Divorce, Legal Separation, Annulment: What is your stand?

[Ms.Beau]

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@ rey04 and flik:

though i'm not in this situation, this is how i see it now: the couple makes a covenant or promise in front of God and man. of course a promise should be kept, right? now, if you are in a situation where u can't fulfill your promise anymore, then u have to find a way to be set free from it. analogies: if di na ka kabayad ug utang sometimes u ask for amnesty or something. if u promised your child ba kaha nga u'd take him to the zoo and u can't for some reasons, then u ask to be set free from that promise and apologize.

not being able to fulfill a promise could be a "slap on your face" and you're doing the slapping yourself. well, in our humanness sometimes we have to accept that. promises are not to be taken lightly, true, esp wedding vows. but if your spouse is out there indulging in adultery or abusing you mentally and emotionally, then you have a higher order-->responsiblity for your self. you get out and protect yourself.

[Streetcar]

Sometimes things stop working and what do you do when it stops working? you replace it

[n`gel]

i deserve to be happy...

[Streetcar]

That's what life is all about. Be happy. Nobody is born a sore loser. Each person has value. Each person has good qualities. Each person is unique. Sometimes, things happen for a reason because your vibration is towards a soulmate. So it doesn't follow that just because you are married mao na imong soulmate. Mao na divorce, separation, annulment happens. Soulmate qualities is not present in the relationship mao na mag end.

[hera_82]

This is one reason why I am kinda afraid to settle down. I'm sorta afraid to marry the wrong person. Coz marriage is supposedly for a lifetime... pero what if you find out in the long run na dili diay siya ang para nimo? 'Di ba?

[rey04]

don't let it hinder you my friend. all people have different destinys. maybe you have a good one! it could also be rewarding afterwards.

This is one reason why I am kinda afraid to settle down. I'm sorta afraid to marry the wrong person. Coz marriage is supposedly for a lifetime... pero what if you find out in the long run na dili diay siya ang para nimo? 'Di ba?

[sinsiyo]

well if in that case no one will get married.
what are you afraid of?the numbers of divorced from the statistics is not alarming.so only a few of the population experienced this. if it will happen to any of us im pretty sure it is a very low possibilty. the bottom line is LOVE...its the foundation of a happy marriage.that says it all...

[hera_82]

don't let it hinder you my friend. all people have different destinys. maybe you have a good one! it could also be rewarding afterwards.

well if in that case no one will get married.
what are you afraid of?the numbers of divorced from the statistics is not alarming.so only a few of the population experienced this. if it will happen to any of us im pretty sure it is a very low possibilty. the bottom line is LOVE...its the foundation of a happy marriage.that says it all...

Yeah... true, true. Anyway, wish na lang ta for the best ani.

[n`gel]

Marry somebody you can't live without. Then you'll have a great marriage. And while di pa mo minyo, talk about how you want your family-life to be. Pila ka kids. If ang wife mo work ba or what. Predict future problems... like balancing work and time. Gusto ba mo nga mag laag mo in places with your friends. Basta way dili maistoryahan while engaged or even uyab pa di ba? Although, dili gyud ta makasigurado unsang klaseng problema ang masugatan, pero at least, nana moy connection daan.

[boxingfan529]

Marry somebody you can't live without. Then you'll have a great marriage. And while di pa mo minyo, talk about how you want your family-life to be. Pila ka kids. If ang wife mo work ba or what. Predict future problems... like balancing work and time. Gusto ba mo nga mag laag mo in places with your friends. Basta way dili maistoryahan while engaged or even uyab pa di ba? Although, dili gyud ta makasigurado unsang klaseng problema ang masugatan, pero at least, nana moy connection daan.

true indeed!