalambigitan sa kwarta ma'am.. maybe that's what your family needs..

kamusta nas mommy?
kamusta dad?
kamusta sis?

... maybe its worth a try.. hehehe

[nitwit]

please forgive me ma'ma but i noticed you always emphasized money.. guess it's the cause of the barrier..
maybe you talked money more often than ordinary things..

kanus-a mo kataposan ng istorya nga walay kalambigitan sa kwarta ma'am.. maybe that's what your family needs..

kamusta nas mommy?
kamusta dad?
kamusta sis?

... maybe its worth a try.. hehehe

Have you missed the part where i was stuck at the hospital instead mangumusta sila sa akong kondisyon, ga sige nuon text nangayo ug kwarta.

Truth is, i have not once (seriously) been asked by any of my siblings of how things are going with me and my family here. Intawon mo text ra kay mag remind nga wala na silay allowance naa man untay viber libre unta

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Hello sis, can you afford not to talk to them for a week or more?

Ive stopped talking to them now. My mum is taking my husband to court thats the recent update because she wants her share. I doubt if she will ever stop.

[spike412]

kaluoy pud tawon nimo nitwit. i have 2 older sisters who works abroad/states but never did i ask or beg for moolah from them. your siblings and mom kay gi-spoiled nimo. teach them how to fish like what others says here. teach them the value of money and most of all respect regardless of age. also, your mom's behavior really is ridiculous. discipline, discipline, discipline is the key to tame these children heheheh. pray for strength and peace of mind.

[unique]

hmmmm...naabot na jud ka sa point nga imo na gani mismo kaugalingon na family maoy nag pahimolos sa imo ka maau na pagkatawo (sauna imo bestfriend), ok ra man guro mo help financially pero mao pod lagi, ug imo pod palabihan, abusaran pod. hinay hinay lang jud sa pag hatag ug financial help kay basin nag tou sila nga in ana na jud ka ka rich kay sayon ra kaau nimo ipanghatag ang milyon or hundred thousands, nya if dili ka ka hatag bisag 500 petot lang ikaw pa ang mahimong bati. basta sa karon dili na sila kamahay nimo, kay imo na gibuhat ang angay buhaton, and again ayaw na ug kyumpyansa after sa mga panghitabo.

[cesar_jr12]

sos kanus-a pa kha ko mka kwarta ug ingon ana mam, kung mka kwarta man cguro ko ug dako nya mka trabaho sa abroad, unahon gyud nako ako kaugalingon, kay mo follow ran cguro ang pagtabang sa parents, but to think dili bya gyud obligasyon sa anak ang parents, labi na naglisod sad ang status, but as anak naa na sad na ang pagtabang ug sa dli pud pirmanente...

[b_05]

Just my 2 cents ma'am,
I think u did the right thing by cutting them off. Unsaon na lang kaha kung ka cge pa ka hatag nila ma'am then kalit2 lang na kuhaon ka sa ginoo (simbako) or kung naai lain di maayong mahitabo, asa na man sila ana? adto na pud sila sa imo husband? or hutdon kaha nila baligya inyo properties then hutdon sad nila waldas ang kwarta na maabot sa ila? I think same ra ang ending ana TS, they will ultimately end up with nothing if they will keep their attitude towards money. mas better na karon nila ma suwayan na walay mag sustento sa ila kaysa later on na older na imo sister or dili na maau ila health, lisud na ipangita employment or livelihood ana. Mas naa pa sila time na mo change karon, hopefully lang maka realize na sila ana TS.

I hope you get well soon TS.

[kageron]

@nitwit; sometimes problems like this are easily solved by saying NO

when you say NO you make them realize
you make them responsible
you make them aware nga you are just limited
you make them independent

[ryan22]

@nitwit don't feel guilty sis, you did the right thing...

[porbidaman]

@nitwit kumusta na sis?

[ecks]

@nitwit kamusta na maam?