AFTERMATH of a BREAK-UP

[acecrystal]

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@ abewtifulmind..you're not alone... ana mn jud na labi na long term relationship...

[jmaxdb]

Some hints on what to look for on a sincere guy.

1. Always looks at your eye not at your body.
2. Always adores you when you don't look good.
3. Doesn't always spends much cash for you to show you that he doesn't use money to make you fall for you.
4. Cry's when his hurt
5. Says I love you directly at your eyes

Dle ni cya au reliable.

Pero ako sincere au ko sa ako GF run.. og sincere xad cya nako... I don't joke around when it's about love. I'm serious about it.

my GF is one of my 3 Girl Bestfriends.. My circle of friends are girls. Na inlove ko sa ako bestfriend.

At first dle cya mo to-o nako ato kay basin binuangan ra nako cya.. pero I made it clear na dle jud binuang ako... mao to iya ko gsugot...

karun mo 3 years name.. and going strong... ^^!

A TIP FROM MY HIGHSCHOOL TEACHER:

"kung naa manguyab ninyo (GIRLS), ayaw ninyo dugay-dugaya kay feel ninyo d mo ready. If ready namo, na pul-an nana ang lalake ninyo..... sayang au ang chance....sugta lng pero ayaw daun seryosoha, fall inlove niya kanang uyab namo, dle ka mo fall inlove na wa pa nimu sugta... dinha ra na ninyo makita if sincere ang lake"

A TIP FROM A MOVIE:

THIS IS FOR THE GUYS

"Every guy can sweep a girl off her feet, he just needs the right broom."

good luck on your lovelife!

[aKaThIsIa]

very helpful thread for many of us who have undergone a very painful heartache..

since the breakup, i could say i've become much stronger..sa una, i always have second thoughts of applying for a jobs, especially abroad but now, i've become a risk taker bcoz of him..
wat i didn't like sa ako ex is liar xa..d jud muangkon na uyab cla sa girl..when unta, ok nman nko if nana xa someone new, i could live through the pain n rejection..what hurts more is the fact na namakak xa.
and to think naa pics sa fb ha na holding hands cla, uban cla sa mga outing, etc...
how could a guy be so insensitive?pro wla ko nag pa affect..kebz nq
worse, iya new gf is hi skul barkada sa ako duha ka close frends pag college..we have a lot of common friends..hahayz..small world

TS: same tah ug fear, hadlok makit-an ang ex sa mall na nana uban lain den ikaw nag-inusara..
actually, it really happened to me a few months after sa amo unofficial breakup..may gni nana ako amiga.niabot ra jud on time..pro ang uban sa ako ex ky iya male bestfren na silingan ra pud sa ako amiga na kauban nko.o dba?ang super liit ng mundo??

i miss no one. i just miss the feeling of being taken cared by a special someone..
time heals all wounds so let's cheer up..

[beyee]

that's good to hear jmax.. hope everything is well with u and ur gf.. and thnx for the endearing quotes

i hear yah thisia.. it sucks when you have mutual friends with the people involved (ur ex and the new partner) and of course, you'd hear alot of stories about them and that would hinder you from moving on.. from experience, i totally cut off all the communications even to his friends whom I've become pals with just to give myself some peace and space away from them.. and it helped alot on my part. I can safely say, I am better now compared to last year's turbulent times. Time really does heal all aching wounds...

Hope you'll be fine and moving on now thisia

For the others who are in the journey of moving on, this thread is for you to share your pains, heartaches and stories how you finally moved on

God bless everyone

*hugs*

[aKaThIsIa]

that's good to hear jmax.. hope everything is well with u and ur gf.. and thnx for the endearing quotes

i hear yah thisia.. it sucks when you have mutual friends with the people involved (ur ex and the new partner) and of course, you'd hear alot of stories about them and that would hinder you from moving on.. from experience, i totally cut off all the communications even to his friends whom I've become pals with just to give myself some peace and space away from them.. and it helped alot on my part. I can safely say, I am better now compared to last year's turbulent times. Time really does heal all aching wounds...

Hope you'll be fine and moving on now thisia

For the others who are in the journey of moving on, this thread is for you to share your pains, heartaches and stories how you finally moved on

God bless everyone

*hugs*

it really sucks beyee..but im trying to get there (moving on stage)..hopefully..
do you think it's much better na idelete nko xa sa fb and all our common friends? iv been thinking a lot about this lately, pro tngali makaingon xa bitter ko and wla pako ka move on nya..xa man ni-add nko balik gud and i think mubasa jd xa sa ako wall..

but you know what, xa ra pud niguba sa iya reputation at the workplace..people knew about us and then now that nana xa new (colleague jpun), ang iya image went from good boy to chickboy..i think mn sad ni take advantage xa kay very vulnerable ang gurl,gkan pa ug breakup sad..

how do u start the healing man? ive been praying to God to help me forgive him for hurting me..but somehow, the pain always comes back and there is always the thought of revenge, which I do not like..

[beyee]

It's only up to you thisia if you want him and his friends out of ur FB network. If you feel ur not comfy anymore then "unfriend" him and his friends but do it with conviction lang pod. Just don't be too impulsive, too.

Just give it time and don't dwell too much on the moving on part coz it will come naturally

[tenzor73p]

dghan man ta malearn na lesson after break ups dghan ta marealize hehe ana jd ng life it could be summed up in 3 words IT GOES ON!!!

[yummy_me]

kagawasan. never say die, tomorrow is another guy.

[yvonne6]

ang sakit sa una rana. akong last relationship was for 6 years. naa pa gyud mi baby. weird kaayu kay mag sige pa man mi ug kita kay gi share man nako ang bata niya. ako, wala pa man koy lain. i dont know about him. naay mga times nga ma feel nako nga miss pa jud namo ang usag usa pero gi pugngan nako akong feelings, lisud na balik na sad then mao lang gihapon. its been going on for so many years. mas maau na nga na use nako sa idea nga wala nami. it chaged me in many positive ways. i became more physical and healthy, i was overweight for over 30 lbs when we were together. after mi nag break, i promised myself to lose the extra weight and i did. i used to be 65 kls and now i am about 53 kilos and still losing. i wish to hit at least 50 kls. malipay na gyud kaau ko. i enroled myself to caregiving studies and im looking forward going to canada next year. naa jud nuon koy employer. this all happened when i deceided to break up with my 6 year bf. lonely ko but happy in general. now i can fit free size shirts. yahoo. ill post some pics nya here

[Heraldo]

This thread is very helpful to people who is in pain right now.

ang sakit sa una rana. akong last relationship was for 6 years. naa pa gyud mi baby. weird kaayu kay mag sige pa man mi ug kita kay gi share man nako ang bata niya. ako, wala pa man koy lain. i dont know about him. naay mga times nga ma feel nako nga miss pa jud namo ang usag usa pero gi pugngan nako akong feelings, lisud na balik na sad then mao lang gihapon. its been going on for so many years. mas maau na nga na use nako sa idea nga wala nami. it chaged me in many positive ways. i became more physical and healthy, i was overweight for over 30 lbs when we were together. after mi nag break, i promised myself to lose the extra weight and i did. i used to be 65 kls and now i am about 53 kilos and still losing. i wish to hit at least 50 kls. malipay na gyud kaau ko. i enroled myself to caregiving studies and im looking forward going to canada next year. naa jud nuon koy employer. this all happened when i deceided to break up with my 6 year bf. lonely ko but happy in general. now i can fit free size shirts. yahoo. ill post some pics nya here

Good to here from you. It's very painful because truth really hurts, kung mag balik2 lang gehapon dili jud worht it. Naa jud daghan na na usab nimu. Ako na experience ko ani gusto nako naa mausab nako. Atleast naa ka gepakita nga na usab nimu. Mostly breakups can help you grow more. Mo mature jud ka ba..