bana naay lain sa abroad

[THE KID]

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asawa naai lain sa pilipinas...para fair.............

[baloy]

@ kengkay. do what you think is right and best for both of you. lisud imo situation but ug happy mo both ug magka sinabot mo then padayon.

[joop]

katong naa sa abroad ila bana, kung makabalo mo ba nga naay babayi didto inyo bang pabalikon? o pasagdaan nalang hantod maguba na inyo pamilya basta naa gihapon kwarta nga gipadala?

kung imo pasagdaan in exchange sa padala, love pa kaha na nimo imo bana or kwarta lang jud imo gihuna huna?

pareha ra pud ni sa ako nadunggan, dili lang diay na hearsays ako pa jud mismo na met ning mga asawa duna sad lain sa gawas he3x..one in halifax, canada then the sa spain ang isa.

murag way ugma ang ila panag-uban ang resulta bungkag ang pamilya
unya ang pinaka looy ang mga anak....paeta!

[Snowfly]

Just Sharing-

During one of my trips abroad, diha koy gikasakay nga young couple w/ a newly born baby pag stopover sa plane in Dubai. It was a very long flight from France. Halfway from Bangkok to the Phils. I noticed that the woman was sobbing/crying and the man was consoling her.

Because of my great concern w/ the mom and the baby wala ko maka agwanta nangutana jud ko why?,,,who knows my medical profession could ease their pains. After they relayed their story, I had mixed emotions, since the woman has a husband and 3 kids waiting at the airport when she arrives.

The man shes with is single when they met and nagpakasal sila sa Dubai para ma allowed sila to live together. They both have to come home kay finish na ilang contract. Very timely nga gipanganak niya ilang baby few days before the flight.

The decision they made was the best we could think of. The girl has to be w/ her husband #1 and 3 kids. The baby will be brought home by husband #2. Haven’t heard about them after that. And I wished all is well w/ them.

[Snowfly]

Initially, we must first examine the causes why someone would entertain an illicit affair and the effect it will cause to the family.

It's not always money. Everything happens for a reason.
A person longing for love or a person deprived or incapacitated of his/her needs would resort to seek other arms for comfort. Life might be too harsh but its reality.
“Other woman/man “ thrive on families whose husband and wife has no time for each other. They are there to supplement whats lacking from the husband/wife.
Yet, if we are already satisfied and contented with what we have NOW.. you wouldn't want to search it from others. Our family is our life's joy, pride and contentment. Let us always put GOD at the center of our family. If we are God fearing person then we can outsmart temptations in life.

[miramax]

Very well said, Snowfly.

Ang kasagaran man gud sa mahitabo , sakit man dawaton ang kamatooran but it's the allotment that keep our family back home clinged or binded us not the emotions any longer.

What I have observed is, motx lang ang pamilya if tingpadala nah.

[Snowfly]

Very well said, Snowfly.

Ang kasagaran man gud sa mahitabo , sakit man dawaton ang kamatooran but it's the allotment that keep our family back home clinged or binded us not the emotions any longer.

What I have observed is, motx lang ang pamilya if tingpadala nah.

Yes miramax, thats what I also commented at the other threads about the allotment issue, kanang daghan bitaw ug mga tugon ipapalit and sayon sayonon lang nila ug pangayo or mangutang, mora ta ug nag manufacture ug kwarta?

I do hope many families out there can realize it too nga sa akong na observe, mas na excited sila sa pasalubong nato kay sa the person who brought it. Regarding the text issue sad, sos mo text lang kon naay pangayoon bitaw but text nga mangumosta lisod para nila kay mahal daw ang load hehehe.

[CompTech]

mao jud ni kasagaran ron...

[PseudoSurgeon]

Mao jud ni nahitabo sa among family. Lain kaayo pagfirst namo kahibaw sa akong sister. Kalma raman gud kaayo nakadag tago akong mom sa ilang problema sa akong daddy. About anang allotment thingy, murag nagkabuang sad jud toh akong daddy at one point. Dako na kaayog kibhang ang padala, tungod diay kay naka-anak man jud sa lain.. Pero maayo nalang nasettle na karon.. Makaingon sad ko nga maayo rasad nagbuwag sila sa akong mom oii, kay luoy sad akong mama, siya pay among gikontrahan sauna pero iya rajud diay gitago ilang problema para di mi magdumot sa among daddy. Di ko kaimagine giunsa niya nga wa siyay kadamay atong mga panahona.

[Snowfly]

Di ko kaimagine giunsa niya nga wa siyay kadamay atong mga panahona.

I was touched PseudoSurgeon . I hope children will analyze first before condemning thier parents too, thats the best they could do in an ailing relationship, to be there when their parents needed it most.