Affair with a Married man

[yiennahs]

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ang gugma dili kaputol ug kasal

[firstmary]

ang mas maayo jud ana kai dapat najud xa mu layo sa laki kai shempre ang luoy ana ang bata mn gud. maski unsaon, dili enough ang grabe nga love kung ang imu pud partner naa na diay pamilya. in love, we should also consider the right thing to do. we have to use our minds if following our hearts would complicate the situation.

[woga]

Maka relate ko ani somewhat... Separated ko sa akong na pakaslan nga babae, we are in good terms maski bulag na mi, and I still support my kids didto.... then naka kita ko lain partner, we fell in love and nagka baby mi... I am finding ways para maka lihok ko sa akong annulment, ang problem nko is ang gastos. kay daghan nko gi Buhi. Ok ra jud sa akong wife, mag pa annul mi.
As long as maintained ang support sa kids...

And with regards sa akong new partner, because she knew what she had gotten into, if she did not mind the papers nga married ko, then naa jud hope ma kasal mi inig ma annul na ko. Depende pud na how loyal imong partner nimo and how strong iyang patience ug love to hold on...

Sadly in the long run, mka think imong partner nga there is no hope at all. because sa ka dugay na, wala pa jud na annul. And Mao nah nga time nah mag sugod na ang lain napud na kalbaryo because of frustrations sa partnership, especially with regards to inheritance and support and stuff and settling down for good...

Make sure inig bulag sa wife, in very good terms jud sila... para walay labad sa annulment.

[fleur_66]

dapat putlon na niya ila relasyon, wala gyud siyay dag anan ana, makabalo ang wife maulawan lang siya, what if makakita na sad og lain ang laki og magpaka ulitawo na sad, kawawa siya.

[charmz_fire]

samtang sayo pa unta,.
ug wla pa siya nabuntisan sa lalaki,. dapat na jud putlon,.
kay in the long run siya ra ang makalolooy labi na ug magka-anak pa jud sila,.
yea,. it is easy to say naputlon pero lisud buhaton,.
but sa umpisa ra na lisud,. ang sakit d na mawagtang overnyt,.pero mawla na jud,.

pero if mgpadayon sila,. bisan pa wla jud ngtipon ang laki ug iyang asawa,.
kasal mn sila,.mahulog gehapon xa as kabit,.

if d xa ready as mgkabit forever,.aws,.dapat jud undangan na na nila,.2 sa gugma,.
sige go,. go lng ng go,.
na sa uwahi bitaw ang pagbasol!
pero ug ok ra niya,. kaya ra niya ang tanan alang

[lintanks]

I have read the comments. Some are realistic. Some very conservative.

First off. Human beings are polygamous. It is society, norms, law, religious pressures or constraints which dictate what is "proper" within the purview of the said environment. However, we do not need to be subject to this because if one really look at all these with bare eyes and knuckles. Simply said, what can not be done in the Philippines is perfectly allowable and legal in the USA or China or Japan or the Middle East.

How many "couples" are together because they need to, or they have to, etc. They are together under duress. They are condemned to suffer for the rest of their life. Let us all be reminded that we only have one life to live. And we have the right to live that life to its fullest. Not full of regrets or toils.

Personally, I believe we are all entitled to be happy. We are entitled to undo whatever mistakes or wrong decisions made when it comes to relationships, family building, living a blissful life.... without regrets. Regret that we made the wrong decisions in life, but also regret of not steering away from the wrong decisions we have made and to make a better decision in our next relation.

Just my two cents. I live by what I have written.

[lintanks]

True love allows us to grow as a person. It never stifles.

[lintanks]

I have had many a relation in the past. They all add up making a better person today.

[twalalyn]

engna imu friend nga adto-a ang wife kn tinuod bah gyud tanan gisulti sa bana para mahuman nah...kn ang laki gusto gyud sa imung friend?e settle nah iyang problema sa iyang wife ug kn imung friend iyang pili-on then padayon sila pero sorry to say but most of the tym ang laki mo stay sa iyang pamilya unless kn ang wife sa laki buangon sad.

[brandon boyd`]

mao niy g.ingon sa akong papa ay abtik jud ning minyo basta kabit-kabit... lupig pay ulitao ani nila