How will you know that your GF doesnt have feelings for you anymore?

[mik-osmena]

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How will you know that your GF doesnt have feelings for you anymore?

[jonz]

there is something really fishy, I think dd2 nga dapat i butang sa thread nga "love is

[etzina]

don't hold on to something that doesn't exist.. there's no love there, klaro kaau oi... kung ako ang guy, mubiya ko oi, and fight for the custody of the kid. verbal/emotional abuse is wayyyyy worse than physical abuse... may nalang gani that didn't stop him from being successful sa iya work... all he needs now is courage...

ka swerte sa girl gud!

[flowers4maegan]

gasalig ang girl uie............
ako na lang ka guy...joke!

bitaw uie, ang girl wala jd nay feelings sa guy...promise..ang iya gibuhat sa guy kay sakit kaau thats what we called emotional scarring...bya.e na uie....pangita ug lain kay daghan pang isda sa dagat...ayw pag.antos anang bayhana....
ing.ana pud ako uyab,,graveh..as in pareha jd...unsa ako gibuhat, ni-give up ko uie.......as in magsakit ako dughan makahinumdom nia...

[mik-osmena]

don't hold on to something that doesn't exist.. there's no love there, klaro kaau oi... kung ako ang guy, mubiya ko oi, and fight for the custody of the kid. verbal/emotional abuse is wayyyyy worse than physical abuse... may nalang gani that didn't stop him from being successful sa iya work... all he needs now is courage...

ka swerte sa girl gud!

Sis what you're saying are the worst nightmares of the GUY, but he already feels that the GIRL has no more love for him and its very hard for him to move-on.

The Guy is afraid to be alone

[fleur_66]

Gipul-an na siguro siya nimo bro, love yourself man you don't deserve such treatment, she does'nt deserve you either.

Don't hold on to such relationship that does'nt show respect towards u as a person, love is give and take. Move on and find a girl who will trully love and respect you. She should be thankful despite of her situation having a child from other guy, still you cared for her and give her everything.

Yet we don't hear the girl's side, maybe there's something wrong on your part too. Try to sit down and talk, if it won't be settled anymore try to have an agreement regarding your child. It would be best to part ways being friends for your child's sake rather than be best of enemies.

God Bless...

[anjerika]

dili man love sa girl ang guy... klaro kaayo. ma sayon sayon raman ni niya og ingon ana ang guy oi. ma loser gyud ning babae ba pag byaan siya. lol. a person who loves you will not, as much as possible, do something to hurt you. ngil-ara pud niya manulti oi. di ko mahibung byaan siya sa guy. sad kaayo kay some girls are not grateful enough for finding partners pareho sa guy nga naa sa taas. maski pag ingnon sa babae nga joke joke rana iyang ipanulti. mura siyag bata. hehe.

ask the girl kuno face to face if love ba gyud niya ang guy. and to the guy, please love yourself. what is your reason for holding on to the relationship? is it the child? lisod kaayo na i maintain na nga klase sa relationship nga long-term. if di maka change ang girl, aw sibat. hehe joke.

but then it's one side of the story only. unsay mga na experience sa girl before, or during her childhood and teen years, her past relationships, and even in the course of your relationship kaniadto could possibly be the reason nganong ingon ana siya mu act? maybe you can start from there in understanding her behavior. the fastest way to end an argument is to avoid it. di sa ingon magpa under lang pud ka, but when you stop fighting back, you stop putting more fuel into the fire. if you really love her, pangitai usag paagi ma husay mo.

worse comes to worse, leave her. hehe.

[mik-osmena]

gasalig ang girl uie............
ako na lang ka guy...joke!

bitaw uie, ang girl wala jd nay feelings sa guy...promise..ang iya gibuhat sa guy kay sakit kaau thats what we called emotional scarring...bya.e na uie....pangita ug lain kay daghan pang isda sa dagat...ayw pag.antos anang bayhana....
ing.ana pud ako uyab,,graveh..as in pareha jd...unsa ako gibuhat, ni-give up ko uie.......as in magsakit ako dughan makahinumdom nia...

Sis nahadlok na jud ang Guy and mura na siya ma buang og paranoid na mag think that the GIRL doesnt have feelings for him anymore.

the guy tries to analyze your comment and he feels that you have a point that ang Girl wala na jud feelings sa Guy. Pero ang Guy is having a hard time to accept it.

Yesterday, when the Guy arrived home, he then went inside the room and then he saw the Girl was still sleeping, but then he feels that there's something weird with the girl. It seems like nag dali2x siya or mura siya naa gitago and nag patulog2x siya. When the Guy grabs the laptop because he will use it, he was surprised that the laptop was about to shut down. which makes the Guy more paranoid.

Wala jud sila ga tingaganay...

Also, when the Girl was about to have a shower, the guy was sneaking her mobile phone and the Guy was surprised that the cellphone was on Sim Locked. He saw one message that naa ka kita ang Girl, bayot daw na siya according sa Girl. Pero gi kapoy na ang Guy og huna2x...

After that, the Girl kay nag ilis and ni lakaw walay pananghid sa Guy.

Sakit na jud kaayo....

He knows that there's something going on.. but he's just afraid to open his eyes.

[mik-osmena]

I guess this song would help him to have enough courage soon to open his eyes and accept the reality in life that "there's no such thing as perfect"

We often fool ourselves
And say that it's love
Only cause when it's gone We end up being lonely
So how are we to know That it just isn't so
That we just have to let each other go
There were many times
When we shared precious moments
But later realized they were only stolen moments
So how are we to know That it just wasn't so
That we just had to let each other go

If loving you is all that means to me
When being happy is all I hope you'd be
Then loving you must mean
I really have to set you free

Each day remains my love for you
Keeps growing stronger But everytime we meet
Makes leaving you so much harder
So how are we to know That this just wasn't so
That we just have to let each other go

If loving you is all that means to me
When being happy is all I hope you'd be
Then loving you must mean
I really have to set you free
Letting go is not an easy task
When smiling feels like
I must wear this lonely mask
It hurts deep inside And I just cannot hide
That there's anguish at the thought
That we should have to part

If loving you is all that means to me
When being happy is all I hope you'd be
Then loving you must mean
I really have to set you free

If loving you is all that means to me
When being happy is all I hope you'd be
Then loving you must mean
I really have to set you free


The only reason that makes him motivated and confident in living his life right now is His son.

People will see him strong, happy and has everything in life, but they're wrong.... He's so weak, very emotional and who's afraid to be left alone in life...

None of his friends and families knew about his problem and situation, because he dont want them (friends & families) to see him weak just because of a GIRL. I know its unusual for a Guy/Man to write all of this and share it here in Istorya, he's sharing this here, because he knows that people will never knew his real identity.

We know it sounds so easy to say "SET YOU FREE" and "LET EACH OTHER GO", but the truth is "that's the hardest part in our life to make that decision and It's killing me already.."

Money cant really buy happiness...

Thank you jonz, etzina, flowers4maegan, fleur_66 and anjerika for advising him and most of all making him realize that there's more to life... I really appreciate it.

Pasensya na, If I'm sharing this to all of you, Mura nakog ma buang sa sige og tago and loom sa akong problema.

Its the only way and output for me to express what I truly feel inside.....

If time comes that I have to face reality, I do hope and pray that there's a special woman that will love me unconditionally and will deserve for all of my tears...

God Bless...

[yonnis1980]

i did a double take upon reading this the first time. for i am also labelled "loser".

TS, your girl is not in love with you anymore.

now the pain becomes your partner for a long while..

condolences..