Warning: This is a rant!

[silent-kill]

I wouldnt say i gAve them the lifestyle.if you read my first post, we all grew up with nannies amd helpers.

sorry i thought when you said when your dad died, everything went down hill. i assume you supported the lifestyle after that.

anyway you can just cut them off directly instead.

[nitwit]

sorry i thought when you said when your dad died, everything went down hill. i assume you supported the lifestyle after that.

anyway you can just cut them off directly instead.

Yes, after my dad died i continued to support them to have the same lifestyle because i thought it was the right thing to do rather than seeing them in the streets but it seems like, i was wrong but back then, my mum had a severe heart attack and my younger siblings were only very young and i doubt they can get a job and my older sister was too selfish to think only about herself.

[potterboy]

the amount of money involved is just staggering. how much more can they burn?

anyways, moving this to right forums.

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the amount of money involved is just staggering. how much more can they burn?

anyways, moving this to right forums.

[depzi]

wow and you call that "ungrateful daughter" after all the help and sacrifice you had.

a relative of mine said, teach them how to catch a fish not doing everything for them to catch and serve the fish for them.

you better save money for your future mam because for me it ain't a family in times your penniless.

[butong101]

the money involved is not just staggering sir, it's whopping demn ludicrous..

anyways, our family is and will always be our family.. i dont want to sound too righteous but its just it.. at the end of the day, they are still our family.

..obviously there's problem, perhaps in the communication between family members, maybe in understanding each other, and maybe, the excessive request for money is just a call for love and attention..

money is not love nor attention.. maybe attention and understanding is what they desire.. attention is priceless compared to money..

sa gi-ingon pas akong maestra saona, attention whether positive or negative, is still an attention.

-just wanna share, i lost a friend just recently, we were not that close, we dont spend much time together but he was dear to me, and its just so regrettable that i was not able to catch up with him, after a very long time.. nakita nlang nako siya, wala na.. and its sad..

[nitwit]

the money involved is not just staggering sir, it's whopping demn ludicrous..

anyways, our family is and will always be our family.. i dont want to sound too righteous but its just it.. at the end of the day, they are still our family.

..obviously there's problem, perhaps in the communication between family members, maybe in understanding each other, and maybe, the excessive request for money is just a call for love and attention..

money is not love nor attention.. maybe attention and understanding is what they desire.. attention is priceless compared to money..

sa gi-ingon pas akong maestra saona, attention whether positive or negative, is still an attention.

-just wanna share, i lost a friend just recently, we were not that close, we dont spend much time together but he was dear to me, and its just so regrettable that i was not able to catch up with him, after a very long time.. nakita nlang nako siya, wala na.. and its sad..

I totally agree. Its very painful for me to do this but if i dont, things will just get even worse. I tried to show them attention, everytime i come home for a holiday i always invite them to go out with me lets say go for a swim for the day but unfortunately they value theyre friends more and rejected my offer because theyve arranged for something always and promised a rain check but rain checks didnt cone until then i haveto come back here.
it pains me that everyday while i was there, the only time they will come to me is when they need theyre allowance.

Sometimes i had to be nasty and tell them to stay home for the weekend so we can do things together which never worked really because theyre too busyhding with their damn cellphones

[bleedingboi]

..everytime i come home for a holiday i always invite them to go out with me lets say go for a swim for the day but unfortunately they value theyre friends more and rejected my offer because theyve arranged for something always...

Luoya sad nimu oi.

When one of our relatives come home from the States, everything else is cancelled, even their jobs. : )

That's how we adore and welcome them for coming home.

[jumps_zilla]

@ nitwit: They deserve what's coming to them; you shouldn't let them treat you badly anymore. I salute you for putting your foot down this time.

Cheers!

[porbidaman]

Hello sis, can you afford not to talk to them for a week or more?

[prokops]

Don't give them fish..teach them to catch fish..