i need your advice..i have a stepmom.

[letsjust_talk]

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haha.. salamat mga bros and sis!!! pero karon, I'm proud to say that although I'm not perfect, I have withstood the test of time and endured all that punishment, but I know dli pa to mao. hehe.
Salamat sa Ginoo, ug sa tabang sa prayers, naka luag2x nakos akong life karon... maka afford nako akong needs and some wants
sa pama-agi sa pag atik2x(sa inteview) na hire ko abroad and I'm doing well, and I will do my best to continue well and hope to inspire many people.. to know that what is really important in life is to be able to survive, even if you're doing everything alone, that even though we know we have our life support group (our friends and family) that we should be able to function na dli mag salig sa ilaha. We should do what we can miski bata pa ta..
I hope na dli mo ma discouraged kay wala mo ka tiwas ug skwela..
kay if i was able to do it, I know anybody can!

I even have a confession to make.. Sa akong very first call center.. I was hired when I was 17. I know right now naa nay mu dawat ug 17 but kinahanglan gamay nalang kulang mu 18 ka.. but katong ako.. bag o pa jud kaau ko nag 17..
nag problema jud ko ug maau kay dli ko ka kuha ug SSS number..
so akong gi ilad sila.. akong gi ingon na 18 na akong edad..
fresh out of highschool pa jud..
I won't ever recommend it to anyone because it was a harsh life..
but I made it, and there's no reason that you cannot succeed in life..
and ako na pud napa korek akong SSS records sa akong sakto na edad

VERY STRONG PERSONALITY.
keep up the good work!

[fern-pewee]

@TS: im very happy for you. coz even you were faced by this big hurdle in your life wa gihapon ka nag pabaya.. you have God to be your strength. He protected you and you wer not mislead. you are so brave and strong and i really admire you.... continue to live continue to be a God fearing person. Divert mo nlang self mo sa school, studies and GOOD friends that will not influence you jud. way inom,way drugs wa tanan..dont destroy your future.. if i were you after pag graduate nimo sa imo course kng college naka take masterals take another course..build your life jud...then soon you will reap what you sow.
God bless you TS

[b1 huck]

kinabuhi jud tawun... ang uban pud parents wa najud tawun nagpakabana sa feelings sa ilang mga anak.

[Rom]

wala man ko nka try anah jud ky wala pman jud nag buwag ako mom and dad.. but gud luck nlang nmoe...

[edwin14]

nah!ana jud nah ang life miga bisan ako ako mama naay lain ako papa naa pd bt still i chose to be good bsta ako lng nmo ayaw pag dumot focus on your future way bright ahead of you

[nijazared]

Focus on yourself at this time...makarealize lang na sila soon sa ila mistakes...help yourself at this time and ayaw na pagsalig...

[tessF]

til ur dad about ur feelings. para maka realize pd sya na sayop na sya... bati na ang feeling na mag agwanta ka sa sakit or selos sa imo imo mga siblings

[iugarte1]

Just pray and be nice

[ilovedogs]

@TS ayw lng paghuna2x ug bad sa imong papa wui. mostly, though not all, love their children bya jd. sometimes lng jd dili sila kaau showy, mugwas ra kng naay mga super unusual things mahitabo nimo. and usahay, mgregret lng ta ngthink ta ug bati sa atong parents.

ako, although dili ko broken family, but it's dysfunctional pud. and at a young age i learned how tough life is. sakit, imagine na at 7yrs old i thought of committing suicide. and when i look back now, mgkatawa ko and im happy coz i was never stupid enough to actually do it (suicide is not bravery!).

now, im learning to forgive my parents for their craziness (unfortunately, one still is!), but no matter what ako bya sila parents. i just have to accept that and love them. bsan usahay sakit sa dughan, and im a person with the least patience jd, but i tolerate them as much as possible. kay dili ko gnahan muabot ang time nga ug wla na sila, diha pko makahuna2x why i never was a good child to them. or why i never showed them that i loved them. lisud na kaau na, ibang level napud na sa mga disappointments.

so as much as possible do what you can now. love your father, even your step family. if you do your part and at the end, dili ghapon diay ka maaccept sa imong step family, at least you know na you did everything pra ma-okay mo, and if God willing, they too would love you as if full pledge family jd mo.hehe walay basul kng gibuhat nimo tanan, dba? Godbless TS, i sense that your a good kid mn pud. jst be like that, and be more mature kay pra imong mga step siblings will look up to you like their real "ate" and dili mn pud siguro na buta imong stepmom, maappreciate pd na niya, siguro not at the extent that you'd want, but mama bya na, if she sees na you're not a threat to her real daugthers, mueffort pd siguro na xa nga mgkaokay mong duha. sa imong papa, i think the best way is write him a letter. usahay mn gud kng mustorya ta, labi na of stuff that is so important to us, emotional kaau ta and it might sound nga ngreklamo ka sa imong papa, mas maau if muwrite kag letter letting him know how you feel and that you hope nga unta, dili niya malimtan iyang first daughter.

[cassiopeia]

ingon ana pud akong life sauna ses. akong mom lang nuon ang naai lain na. haha well,sa akong case is pag 18 jud dayun nako nangita jud dayun kog work. kai same ta,di nako hatagan sa akong needs sa akong mom,mura siyag nakalimot nga naa siyay anak. so nag work nlg jud ko. na mature ug ahat ang bata. hahaha