::: Worth keeping if he himself knows the difference of respect and love.
Naai gitawag nga LOVE tika kai LOVE ko nimo og LOVE tika no matter what (fooling around, ngano mn diay kong love ka..does that mean dapat sukli-an jud nmo bsag u feel no love?bottom line: BE REAL), og love tika no matter what..(this is real love, unrequited kind of love but still chooses to love. If u know how to love then u know how to respect).
::: If LOVE and RESPECT are there.
:::Fickle-minded ang girls naturally. heheh
pero ako fickle-minded mn ko pero dili ko type nga ON and Off ang relationship. Coz once I decided to break up then its for real. No turning back.
Last edited by kimleeKINO_choi; 05-08-2011 at 10:12 PM.
follow up question:
what if ang guy naay gamophobia? like naa siya ph0bia on wedding? and he cant take on you to the altar but he really loves you?
define what you girls need? you mean financial? a successful guy in layman terms? broadly covered man imo definitions gud. hibaw naka low budget iq man gud ko hehehehe.
for me man gud murag its hard to justify na if dalhon sa altar ang bae it really means love na.
anyway thats me lang ha
ako if ingnun ko mouli kay mouli gyud ko hehehehe, ang problema makadaog ba ka moagak nako hahahaha
Mao na measure jud sa true love migo, well, para nako ra ha..he was able to conquer his fear just for the girl..(for someone nga low ug budget sa iq naa kay gamophobia hap..)for most guys jud noon migo to be in a lifetime commitment is a daunting prospective jud...well, as for me pud gud, dili man jud ko feel secured if wala kasal...I believe in sanctity in marriage and the two people who pursue this act should be irrevocably in love if not then the act itself will be null and void..like shotgun wedding..and other cases..ako pud naobserbahan migo nga ang guy basta in love jud sa girl kay gusto niya isecure pud ang babae by marrying her kay kana nga time the two becomes one naman..depende cguro sa imu perspective about marriage migo..and bro kana xa definition sa successful man medyo palingaw ra na ba..mura man gud ug ngita mi ug perfect sa imperfect world..hehehe...
As for what we really need..i can only speak for myself ha..i don't know with other girls...well, i need a guy who will be complimentary to my personality, then who can provide financial stability, and make me better person...hope masatisfied ka sa answer bro.![]()
uhm i think lain2x ug degrees ang pagpangluod sa girls, depende sa reason nganung nanluod... if major ang reason sa pagpangluod dugay2x jud nah maulian! however, i'm not the type of girl nga magpapalit just for me to forgive my guy... just one sincere 'sorry' and 'lambing' solve nqoe ana!
i think it's part of the test to some women who does this... basically, just checking if you're not hiding something (transparency) or checking to see if you guys are submissive enough to let us exchange sim/phone... it's a win-win situation mnxad, coz you get to check what's in ours man xad... so it's fair square
3 pinakaganahan sa usa ka guy:
- one who is smart/witty; fluent in english is a plus!
- wala'y bisyo (e.g. smoker, drunkard or addict sa computer games)
- someone who knows his priorities
3 things i want to do with him
- just simply sit right next to him while watching movies at home
- road trip to some places in cebu we've never been to
- be alone with him on a camping for a day or two
3 things (when naughtiness happens) you wanna do to him?
- slightly scratch his tummy or his thighs
- light kisses on his neck
- ran my fingers on his chest, circling his tits! hahaha
3 most sweetest word you had heard from a guy
- gudnyt princess! see you in my dreams...
- this time i will make things right... i promise!
- every guy should be jealous because you are mine...
- i super duper like being cuddled!
- your second question simply doesn't apply to me... dili qoe manghapak or do anything physical that may hurt my guy... awwww
Last edited by dropdeadgorgeous; 05-08-2011 at 04:57 PM.
Confusing and painful stuff...
There's this girl I really like that likes me back too...there's no problem there...we both want each other, the problem is we still cant be together...unless...she gets into an open relationship with me with the certainty that there will be other girls who are gonna "join" her...its too complicated to explain here...but I just cant settle down right now, and I cant NOT have multiple relationships, but trust me if I could just be with her and her alone, I would. It just really hurts both ways this time, not having her would hurt like crap, but I think having her will hurt just as much coz I think she'd be hurt every single day of the relationship. I'm really considering just keeping her as a friend or not doing anything at all. But I'm gonna ask questions first on if we get into a "relationship". So here they are:
1. How would you feel if you are in a relationship with a guy that you really love but you know, and I mean CLEARLY know you're just "one of his girlfriends" instead of THE ONE?
2. And if you were in this situation, being one of his GFs, but you knew sometime in the future that the guy will actually be able to settle down and have just one and that one just might be you, would that be enough solace?
3. How'd you feel if it wasn't you?
4. If he was the best guy you've ever met in your whole life, the guy you'd die for in a heartbeat, the guy you know you'd want to spend the rest of your life with, would you endure being in a multiple relationship with him before you can actually be in a proper relationship? (I'm not saying I am that guy to her, but I will do everything in my power to be that guy to her if I put her in that damn hurtful situation!)
Man its just one hell of a dilemma right now.![]()
Your situation is too risky for my taste personally but love is a gamble but if I am a gambler I would like to have 70-30 chance mine being the upper hand...Anyway, i hope this information will help...I am usually a very cautious girl, my friends would dubbed me as "segurista" and I don't believe in taking a leap with both eyes closed...I need to have one close and one open. However, when I meet my bf...well, sometimes when they say love can truly sweep you off your feet...it happen...and with him, staring just at his eyes, I could say I will jump not knowing where i would land as long as we are together. Nevertheless, those are just part of my assessment during the early stage of our relationship...things change as you go along..you go into deeper thinking and try to introspect the whole situation..in a nutshell, i will not risk a lifetime when all the time which i need to wait for that magical moment to finally choose me over them I am walking on an eggshell...well, I think you need to first find yourself and what you really need in your life.Maybe that is the reason you act like a butterfly, flitting from one flower to another because you are still unsure of what you need nor want. You can't have it all, you know..Forgive me for saying this but when you said you love her i really can't believe it because I think you just want her for your own selfish reasons. Love is not selfish. It is selfless. You think of the other person first before your own. Do you think it will be fair to offer her what you just said?
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