Should I let go of him?

[yvonne6]

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sus, daghan na ta aning situationa. truth is, dili man kita, dili ang bata ang makapa change nila. dapat sila ang maka realize nga dapat na sila mag bag o. bisan unsaon nato ug paningkamot nga tibuok atong pamilya but dysfunctional kaau ang amahan, maau pag wala na lang. tutal maanad raman ng bata, double time lang ka as a single parent, dili sad lalim, pero mas dili lalim ang naa tuod kay kauban pero dili man lang makatabang nimo. irresponsable kaau, naa pay bisyo. kahilas ra sad

[BanshEe]

obviously.. he was not showing interest
of being responsible sa iyang family..
you can raise your baby by yourself..
dli rman sguro mother ug father ang maka puno
sa love of your lil baby's life.. diba..
naa kay family to go to, kng naay moy
misunderstanding sa imong hubby..
try kaha ug ad2 sa sa imong family..
and ddto ra nmo makita, if he really values his family,
he'll follow to fetch you and the baby to go home..

[juleskiboi]

let him go sis, i feel sorry for you and for your baby...if he can't even change his ways just even for his own sake, then not you, your baby or your family will...change should start with one's own self.

peace..

[bowee]

mao ning resulta sa pag una2x ug PMS sa d pa sakto sa edad or plano...

these would have been thwarted if you would have known him well jud before you decide to give yourself to him... wala ta ka nagproblema ani and your free to enjoy your life as a single and carefree person...

Anyway naa naman ni, so going back to your question if byaan ba nimo imong partner or di...

my take is DILI...

Why, because deep down I know you still love this guy and it would pain you more if you would leave him and more so pa if wala kay makatambayayong sa day to day sustenance and living in supporting your child...

Try to find ways to help your partner find a job that can augment your family's income more... Instead of pushing and driving him away from you... Try to encourage, aid and help him find a job that can supplement your income.

Naa naman ka aning sitwasyona... Bailing out is not the solution to your problem... When the times get hard.. kamo ra sa imong partner ang magtinabangay aron masulbad ning inyong problema...

Don't treat him as a problem.. rather treat him as a solution and find ways to help him aide you on your day to day problems...

mao ra na akong masulti sa imoha TS....

God Bless.

[cesski]

i would love to tell you to leave him but that will only make him happier. that's what he wants, no responsibilities.

[3dhunter]

irresponsible....sa bisaya pa...wa nay au..bya.e nah..

[alfalfa]

let go samtang naa pa kay chance and strength to do it. ayaw paabta nga "nalumos" namong duha sa imo baby. Your baby will understand later on sa imo pag biya.

[sha_ne]

let him go oi...wat a irresponsible father...he don't deserve u and ur baby...i knnow its hard for you,, but you have to let him go sis...

[Blackjellybean27]

i understand where you're coming from... sis, it takes two to tango.. if he can't help you out with anything, then what's the use of him being around? anyway it's your call, you should be able to listen to your heart and mind and decide on what's the best thing to do right now.

[messy_babycate]

sorry but inutila anang tawhana.......
you should've seen this coming..... or basin pod pag-puyo ninyo, mao pa nisugod bisyo.....

you're there for your kid....your family is there....which i think she/he needs.....

mao ni gi-ingon sa akong mama "kayang maging tatay pero di kayang maging ama"

better not get back to that aunt of his only to be declined twice.... reach out sa IMONG pamilya.....that should prove something.....ma-ulawan pana sila.....

anyway, that's just my take....

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I don't have a family...as of the moment ako ang mama-papa sa amoa together with my 18-year old sister. My relatives are not well-off ug labaw pang naglisud...haaay pagkapait.