i like my officemate...

[sugbuana]

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don't be dragged by just the sweetness of your officemate.
Sa gina ingon pa " trabaho lang, walang personalan"
ayaw pud pakita ug interest sa imu officemate kay it would make him
feel na gusto niya ang imu gipakita. Stay professional all the time.
Basin mao jud na iya personality diba, den ikaw kay na dala kay coz'
you are not emotionally stable or not contented
sa attention na gihatag sa imu bf. I'm not saying na to avoid him,
be friendly lang just like you treat other officemates.
remember you are in a relationship. Instead, give your time and
seek attention from your BF. kanang imu gibuhat sa imu officemate
adto na dapat nimu gibuhat sa imu uyab.
don't show your weakness to your officemate,
maka ingon nua na siya nga vulnerable kaayu ka, mo take
advantage sad dayun na siya.much better adto ka magita ug
comfort sa imu BF.
You are making things complicated girl, naa ra jud a tanan nimo.

[EightEqualsD]

bati man ng office nga naa kay na ganahan ky di ka ka concentrate sa imung work hahahha

[sugbuana]

LOLz. wla man ko naghilak k para pa effect niya. na frustrate lang jud ko that day i think.
thanks for the advise guys.
and sometimes i find it hard to do mga heart to heart talk k murag OA ra kaau. hehe. or rather my bf baya doesnt like that much drama. hehe. basin ingon na sad sya na amards lageh ko. hmmmp!

talk to your friends.

[schizophrenicpanic]

naa juy muabot mga ingun ana klase nga tao sa atong kinabuhi...
nga murag "Bakit Ngayon Ka Lang" style bah...
nya ma mura nakag "Torn Between Two Lovers"
dpat alng mudecide ka ug tarong, kung padayon bakag pakig lambigit anang tawhana or no..
coz things like that can go either way... be careful lang jud sa imong himuon..
kai basin in the end maka kanta nya kag "Lonely, I'm Mister Lonely" aw Miss Lonely diay! hehe

[yvonne6]

we cant really find all the things we want in a person in just one particular guy kay if we do, perfect nana siyang tawhana which in a real world, does not exist, never will exist. naa siguroy close to perfect but somehow naa man jud nay flaws ang taw. its nice feeling that someone shows appreciation that your partner does not show u pero dili sad maau nga magpa ilad ta or magpadala sa atong feelings. men have unique ways of getting our attention. so careful. enjoy the attention he is giving you but do not go beyond the bounderies lang jud. its nice when u have nice people around you and they dont really need to be romantically involve with us

[Jaggernought]

Better stick to the one you've known thoroughly.

[Blackjellybean27]

don't be dragged by just the sweetness of your officemate.
Sa gina ingon pa " trabaho lang, walang personalan"
ayaw pud pakita ug interest sa imu officemate kay it would make him
feel na gusto niya ang imu gipakita. Stay professional all the time.
Basin mao jud na iya personality diba, den ikaw kay na dala kay coz'
you are not emotionally stable or not contented
sa attention na gihatag sa imu bf. I'm not saying na to avoid him,
be friendly lang just like you treat other officemates.
remember you are in a relationship. Instead, give your time and
seek attention from your BF. kanang imu gibuhat sa imu officemate
adto na dapat nimu gibuhat sa imu uyab.
don't show your weakness to your officemate,
maka ingon nua na siya nga vulnerable kaayu ka, mo take
advantage sad dayun na siya.much better adto ka magita ug
comfort sa imu BF.
You are making things complicated girl, naa ra jud a tanan nimo.

wait, wait! who said anything about showing my ofcmate any kind of romantic feelings? LOLz.
nothing changed in the way i treated him eversince day one. in fact, he knows na i'm undoubtedly loyal to my bf. in fact, sungogon jud ko nila tanan na devoted to the next level daw kuno ko sa bf ko. hehehe. if you read the last part of my first post, my question was how do i tell my bf to be more sweet without making him feel like i'm comparing him?
but thanks for the insight anyway, girl

[Blackjellybean27]

we cant really find all the things we want in a person in just one particular guy kay if we do, perfect nana siyang tawhana which in a real world, does not exist, never will exist. naa siguroy close to perfect but somehow naa man jud nay flaws ang taw. its nice feeling that someone shows appreciation that your partner does not show u pero dili sad maau nga magpa ilad ta or magpadala sa atong feelings. men have unique ways of getting our attention. so careful. enjoy the attention he is giving you but do not go beyond the bounderies lang jud. its nice when u have nice people around you and they dont really need to be romantically involve with us

thanks yvonne. tumpak jud ka everytime you reply to my posts.
shows that you actually read what's being posted. hehehehe. tnx dghan!

[orcgod]

@TS - your sweet officemate just wants to get in your pants. trust me, once magbuwag mo imo bf, nya mauyabnimo imo sweet "kuno" officemate, he will change like your x-bf. men are like that, pa sweet primero, inig dugay sa panahon tab-ang na.

[windshock]

hey guys!

there's this guy at work who's so sweet. as in super sweet jud ni sya nako. he compliments me, listens to me... etc etc... complete opposite sa bf ko. don't worry kahibaw jud ko sa limits ko. i'm not gonna make patol sa officemate ko, even though i know he likes me a lot. you know what i'm trying to tell people here, DO NOT TAKE YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR BOYFRIEND FOR GRANTED. usahay man gud, feel nato na okay lang not to compliment or be sweet to your respective partners k you think he or she will always be there for you.. well maau unta kng pareho cla nako noh, na although i like this guy i lot, i will never ever cheat on my boyfriend...

i admit usahay sapoton ko sa lack of attention.. well, i'm a naturally sweet person and grabe jud ko ka mag give attention to my bf... and you know there are always temptations galore baya. but i'm deeply committed and it will remain that way. but whewwwww! honestly, nahan unta ko my guy is as sweet as this officemate. hmmm how do i tell my bf, without making him feel like im comparing him...?

IMO the longer hours you see or work with your officemate you can compare how things were different from your BF, better know him well, sometimes true colors change in the end.