Being the 3rd Party in another's relationship?

[Soul_Captive]

i will still try para makbaw ko unsa ka sayop ang akong gibuhat....

Take your time, sis..I know you'll figure it out soon..Don't let other people tell you what to do..If it's a lesson you're supposed to learn, then learn it by yourself through experience..Just make yourself ready for everything and anything..

OnT: Being the third party hurts most especially if you do not know that you are the third party..I was so maldita and isog sa pag-away sa girl, only to find out the truth later that she was after all the original one..And I was the mere intruder

[cinder_ella]

...it so painful knwing nga ul b d 2nd option as always
...u cant demand and just feel contented of what he is willing to give

i have to end this foolishness

@soul

u do have the right to get mad man sad, ur initial reaction upon knwing ur bf has other woman is natural lang coz u dont wanna b fooled and u dont knw that he has a gf man sad.....mas okey nalang na imuha soul kay wala ka idea nga 2nd gf d ay ka....as for me, i knw very well and i dont even know if he considers me as a gf....i dunno, that's why im ending this stupid affair na.

am not totally hurt coz dili man sad so deep ako na feel.....i just felt alone unya niabot ni sya sa akong life...time to let go.

[mikaela_7]

I agree, u can't demand coz in da first place ur not he's first priority....and it hurts everytym you need someone to talk to and then suddenly he needs to go home because he's needed by his family.

I know it's not right that's why to those who are still locked up into this kind of relationship, i would like to share to you that just always ask for God's enlightenment because He will really show you the right way. It's either you will end up together (which is not that easy if he/she is married) or God will really find a way to end up your relationship.

Mine has just ended and its all because of God's guidance and presence. (im sorry if I have offended other people when it comes to religion...i'm just sharing my experience)...

[cinder_ella]

that's why im going to end this na....am tired also.

[am_believer24]

text msg ni xa: a third party would let the couple realize that they are not meant for each other..charot! palusot jud..=)

[Soul_Captive]

text msg ni xa: a third party would let the couple realize that they are not meant for each other..charot! palusot jud..=)

So, we exist for their use? Kaluoy pod namo paminawon with this thought ui..

Personally, my experience was something that really made me realize my worth..I'd rather be alone than be second best to someone..However, wa japon ko regrets..He was my greatest love..I was able to do a lot of things for that love and I managed to get to know myself more because of that experience..Up to now, there is still the feeling of care and probably a degree of love for the person, but with it is also the acceptance that there is nothing more to it..I will probably love him until my last day of existence, but we do not have to end up together..There is just a connection between us that cannot seem to be destroyed despite all the pain he has caused me and all the covering up I try to do..He will always be my soulmate..

[am_believer24]

So, we exist for their use? Kaluoy pod namo paminawon with this thought ui..

Personally, my experience was something that really made me realize my worth..I'd rather be alone than be second best to someone..However, wa japon ko regrets..He was my greatest love..I was able to do a lot of things for that love and I managed to get to know myself more because of that experience..Up to now, there is still the feeling of care and probably a degree of love for the person, but with it is also the acceptance that there is nothing more to it..I will probably love him until my last day of existence, but we do not have to end up together..There is just a connection between us that cannot seem to be destroyed despite all the pain he has caused me and all the covering up I try to do..He will always be my soulmate..

sorry, i didn't mean it that way..=(
we can do stupid things jud when it comes to love..

[Soul_Captive]

It's okay, sis!
Sometimes, it's really hard to understand things unless you have experienced them..Maybe that's why i feel for cinder_ella..

Yeah, we go gaga when it comes to love..All logic is lost..But, I will never forget what my adored college professor once said..She said that when we love, we should love with all of our hearts and just stop thinking and rationalizing things for only that way can we experience love fully..I will be proud to say in the future that I was able to do it and was once in my life, naka experience ko anang feeling na kaya nako buhaton ang tanan para sa usa ka tawo (aside from my family)..

[am_believer24]

know what ate? sometimes, i don't believe in it anymore..=(

[Soul_Captive]

know what ate? sometimes, i don't believe in it anymore..=(

In what?

Believer man kaha ka, according to your nick..hehehe