gurls, what do u do in this situation?

[RiXx]

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naka relate ko nimu TS. i feel unwanted kay he doesn't even bother to text, call, or communicate. i always do the first move. well, i can say na he is immature and not yet ready, and not serious. i always say to myself na lang to "stay on the same page as he is." so dili na lang dibdibon kay ikaw ray alkansi. maabut ang time na maka think ka about how unfortunate you are, pero i-disregard ang idea. don't let it linger in your mind. again, say to yourself: "i will stay on the same page as he is." if di na makaya, then break it up.

ikaw TS, weigh lang unsa imung gusto. if love, then maybe you are barking at the wrong tree. as for myself, i stayed in the relationship because of companionship. martyr and stupid, pero that's what i want for myself.

[BiKho]

ay mao d i nanampiling ka diha RiXx

[Dickiesss]

Feel ra cguro na nimo.. hehe

[jenny223]

kay tinood bitaw, ingon man si smart na FEELING niya

unsaon kuyaw man gud mo mga girls, mag feeling feeling man dayon,

lahe baya gyud ng feel lang niya or, na observe gyud niya

looran baya kaayo mo mga bae,

i agree sir..we girls are very sensitive sometimes, we tend to give much attention on every little details in the relationship when we feel that we give too much love then we wanted that our partner would do the same or even more..the more we girls give, the more we demand for a return..hinay2x lang,give but not much nor less..


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Tip: smart ayaw pag todo focus niya para dili mo develope ang feeling feeling neglected nimo, kay naa gyud ng time na ang laki murag walay gana mo spend spare time nimo, usually mao mana reason why feel feel neglected mo mga bae,[/QUOTE]

[hence, i disagree on the part na" kay naa gyud ng time na ang laki murag walay gana mo spend spare time nimo", coz it's a lame excuse..i know that every individual needs an alone time moment but it doesn't mean that you'll just reason that you don't wanna spend time your girlfriend..better choose a more justifiable reason so we girls won't find it negative like for example, you're busy doing something that is work related..hehe..just a thought...

[bowee]

its all about time management and quality lang...

there are guys who are too preoccupied with their own self happiness.. and more often than not, they tend to forget the people around them.. who loves them and needs their care sometimes...

I read somewhere before this verse:

We often are too busy catching our dreams and happiness, that we tend to forget that the real dreams and happiness is just around us waiting for us to catch, yet because we're too blind with our self elusive dreams, we forget the people who really matters most in realizing that dream and that happiness.....

[smartmart]

naka relate ko nimu TS. i feel unwanted kay he doesn't even bother to text, call, or communicate. i always do the first move. well, i can say na he is immature and not yet ready, and not serious. i always say to myself na lang to "stay on the same page as he is." so dili na lang dibdibon kay ikaw ray alkansi. maabut ang time na maka think ka about how unfortunate you are, pero i-disregard ang idea. don't let it linger in your mind. again, say to yourself: "i will stay on the same page as he is." if di na makaya, then break it up.

ikaw TS, weigh lang unsa imung gusto. if love, then maybe you are barking at the wrong tree. as for myself, i stayed in the relationship because of companionship. martyr and stupid, pero that's what i want for myself.

sis, diil man sad always nga dili ko tagdon. a little bit often xa ang mo call and text nako... for me, i want to love him more.. one time he told me nga lead and i will follow.. hahay! sis, i guess we are on the same boat.. the boat of martyrs.. hahaaha

[smartmart]

its all about time management and quality lang...

there are guys who are too preoccupied with their own self happiness.. and more often than not, they tend to forget the people around them.. who loves them and needs their care sometimes...

I read somewhere before this verse:

We often are too busy catching our dreams and happiness, that we tend to forget that the real dreams and happiness is just around us waiting for us to catch, yet because we're too blind with our self elusive dreams, we forget the people who really matters most in realizing that dream and that happiness.....

bro, the verse u quoted made my eyes teary...... huhuhuhu! i think he is just selfish oi... and i can accept it, as i have accepted him as a package...

[scorpia]

I'll let him feel how it feels to be like me, too... being neglected.
kapoy na sige complain... like when you complain you're still neglected, kalas lang effort ug laway

[schizophrenicpanic]

This is not one of the best ways to figure out the solution to your problem...
People in a relationship need to talk to each other, open up and tell each other everything that is going on. You need to communicate with your BF, tell him whats wrong, what you feel and work it out...
I know being neglected is a very hurtful feeling but the only way for the problem to be addressed is by telling your Boyfriend straight up! Talk to him, understand a bit and compromise.
Communication is Key to every relationship... Work things out by communicating with each other...

[yvonne6]

nature natong mga girls nga mo stay sa relationship hoping that the guy would see our value tungod sa atong gibuhat nila ug atong sacrifices. ironically, this does not always happen kay the more we love the guy who is treating us like a trash, the more na sila mag salig nga, ay, i really dont need to exert extra effort kay dawat man siya nga ingon ani lang ko. i was in a 7 year relationship and got a child from the guy, yet, he has not changed all these years. grabe jud. tanan kasakit naagian na siguro nako. only u can give value to yourself ts. if ur bf does not care too much, it only means, dili ka niya love. i know it maybe hard to break up but hinay hinaya na ug palayo and im sure there is someone out there who can give u more value. relationships are supposed to be making us happy, not miserable.