Should I let go of him?

[messy_babycate]

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mao ning resulta sa pag una2x ug PMS sa d pa sakto sa edad or plano...

these would have been thwarted if you would have known him well jud before you decide to give yourself to him... wala ta ka nagproblema ani and your free to enjoy your life as a single and carefree person...

Anyway naa naman ni, so going back to your question if byaan ba nimo imong partner or di...

my take is DILI...

Why, because deep down I know you still love this guy and it would pain you more if you would leave him and more so pa if wala kay makatambayayong sa day to day sustenance and living in supporting your child...

Try to find ways to help your partner find a job that can augment your family's income more... Instead of pushing and driving him away from you... Try to encourage, aid and help him find a job that can supplement your income.

Naa naman ka aning sitwasyona... Bailing out is not the solution to your problem... When the times get hard.. kamo ra sa imong partner ang magtinabangay aron masulbad ning inyong problema...

Don't treat him as a problem.. rather treat him as a solution and find ways to help him aide you on your day to day problems...

mao ra na akong masulti sa imoha TS....

God Bless.

Thanks sa imong advice bro. To be honest, super ni nako ka-love akong partner oi... I can see man nga maningkamot siya. Maluoy gani ko magtan-aw sauna kay asta basketball dili na siya kaduwa kay magbantay siya sa bata.

Kanang iyang bisyo naa nana saona...na-problema lang kog usab because I thought wala na. Almost 2 months jud nga nahilom siya aning bisyuha pero naa may nisulti nako karon nga nibalik gud dw. Mao namroblema nasad ko. Nagtalk nami ug ni-promise siya nga i-try niya iyiang best nga molikay na jud kay ma-tintal jud lage daw siya...So far wala pa ko kadungog nagsugal siyag balik.


I've been thinking of leaving him na jud...pero torn ko kay tungod sa baby ug sa akong love niya. Gusto nako nga mag-usab siya on his own pero unsaon man nako? Unsa man ako buhaton? If byaan nako siya mag-usab jud kaha siya or mosamot na hinuon.

Nagstruggle man siya pero gusto jud niya i-appreciate nako iyang pag-struggle bisan dili pa in-ana kadako iyang nahimo para namo.

[messy_babycate]

nagsige bya siyag pangaply ai pero ambot jud kay bsain unsaon namog paningkamot kutob ra jud siya sa final interview... as in ages na mi nangapply... mawad-an na gud siyag paglaum usahay tungod kay gasto kaayo magsiges pangapply.

[walker]

leave..
say goodbye ..

he is beyond talk..

[messy_babycate]

haaaay... sayun ra jud kaayo ingnon biyaan but for those who are having the same situation as mine makasabot jud sa kalisud...

[vyrene321]

hi ts. coming from a mother and a wife.. it's really hard to just turn your back and leave things out.. you know his shortcomings and neglect ion to his responsibility as a father and a husband/partner. sometimes if we have problem we cant just easily confront things out. we find ways to make that "problem" go away (mu kaon, mag shopping, mapaparlor). what i mean is. mangita tag ug ways para malingaw ta. makalimut. he might be in a denial stage to the situation. he knows his responsibility to your baby. but he might not accept the fact that he can't help as much as he wanted to(financially).. but in your story he is trying to by taking time to look after your baby.. you should talk to him.. go down to his level. he is a guy and most men feel that their ego is being attack in situations like this and no man likes it unlike us woman we can easily swallow our pride for our loved once. you love him. don't just let go. their is a child who is going to be affected on this situation.. try to understand and put your self into his shoes who know it might help. but if you think that he is no good in your life and he is just making things worst or he is just pulling you down.. let him understand your feelings to. and if you let him go. part ways peacefully coz in time you will still need each other for your baby. i hope and i pray that you will be able to surpass this trial..

[hayden]

messy it took my mom 18 years to gather the strength to leave my father, pareha ra ug batasan ana imo partner sugarol mas grabeh pa gani ky namapat. emotional/psychological wounds won't heal, it would build up giving you heart problems later in your life. obviously that guy is no good so while bata paka ug edad do what's right for you and your baby and think for your future.

[necrotic freak]

pwede paman na niya mabiyaan gyud ang sugal. pero dapat mopalayo mo diha sa inyong lugar nga wala na siyay mga kaila nga sama nya sugarol.. aron wala nay maka tintal niya ba..

maynalang gani na imong partner wala nag drugs.. ako gyud bayaw pastilan nalang gyud sugal ug suyop di jud kabiya professional man unta.. maluoy nalang intawn mi sa iyang asawa sa konsomisyon naa pod sila baby usa.. tsk tsk

[bzness_minded]

hi ts. coming from a mother and a wife.. it's really hard to just turn your back and leave things out.. you know his shortcomings and neglect ion to his responsibility as a father and a husband/partner. sometimes if we have problem we cant just easily confront things out. we find ways to make that "problem" go away (mu kaon, mag shopping, mapaparlor). what i mean is. mangita tag ug ways para malingaw ta. makalimut. he might be in a denial stage to the situation. he knows his responsibility to your baby. but he might not accept the fact that he can't help as much as he wanted to(financially).. but in your story he is trying to by taking time to look after your baby.. you should talk to him.. go down to his level. he is a guy and most men feel that their ego is being attack in situations like this and no man likes it unlike us woman we can easily swallow our pride for our loved once. you love him. don't just let go. their is a child who is going to be affected on this situation.. try to understand and put your self into his shoes who know it might help. but if you think that he is no good in your life and he is just making things worst or he is just pulling you down.. let him understand your feelings to. and if you let him go. part ways peacefully coz in time you will still need each other for your baby. i hope and i pray that you will be able to surpass this trial..

Agree with ur advice. Ur guy may be using his gambling time as his means of escaping reality. It's difficult in his part, as a man, as a father --not to be able to provide for his family,most especially w/ ur baby's mdical condition. Grabe iya frustration kay d jud cya mka sud ug trabaho. I hope and pray that in time you will be able to work things out.

[flowers4maegan]

adik siya s sugal..lisud kaau na...bya.e nalang na ue. im sure naa pay laki nga muhugugma nimo ug sa imong anak...

[messy_babycate]

hi ts. coming from a mother and a wife.. it's really hard to just turn your back and leave things out.. you know his shortcomings and neglect ion to his responsibility as a father and a husband/partner. sometimes if we have problem we cant just easily confront things out. we find ways to make that "problem" go away (mu kaon, mag shopping, mapaparlor). what i mean is. mangita tag ug ways para malingaw ta. makalimut. he might be in a denial stage to the situation. he knows his responsibility to your baby. but he might not accept the fact that he can't help as much as he wanted to(financially).. but in your story he is trying to by taking time to look after your baby.. you should talk to him.. go down to his level. he is a guy and most men feel that their ego is being attack in situations like this and no man likes it unlike us woman we can easily swallow our pride for our loved once. you love him. don't just let go. their is a child who is going to be affected on this situation.. try to understand and put your self into his shoes who know it might help. but if you think that he is no good in your life and he is just making things worst or he is just pulling you down.. let him understand your feelings to. and if you let him go. part ways peacefully coz in time you will still need each other for your baby. i hope and i pray that you will be able to surpass this trial..

Makasabot man ko sahay niya sis nga super naapektohan iyang ego kay wa siyay ikatabang nako financially. Almost every after ma-deny siya sa iyang applyan kay moistorya jud syia nako unsa siya ka-frustrated to find a job pero wala pa juy gipadulngan.

The problem is, he's not always open for confrontations. Ug mag-tigtalk ko niya usahay di man siya...I know dili siya kay he knows pildi gihapon siya sa argument.

Di lang jud nako malikayan usahay gud nga his lack of financial support would get the best of me..labaw na ug maglisud ko. Di ko gusto mamuyboy niya pero usahay I feel like doing it kay gikapoy na kog paningkamot.