when can i really find someone who truly understands me?

[vladmire]

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mao ni ang lisud kung grabe ka-insecure ang guy.

same situation mi sa guy karon kung kamo pa ghapon.. hehehe... ing-ana pud ko sa akoa GF. natural ra ma-insecure pero lisud pud kung ang babae, pasagdan ang pagka-insecure sa guy. dapat ngita pud mo way mawala ang insecurities namo.. hehehe..

[yvonne6]

we are only hearing one side of the story. i bet im a little mature than most people here and i can tell you guys, there is always a reason why one person would be acting too paranoid. do u not wonder why nganong ingon ana ang girl? if a woman is really secured in a relationship and the partner is doing his best for her not to be insecure, bisan pag dili ka mag sige ug tawag, she is at peace that u r behaving. pardon me guys, not many of us will bluntly admit that we are at fault thats why our partners are behaving that way. its almost always natural to point fingers to others to blame not realizing that we have shortcomings ourselves too

[sugbuana]

If someone decided you are interesting enough so they would want to be able to understand you.
(reply sa heading)

One more thing, Understanding a person is one thing, tolerating that person is another.

In your case, don't suffer, leave and don't look back.

super agree ko ani !

[cp103]

practicality and reality speaks loud for itself in this situation sis... prepare yourself for the worse, because this relationship will end up broken, face the facts...

1. Your not growing in the relationship
2. The guy's a bum

Think about it, are you willing to spend the rest of your life like this? You might think advance ra au ang situation but think about it,asa ra ba gud na padulong ang pag.uyab2x kung dili to make your own family some day, and don't say it isn't so because if your gonna say that, then why the hell are you in a relationship in the first place?

Anyway, think things over, but don't prolong your agony, ikaw ra ghapon mag.suffer kung pa.dugay.dugayun lang nimo imong decision sis

By the way, don't use him as an excuse, because regardless ug unsa buhaton sa laki, if you really want out of the relationship, you will do it, PERIOD. No BUTS not EXCUSES.

Just my 2 cents... ^_^