Relationship with married man/woman

[d.m]

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pls advise

[MrBiddle]

OT: I hope you change your username cos there's a user here who's also known as D.M. by his first name...

I'm curious you are a woman right?

[d.m]

yes....

[diem]

@mrbiddle, bro please use a little more tact...

@d.m, O.T. there is a thread for love problems, perhaps you could have posted your situation there.

d.m, if you don't mind me asking, how did you find yourself in such a situation? and if you do mind, i'm sorry... it's just that a little more information about your current situation would be helpful to come with some advice that would hopefully help you.

I can say this though...

I believe that everyone knows what the right thing is and wants to do the right thing but the right thing is often enough the hardest thing to do! So pray for strength and the will to do what is right! For what is right is always true, and the truth is the greatest freedom of all.

All the best, d.m, in life and in love!

[MrBiddle]

OT: Yup, I just thought she was trying to frame you up bro... :-b
I'm sorry.

Well, I'm in love with a lady who's commited to someone. Huhuhu! If he made you fall in love,then it will be most painful especially if he left you because he was to be married. But gave you your insufficient "dose" of his love....but if you have just been loving him from a distance, then I guess if he's married. It's time to let go.

[d.m]

weve been together for almost 9months already

he said they were already separated with his wife for how many years already but i found out they're still on the same ROOF...the reason,,,bcoz of his kids...I know he loved me bcoz every single day that weve been through hes always there for me.....i can feel he loved me....he was a very busy man bcoz of his big business but i did not demand his time,he was the one who give time to both of us...

he dont want to end our relationship though its really difficult to me to do that....he promised to solve his problem...right now,were not seeing each other bcoz i told him to fix his problem first....he gave me a specific time that he will fix this problem....though he wanted me to understand him

my question: did a give the right desicion? Im afraid maybe he's pretending

[MrBiddle]

So you let him go for awhile? Well,that's just giving him time... if he's offically divorced and you too love each other then why not go for it?

[diem]

@ d.m, you are really in a tough position to be in. you're in love with a married man with children and you're not sure if he what he says that he feels for you is true. of course, how could you trust him?

right now, i humbly suggest that you live your life as best you can while you wait for his actions.

i believe in second chances. let his actions speak for him. let him prove his love for you. it will be very difficult and you should be ready for it is a great burden for he has another family and children to look after. and if you get together and have a family, be very prepared for there will be consequences, karma and all that

if you were my sister, i would forcefully tell you to not complicate your life. this is too much trouble for love. you will be hurt and people will talk. seek in your heart what is true, are you ready for this?

I sincerely pray for the best for you, d.m!

[sexyjelly]

ayaw padaun anah imu gbati kay we all know it's not ryt and since na in love naman ka.. ask for gods help.. dako kaayo na nga sin if imu ipadaun...

[Dorothea]

pls advise

Paningkamuti nga mawala imong gugma niya.