Being the 3rd Party in another's relationship?

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..kapoi man jud ning third party ta ue, labi na if u wer the gf then now turned 3rd party nalang nuon,tsk! caught in between jud.. well, d lang jud padala sa tama, go with the flow lang gud, kay kung pugson sad jud nimo ang unsa imong gusto like kamo lang duha, d man mahimo, then if magpalayo pd ka, lisud sad labi na if ang laki moy magcgeg patagad, so ako, kay since i'm in this situation ryt now, la lang, go with the flow,..

..sakit man jud huna2x-ong second option nalng ka, pero saon tman, dinha rman taman ang imong lugar, so dha nalang ka maki-lugar.. luoy jd bitaw ang babae ani kay mura ra kag salin2x.. tsk tsk.. spare tire..

[crush_23]

yeah... its insane. buang na sa tanan buang but its hard to explain. im there man gud and still struggling to be free from that set up. i still cant. i love him.
i know im insane. coz sugot japn ko... he's getting married pa jd! pagka toytoy! but u know wat.. lisud jud oi whn u consider that person ur one great love. u wud never understand me not until u r n my shoes... dili lalim part. promise.

i know exactly how u feel and i understand ur situation.....u dont have to call urself "buang "coz inlove, u become stupid without knowing why......ur still normal coz u feel that way. let it be! of corz, soon it will be over.

think many times and knw what exactly is right for u...u r d one who's gonna make ur choice in the end...its all up to u .... gudluck

[ERomans]

looya pud oi..

[-CL-]

...haiz! lisud ang third party... how to make urself sane? just don't surrender all ur emotions, make ur heart numb for watever heartaches u may encounter and prove to everyone else and even to urself that ur happy....

[blueleigh25]

stay away from being one....

[crush_23]

who says we want that to happen to us man woi nga naay 3rd party....i have been there naa 3rd party. sakit man but i have to understand nga dili lang jud ingon ana ka strong ang love to each other kay why man na do na ingon ana.....

bcoz pipol seem to b not contented of what they alredi have and wud always b curious to try new things and not sensible enuf that they've hurt feelings.... some btaw ila ra taguon to their love ones and will have this line "what u dont know, wont hurt u" waaaaaaaaaaaaa

[cinder_ella]

being a 3rd party...u do all the understanding...

kaw pirmi mosabot sa imong partner...u will always be the 2nd option

but the world is round....dili lang ka always ingon ana.....

i think mura ra na ug competition basin pa d ay ma TOA ang bf...maanha nmo pero too little na ang percentage anah nga ikaw ang pilion.....

u got to b tough and strong

[makathy]

^^i've had my share of being a 3rd party in a relationship too.. i just didn't know that i was a 3rd party though.. damn! some guys just can't be trusted..

i just thought that he's just not ready to commit coz that's what he always said.. but the truth is.. he has a girlfriend of 5 years.. long-distance lng coz she's studying in manila by that time..

what really got me angry is that his whole barkada, who knew everything, didn't have the guts to tell me.. it took more than a year before the gf of his bestfriend told me that he had a gf.. god! i've wasted a year going out w/ a good for nothing guy..

he told me he didn't want to give me up.. but he didn't want his relationship of 5 years to go to waste either.. i'm like, what?! murag lapad mata na laki oi.. my answer to him is a big slap on the face.. ha!

i decided i can't be w/ a man like this.. if he can cheat w/ his gf of 5 years.. then he can do it to me too.. so i just let him go.. and moved on..

it's been a year since that.. now he's single again.. i don't even know if his gf ever found out bout us.. frankly, i just don't care.. now his texting me again.. pabatchag nman.. what a loser! haha..

[chenggay!!!]

gawas anang sitwasyona samtang wa pa ka nabuang!

[cinder_ella]

i will still try para makbaw ko unsa ka sayop ang akong gibuhat....