How do YOU say goobye to someone special?

[johnmarwel]

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gonna share it with you guys... I hope dili boring para ninyo... ^___~

I still remember the day when that person is still on the ICU... I was the only one who went in and saw the body and the nurses trying to save it... I was on the state of shock.. I dont know what to do.. I was just on the door, watching and wishing for that person to come back to me... and suddenly the nurse ask me, " E continue pani nato sir? 2 hours naming cgeg pump dri... pwede na namo hunongon? "
Damn!!! I was on the moment that I felt the time stop and that I was on the middle of a situation that I dont know what to do.. then after a min, got back to the reality and looked at the body... then I said, " Ok ra... papahulaya nalang na cya..." Imagine.... to make that decision is so hard that when the moment that I finished saying it, I felt that the world was on my back... at first I want to not show emotions... until I went out, someone ask me... " Musta naman cya? Ok na cya? " Not again.... I need to tell all of them... damn!!! and suddenly, I got emotionally freak out and told them that person is dead.... everybody was so shock that we duet on crying, shouting, asking the lord why... then another problem came... I need to inform my parents about it... until the body was brought to the funeral parlor and brought to the house... I was still shock.. I was deaf and shock of the emotions that overpowered me.. Sa adlaw sa lubong, I was expecting to be with that person until he will be buried but suddenly my dad told me to go first to the cemetery to prepare the hole... damn... I was force to do it because nobody can be trusted... Only Me!!! damn Me.... I just let it be... Until he was already on the cemetery and being prepare to be put inside that f*cking hole... I want to touch him but I couldnt, I want to talk to him but everybody is blocking me, I want to look at him but I was just given a glimpse of him... all I can say is " Goodbye jamy... Goodbye... " and cried in silence...

Usahay kulang kaau ato mabuhat para lang mapakita sa tao nga your willing to set them free... I know its hard but we have to admit it... They're gone... mao na ako experience on having a hard time saying goodbye... ^___^

[ramsgood]

gonna share it with you guys... I hope dili boring para ninyo... ^___~

I still remember the day when that person is still on the ICU... I was the only one who went in and saw the body and the nurses trying to save it... I was on the state of shock.. I dont know what to do.. I was just on the door, watching and wishing for that person to come back to me... and suddenly the nurse ask me, " E continue pani nato sir? 2 hours naming cgeg pump dri... pwede na namo hunongon? "
Damn!!! I was on the moment that I felt the time stop and that I was on the middle of a situation that I dont know what to do.. then after a min, got back to the reality and looked at the body... then I said, " Ok ra... papahulaya nalang na cya..." Imagine.... to make that decision is so hard that when the moment that I finished saying it, I felt that the world was on my back... at first I want to not show emotions... until I went out, someone ask me... " Musta naman cya? Ok na cya? " Not again.... I need to tell all of them... damn!!! and suddenly, I got emotionally freak out and told them that person is dead.... everybody was so shock that we duet on crying, shouting, asking the lord why... then another problem came... I need to inform my parents about it... until the body was brought to the funeral parlor and brought to the house... I was still shock.. I was deaf and shock of the emotions that overpowered me.. Sa adlaw sa lubong, I was expecting to be with that person until he will be buried but suddenly my dad told me to go first to the cemetery to prepare the hole... damn... I was force to do it because nobody can be trusted... Only Me!!! damn Me.... I just let it be... Until he was already on the cemetery and being prepare to be put inside that f*cking hole... I want to touch him but I couldnt, I want to talk to him but everybody is blocking me, I want to look at him but I was just given a glimpse of him... all I can say is " Goodbye jamy... Goodbye... " and cried in silence...

Usahay kulang kaau ato mabuhat para lang mapakita sa tao nga your willing to set them free... I know its hard but we have to admit it... They're gone... mao na ako experience on having a hard time saying goodbye... ^___^

bro makahilak man sad ta ana

[johnmarwel]

hahaha... nahan sad ko kipabuhagay akong kasakit... hehehe... wa man gud ko na istoryahan ana... hehehe... ^____~

[mikesanjose*poet]

theres no turning back... mao ni nakapait... let go, let tears flow....

[dimplesheaven]

hahaha... nahan sad ko kipabuhagay akong kasakit... hehehe... wa man gud ko na istoryahan ana... hehehe... ^____~

Only a few have the courage to share one's vulnerabilities....That really hurts and definitely not easy..

[luke0917]

ako ex ako g.ingnan kato pagbuwag namo na "goodluck and take care of yourself'..

[camzywinsy]

you don't have to utter the words "goodbye"... just tell her everything you want her to know and then go and cry if you want to.


Ambot ui.. basta lisod kaayo na.. Kasuway na ko but wa namo nakaya, nagbalik jud mi. Usahay sayop biya ang desisyon to say goodbye when you know naa pa mo'y ika-fight. It will just ruin a part of you kung kelangan pa mo magbuwag to learn...

so if you can save it, please do.

[johnmarwel]

@dimplesheaven
thx sis... nakamove on naman sad ko but sometimes makaremember ko nya... sakit jud nga kaw ang mo decide like what happened to me... a big decision that will hunt you for the rest of your life.. and di man sad angay ika ulaw... its an experience nga imo dad on forever and you will learn from it sad.. hehehe... i'm not ashame of it... hehehe

[BabyKai]

total silence... after telling me that there was a third party involved... i just walked away and never looked back...

yes... this is definitely the best... SILENCE..... sometimes it's best to just walk away for a while and not say anything.. because I am pretty sure that you have had a lot of conversations before about saving the relationship or whatever thing that was goin-on between the two of you....

But make sure that you tie up the loose ends.. break up the silence when you have already cleared your mind.. and when you are no longer filled with intense emotions... bec. we tend to say things that we are not supposed to say when we are still err.. emotional... then talk (if the other person is being manipulative or angry.. or whatever negative feelings they have towards you.. then don't until he/she cools down as well)... and once you're done... cut off contact and move on....

[ramsgood]

yah i agree babykai thumbs up for u