What do you do if your past comes back to haunt you?

[nijazared]

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You used to be a playboy. You've settled down and you're happily married right now, then all of a sudden a girl from your past comes back and tells you you are the father of his child, then worst comes to worst, not only her but 3 others show up? And liwat man jud kaayo ang mga kids nimo...my friend has the same predicament right now, he can afford to have them DNA tested for proof but he's afraid if he is really the father, it might destroy his current family right now....

[z3robeLow]

he should be responsible for his actions..
if indeed proven, then if he's well off.. good. otherwise, goodluck nlng nya.

as for his current family, this can be tricky. it really depends how his wife takes it.
as long as these are all from the past.. past jud. dili current or while in marriage na, then
there is a chance na iconsider na sa wife. ni change nman kaha before their marriage?

[nijazared]

he should be responsible for his actions..
if indeed proven, then if he's well off.. good. otherwise, goodluck nlng nya.

as for his current family, this can be tricky. it really depends how his wife takes it.
as long as these are all from the past.. past jud. dili current or while in marriage na, then
there is a chance na iconsider na sa wife. ni change nman kaha before their marriage?

changed man na siya karon...because of his wife...as in undang tanan bisyo and bagong buhay siya because of his wife...2 years siya ga court sa iya wife before gisugot...the wife is okay man but siya lang hesitant, they are well off and that's why he's thinking the mother of the kids might be after his money...

[KASAAC]

nah! atubangon gyud na nya... resulta!

[nitwit]

i dont know if i'd say this is a coincidence but my hubby has been through same thing. we were still in a relationship when he was told by one of the girls he had one night stand with a long time ago that he has a child and the girl tried to get back to him and even tried to commit suicide cause he refused cause his got me and he never really liked her. she was married when it happened but he didnt know at all that she was married then all along she made the husband believe that the child is his till he died then the truth comes out. on my part i didnt really take it as a problem cause its past, he proved to me that its me and our family that matters now and whatever he had left behind is nothing. it doesnt mean that his got a child from someone else before he met you would change everything. it probably takes some time for some adjustment esp. when the child moves in with you but as a wife, i'd say i'd do everything that makes my husband happy without making him guilty or pushing him to abandon his responsibility. i mean, im just not that person and besides..its just lucky that your not in those women's shoe.

so for you TS, i hope nothing would change between you and your partner.just as long as he had that child before he met you then i dont think that would be a problem just as long as he takes his responsibility kay luoy pd tawn ang bata. di nalang damayon ang bata kay wala raba intawon nay labot.goodluck

[Cory1986]

what goes around comes around! atubangon jd ang gibuhat kay mo abot jd ang panahon nga mo balik ra jd sa imo tanan. Naa ko Uncle nga palakero sad au pag batan.on. sus, taga buros sa baye, dagan. maojd na iyang style sauna. kabaw ka kinsa ang nabaslan? iyang anak nga baye! ingon xa nga mas triple daw ang sakit! See? karma!!

[kuyabog]

naa ko amigo nga ingon ani. pero swerte sya kay very understanding iya wife...who is a judge by profession. ila gi adopt ang iya anak sa pagka playboy pa niya...ug karon they live happily ever after. the wife treats the son as her own ra pud. ka swerte...

[cassiopeia]

mao nana ron. nganung ni enter.

[anjerika]

mao nay gi ingon ka karma is a b*Tch. whatever you do today, good or not, will always come back to you. may gani nag usab siya pero sometimes it's not enough. siguro part sa iyang pag usab tingali ang pag face niya sa iyang responsibility and be accountable to his past mistakes. easier said than done pero mas madaot siya kung maglikay2 siya sa iyang mga nasad-an. i hope ang iyang current partner understanding and patient enough nga madawat niya ang mistakes sa iyang partner sauna coz dili lalim!

[kimleeKINO_choi]

banda2x ra ang gaba.