On Marriage

[NASYO]

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ENJOY, you're SINGLE once again..

[nonoyantoine]

marriage is not all about love...

[soft]

I think you resign to the thought that he does not love you anymore.
But, since you are married, as you say you were.
You should demand for your rights.
It would be irresponsible for him to just change his feeling without considering yours.
You should at the least be compensated for that.

Wait till he has his baby with her, then sue them for bigamy.
You can get money in the resolution process.
So don't be friends with them yet.

nge wla man ko money oi and besides the girl is too young para magka baby and the the way i see her maru man ang baye imagine she allowed na i posst sa friendster sa akong xhusband nga nag kiss sa lips almost naked and that was b4 nga kami pa...and when i texted her ako man hnuon ang giaway..i jsut dont understand my x.. he told me na im a wife material but how come nangita pa cya ug lain d ba? makalagot nga ambot dli ko kasabot sometimes he will say something nga mura mo balik nga dli..irresistable man ang girll pero he should have at least think nga minyo cya d ba?

[soft]

@soft

may you find your true love in this lifetime. ('c',)

thanks

[soft]

ENJOY, you're SINGLE once again..

yah ill try

[epoyking]

mura... kay wala man jud sa bibliya ang pagbuwag... dapat pakasal gani ka kana jud dli mo magbuwag.. ^_^

[Soul Doctor]

nge wla man ko money oi and besides the girl is too young para magka baby and the the way i see her maru man ang baye imagine she allowed na i posst sa friendster sa akong xhusband nga nag kiss sa lips almost naked and that was b4 nga kami pa...and when i texted her ako man hnuon ang giaway..i jsut dont understand my x.. he told me na im a wife material but how come nangita pa cya ug lain d ba? makalagot nga ambot dli ko kasabot sometimes he will say something nga mura mo balik nga dli..irresistable man ang girll pero he should have at least think nga minyo cya d ba?

This is not about the girl.
This is about him.
It could just be another girl. Or any girl or even guy(mas sakit ni! hehe).

There are men who are faithful, and there are men who are not.

Your husband is not a faithful husband.
One year pa gud mo.
You should be glad that he came out early in your marriage.
Maayo gani kay one year pa lang imong emotional investment.

Normally, after 4 to 6 years osa pa mo unfaithful ang husband.
By that time, taas na imong emotional investment
ug maglisod na ka pag-cope ana nga situation.

Don't hate the girl.
She may just be another victim, like you.
But I would pity her after 1 year
when he feels unfaithful again
and starts to look for another girl.

Kung ang lalake magcheat, there is nothing a wife can do about it.
Bisan prisohon pa na nimo, mo cheat gihapon na.
So it is very important to learn the values of your boyfriend.

Mao na ang purpose ngano makig-uyab kag dugay ---to know him more.
Kung naa gani hint nga maibog o molingi siyag lain bisan kamo na,
dispatsaron dayon na.

Tan-awa sad ang iyang ginikanan.
Kung pan-chicks gani ang papa,
dako ang tendency nga pang-chicks ang anak.
Unless lahi kaayo ilang values sa amahan ug anak.

[neox30]

u have reasons

[silver_bullet]

do what you want mam oi! to-o man ka anang hell hehehehehe

hell is relative...pwede naa, pwede wala

[Soul Doctor]

What you are going through now is very difficult.
You are experiencing a great loss or grief.
You will undergo a few stages of loss before you can move on again.
(I suggest you read about it in psychology about stages of loss or grief (sa Google).)
So you will understand what you are going through now.
You can also identify yourself on what stage you are now.
The faster you can deal with these stages the sooner you can move on with your life.