I am so STRESSED!!!! Help me please!

[mokiloo]

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[khuahn88]

kasuway gani ko mas labaw pa ana, 12/7 jud... lingkod2 barog murag sekyu, pero abtan mag 2 yrs. haha.

[lainedram]

just smoke... call some gf's... spend the night together. hehe. Or have someone close to you to share your depression and to talk with...

huhuhu i only have one person to talk to but he doesn't like my work so i cant open up to him about all the stress that i have in my work.. and i dont smoke..

[lainedram]

Before we give you an advice, let's apply the Root Cause Analysis principle in your case.

If your job is the one that makes you stressful, how come? What is the nature of your profession, if I might ask?

The second question is, you mentioned that you cannot leave my job, right? Could you as well elaborate why you are prohibited to take such actions?

my job now revolves on real estate.. its stressful bcoz we just started our operations here in cebu this month. im on training for a few months and after that, i would handle the operations of the branch.. what adds up to my stress is the fact that after 4 months, i would be left alone to handle everything.

i mean, we have so many agents but there are only 2 office based employees.. i cant leave this job because this is my cream and crop..am i using the right idiomatic expression? i have also wanted to become a part of this company ever since i started working.

and another thing, my bf doesn't want my work. he gets too jealous about every man i meet. it flares up my stress..

[lainedram]

kasuway gani ko mas labaw pa ana, 12/7 jud... lingkod2 barog murag sekyu, pero abtan mag 2 yrs. haha.

hahahha mas lisod bitaw no?

[etzina]

learn to love your job.. eat healthy and sleep early... also it helps to be friends with your workmates para lingaw mo while working...

[khuahn88]

huhuhu i only have one person to talk to but he doesn't like my work so i cant open up to him about all the stress that i have in my work..

but the question is... Do you love your work?or maybe getting pressured? why man he doesnt like your work? ug unsa man jud ang imong trabaho?

[lainedram]

waaaaa......7 days unya 10 hours.....i should probably talking to my manager....not allowed baya na...maltreatment of employee mana....40 hours a week ang g require para mo work...unless you sign a contract na mo work ka for more than 40 hours of work..

yah.. legally it is.. contract wise, our normal working schedule is only mon-fri 8-5pm but most of the transactions are done after office hours and during weekdays..

if i wont accomodate those transactions then i might as well be fired from work..

[Eve's Apple Project]

you BF has some issues..basin di jud mo magdugay ana... you need a day off TS..
you can do it TS, you just hve to believe in yourself..the fact that the company is willing train you means they saw something in you (i hope, since i dont know you personally). you will not learn, or you will not know if yu can't do it unless you try...

10 hours a day...(ive done worse..).. batan-on paka TS..just make sure you have enought time to sleep..& if you have friends, hang-out with them. much better if your friends are you motivators, kay kung dili..sos kadako na nimo og problema jud...again..relax TS, then believe in yourself.

[khuahn88]

hahahha mas lisod bitaw no?

di man kaayo pero naay usahay. basta i enjoy lang jud nimo ang imung job ug sa sood sad ka sa mga kaworkmates kanang walay kaaway para excited ka mo duty everyday.. pero longtime ago naman to. haha