favoritism in the family

[lovelygirl]

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mao jud ta sis, before intawn sa diary lang ko mag palaban. coz i have no one to talked to..and ako sis pa naay gana na mag cgeg pangayu sa ako mama, ngayu dri, ngayu didto. i tried man jud to help i even paid monthly bills pra intawn di bug-atan ako mama kay di bya sad lalim kinabuhi sa gawas.

same diay ta nagpalaban ra sad ko ug diary sauna..ug sa dihang nabasahan sa igsuon sa akong cousin..sige sila pangatawa...

[cesski]

ana man jud na. kung kinsa ang black sheep, mao nuon pinangga. kita nuon naningkamot ug maayo aron marecognize, kuwang nuon tagad. sauna katong teen pako, kaingon jud ko permi maypa magrebelde! pero now that i'm a bit older, i understand why.

[lovelygirl]

ana man jud na. kung kinsa ang black sheep, mao nuon pinangga. kita nuon naningkamot ug maayo aron marecognize, kuwang nuon tagad. sauna katong teen pako, kaingon jud ko permi maypa magrebelde! pero now that i'm a bit older, i understand why.

bitaw sad...

[Snowfly]

maka lagot lang gud, when will she learned her lesson..cge lang ko paubos, usa pasad mag cge ug tong-its, ako bantay bata. i feel like a stranger in my own home. i mean, wala rman ako mama. kay gianad man gud ako sis sa ako mama na dri pa cya. she always do things for her, unlike naku kay kahibaw naman ko sa mga lihukon sa balay. di ka malain ana? wa sad ko libog gud. hehe.i cant even said it to her face. may kaayu awayon..ganahan ko mulayas! but malooy ko sa ako mga pag-umangkon.

You can understand better if you will be a parent na rin, for the meantime, be a friend to your sister, she needs guidance kay imature pa sya, use some reverse psychology kay if imong awayon mosamot hinoon sya ka rebelde.

Talk to her in a soft tone voice,bring them along to church, park and window shopping,,,,,pag bonding mo, apila sya and the kids sa imong mga pangarap, help her build her own dreams in life , theres nothing to lose, afterall they are your family. Your mom would be very greatful for that. Just remember always.......

Whatever you do, please ask God for guidance. He cares and will always will!

[lovelygirl]

You can understand better if you will be a parent na rin, for the meantime, be a friend to your sister, she needs guidance kay imature pa sya, use some reverse psychology kay if imong awayon mosamot hinoon sya ka rebelde.

Talk to her in a soft tone voice,bring them along to church, park and window shopping,,,,,pag bonding mo, apila sya and the kids sa imong mga pangarap, help her build her own dreams in life , theres nothing to lose, afterall they are your family. Your mom would be very greatful for that. Just remember always.......

Whatever you do, please ask God for guidance. He cares and will always will!

bitaw sad..sakto ka..
pero sa nahitabo naku d man rebelde akong cousin..tungod lang jud sa kadugo jud sya...

[Snowfly]

[quote=lovelygirl;9194747]akong papa sauna ky palangga nya akong cousin na lalaki..didto man sya ga puyo sauna sa amoa...ky adopted raman gud ko nya kato kadugo jud nila... Unfair ug sige ko hilak ky ako ra sige kasab-an..ug sakit kaayo ug mga storya..labi na magpalaban akong cousin sa iyaha...

bitaw sad..sakto ka..
pero sa nahitabo naku d man rebelde akong cousin..tungod lang jud sa kadugo jud sya...

To me, you were just eaten up by your insecurities knowing that you are an adopted child only. Your papa is just longing to have a son of his own blood, thats why he is fond of your boy cousin.

Not all children are fortunate like you to have an adoptive parents who nurtured, raised and loved you since the start. You are still blessed lovelygirl.